My husband & I have been together 11 & a half years, married for 6 & have a son each (ages 18 & 20). I ruled out another baby right at the beginning of our relationship but now I'm 37 & he's 41 we are wondering if we made the right decision & if it's too late. I'm interested to hear from couples in a similar position. I keep thinking it would be better if it just happened by accident as we would cope somehow, but actually making the decision is difficult as childcare to think of, money, support etc. I'm in a well paid job, my husband is ok but I still think if we both worked full time or paying full time nursery we wouldn't have much left over. I don't want to have to cut days down at work really and even if I did it would still involve expensive child care...