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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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1DPO - Please join!

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MrsRosaline · 14/03/2022 15:28

Anyone else at a similar stage or also in the 2WW? First month trying again after miscarriage so would love to chat it through with others and have some company!

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RMS0209 · 26/03/2022 09:11

@MrsRosaline thank you! will try be more optimsitc but got a plan ready for April if need be.

We must be the same person, every time I go to the toilet... checking waiting ,, confused when not! X

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MrsRosaline · 26/03/2022 09:09

Thank you @RMS0209 ! Just remember you only need one sperm to still be hanging around!!

Will try to keep busy tonight and not think about it. Although every time I go to the toilet I expect blood 😖

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RMS0209 · 26/03/2022 09:03

@MrsRosaline
I'm so glad I'm not the only one!
I'm 11DPO today and I could test tomorrow but I just cant handle not seeing what I want or running around at all these angles trying to find a line that is not there.
So sorry to hear about your chemical 💗
Sending you lots of luck if you do test tomorrow!
I've had different day cycles the last 3 months (between 28/32) so who knows!

I know but I just keep thinking we should have been trying before! We did "dance" on the Thursday but I got my peak on the Monday so guess I O'd on the Tuesday.
Who knew it would be so hard.

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MrsRosaline · 26/03/2022 08:54

@RMS0209 that's exactly how I feel about testing. I don't want to see a "not pregnant"; I don't want to squint for a line knowing there's nothing there. And if it's a faint line I'll know it's a chemical. I'm considering testing tomorrow, but with my last chemical my period came at 14DPO ☹️

Also- day of peak and day of O is more than enough!

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RMS0209 · 26/03/2022 07:59

@QueenBee22

That is very interesting, but as you say I find it hard to stay calm and happy with the amount of people who smile at each other and get pregnant 🥲😂

I think I am going to try hold off, I only managed to DTD on day of peak & OV day so I don't feel too positive, I think if I see a negative it's going to put me back again and I don't want that, broke my heart in Jan.
Hope you have a wonderful weekend.

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MrsRosaline · 26/03/2022 07:56

@legofootcasualty with all of that I'd wait and see!! I'm 13DPO today. Feels like I'm about to have a period though.

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QueenBee22 · 25/03/2022 21:47

@RMS0209

My GP told me that even when the couple are healthy, chances of conceiving are still very low and it is normal for it to take months of trying.

So many people I know seem to only have to look at each other and they are pregnant!

I am going to try and hold off until Tuesday or Wednesday if my period doesn't come in the meantime. I could still end up testing Sunday but I think in my own mind once I have seen the first negative I just assume I am out.

Hope to hear good news on Sunday for you.

RMS0209 · 25/03/2022 21:32

@QueenBee22
I hope we get lucky soon, I'd love nothing more than to be a mum.
I agree though I don't know how people manage for months on end 
Are you testing again Sunday?

QueenBee22 · 25/03/2022 21:17

@RMS0209 this is my third cycle trying also. I don't know how people do it for months and months on end.

Fingers crossed for you, hoping for good news on Sunday.

RMS0209 · 25/03/2022 20:26

@legofootcasualty oh I am taking it as a sign of waiting and seeing and being optimistic Smile

legofootcasualty · 25/03/2022 19:38

13dpo and not sure one way or the other, but haven't been able to test!

1 was faulty, no control line
1 I was about to buy but realised I forgot my credit card
Pack of ic's was supposed to come but got lost in the post

Starting to think I'm just supposed to wait and see Grin

MrsGrealish · 25/03/2022 18:13

Thanks @MrsRosaline will take a look at this now😊 fix for testing xx

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MrsRosaline · 25/03/2022 17:12

Hi @Lifeafterloss22 hi @newmama3021 @emsie8609

@Hello47 still haven't tested! I don't want to be squinting and lines and I don't want to know if it's a chemical.

@MrsGrealish I take wild nutrition supplements. They didn't mess with my cycle at all and have made me feel great!

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RMS0209 · 25/03/2022 15:04

@QueenBee22
That must be very frustrating!
Trying to stay positive 😊 I'd say 3 monthsish this time what about you? X

QueenBee22 · 25/03/2022 14:56

@RMS0209 I'm devastated at the negatives. Had a positive at this stage with my first pregnancy so finding it very hard to hold out any hope and getting worse each month to remain positive. How long have you been ttc? x

RMS0209 · 25/03/2022 13:18

@QueenBee22 I'm 10 dpo too, should test Sunday but scared of seeing another negative ugh x

CherylPorter350 · 25/03/2022 12:55

Well....my app says I'm 12dpo but I think I'm only 10dpo. Tested with FRER, BFN...thinking I'm out!!

Onto cycle 2

MrsGrealish · 25/03/2022 12:47

@MrsRosaline what fertility supplement do you use if u don't mind me asking!

QueenBee22 · 25/03/2022 11:31

Thank you @Cheeeeeeeks

| also got a BFN today at 10DPO but your story has made me have some hope. I am going to try hold out on testing for another few days.

emsie8609 · 25/03/2022 11:14

The literally as soon as I send that message I get some light spotting so im guess I'm out for this month afterall! 😢 well atleast i didnt waste a test. X

emsie8609 · 25/03/2022 10:50

Hi ladies can I join? 11dpo and trying desperately not to test. Chemical pregnancies last month and Jan. TTC baby no 2! Congrats on all the BFP so far 💖 xx

RMS0209 · 25/03/2022 07:36

@newmama3021

Hi ladies, can I please join?

I'm currently 5 dpo and can't seem to get my mind off taking a test or fast forwarding to next friday. I keep checking ff and other charts like mine, but none of that really matters until I enter the next few bbts and eventually take a hpt next friday Hmm

@newmama3021 Hi! You sound just like me . Sending you lots of luck x
PeanuttyButter · 25/03/2022 07:11

Congratulations @Cheeeeeeeks fingers crossed for a sticky bean xx

Sorry AF for you @MrsGrealish

newmama3021 · 25/03/2022 03:56

Hi ladies, can I please join?

I'm currently 5 dpo and can't seem to get my mind off taking a test or fast forwarding to next friday. I keep checking ff and other charts like mine, but none of that really matters until I enter the next few bbts and eventually take a hpt next friday Hmm

Cheeeeeeeks · 24/03/2022 22:05

@QueenBee22 9dpo is early, I got a bfn too but then at 10dpo a very faint line

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