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Hoping For a BFP in April

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FreckledMouse · 07/03/2022 20:13

Making a new thread from the March group ♥️

I'm on CD 1, Cycle 11 of TTC our first 👶🏼
Had a MC in February
Ectopic last July with right tube removal
I have endometriosis (and I suspect low progesterone)

Trying to stay positive and think fresh cycle, my body probably needed this after the MC and its a fresh start ✨

Baby dust ✨🤞🏼✨🤞🏼✨🤞🏼✨🤞🏼✨

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HeatherSnixx · 04/05/2022 20:25

Hey ladies, just popping on this thread for a bit of hope, had a MC In April and all hope has gone down the drain, reading your messages have really helped me bring it back, as we’re still trying! Had another insemination on the 1st of may so fingers crossed and baby dust to all! 🤞🏻💜💚

Hopefulprincess · 02/05/2022 18:30

Are these positive? Took at the same time cd 11

Hoping For a BFP in April
Mania42b · 27/04/2022 09:00

My Af also started ....cd3 today will join May thread

MissBlue93 · 26/04/2022 05:57

There is a May thread ladies, just type in 'Hoping for a BFP in May' and it'll come up, it's a nice busy one too!

Hopefulprincess · 26/04/2022 00:35

@MissBlue93 sounds like it! You get awful cramps just before af and day 1. I hate seeing the lines then af comes I always say don’t test don’t test then you won’t know but I just can’t help myself 🙄 we didn’t dtd on the right time this month so I’m hoping next week we can atleast twice beginning/end of the fertile window it falls! Nightmare with him going away ect but 🤞

Hopefulprincess · 26/04/2022 00:31

If there’s a link to may thread can someone post it please xx

Loopz66 · 25/04/2022 22:34

Hey All

Just been catching up on all the chat tonight, congrats to any BFPs ☺️

I’ve been trying to keep myself distracted from TTC/baby talk during my TWW but as soon as im not busy it’s all I can think about 🤦🏻‍♀️ It’s soul destroying at times.

Like you said @Brunette1989 a lot of us in the same situation and have been TTC for a while now it’s great to have somewhere to chat about it.

Driving myself insane at the moment my AF is due on Thursday but zero symptoms so have a feeling this isn’t my month.

Hope there will be another chat for May 🤞

Good luck everyone ❤️

Brunette1989 · 25/04/2022 21:23

Thanks for all the lovely messages everyone really appreciate it as I have been quite down about it all. Just got really hopeful and then deflated. I think a few of us are in the same boat with it being a long time trying so it's nice to have some support. Thankyou everyone 😊

Missy95 · 25/04/2022 20:17

Hi ladies, my mumsnet app seems to be down, so im really struggling to catch up on/see any messages! Congratulations to anyone with BFPs and big hugs to those moving onto another month!

This month I was 4 days late, I had intense back pain, sore boobs.. I didn’t test but came on anyway. So I have been in a bit of a depression since 🙈 trying to think positively for next month, but I think thats month 16/17, patience is wearing thin and im struggling with the emotional side of things so much 🙈
Nevertheless, these posts often help as the support is so greatly appreciated! Is there a thread for BFPs in May? (Also my birthday month so fingers crossed!).
Sending baby dust to you all ✨

Kitty901 · 25/04/2022 19:26

@Hopefulprincess i am with you on that obsession 🤣

MissBlue93 · 25/04/2022 18:55

Hopefulprincess · 25/04/2022 17:27

@MissBlue93 so sorry 😞 you had good faint lines too . The downside to testing early is the chemicals . Xxxx

Yes I do wonder if it was chemical as I had a lot of intense cramping that I never usually get with AF. This time I will be waiting until at least 9DPO and I'm tracking with OPKs and BBT this time x

Hopefulprincess · 25/04/2022 17:29

@Kitty901 no subscription just an obsession 😅 does that make it ok? 🤷‍♀️

Hopefulprincess · 25/04/2022 17:27

@MissBlue93 so sorry 😞 you had good faint lines too . The downside to testing early is the chemicals . Xxxx

Hopefulprincess · 25/04/2022 17:24

@Brunette1989 so sorry 🥺 good luck for this cycle

Hopefulprincess · 25/04/2022 17:23

Cd4 here af came few days late! Is there a next thread?

Kitty901 · 25/04/2022 16:08

Sassy144 · 25/04/2022 15:55

@Kitty901 mine is due a few days before hubby's birthday and I've thought how nice it would be to be able to surprise him with that as a present 😭 my fingers are crossed for you.

Thank you, fingers crossed for you too and everyone else on here...we all deserve that happiness! X

Sassy144 · 25/04/2022 15:55

@Kitty901 mine is due a few days before hubby's birthday and I've thought how nice it would be to be able to surprise him with that as a present 😭 my fingers are crossed for you.

Kitty901 · 25/04/2022 15:52

Brunette1989 · 25/04/2022 15:38

Hi Ladies,
Hope you're all okay 😊 I had a very stressful weekend with AF. Was due on Saturday and I always come on first thing in the morning I'm due so I have a cry and carry on my day. This Saturday nothing. Been 27 days bang on for the last 4 months so I was like ooooh. Waited all day nothing, did the 2 tests I had at home negative. Went and bought a 6 day early test- not pregnant. Then Sunday morning she arrives! Just very deflated as I tried not to get my hopes up but I've just been like clockwork the last few months so really thought that was it, was planning how i was going to tell my partner and everything. Has anyone else had cycle dates just randomly change?
is there a May thread made as i will need to hop onto that one to see how everyone gets on. Lots of love to everyone through this rollercoaster journey xxx

I imagine telling hubby every month i am close to AF then she shows! It is so frustrating and disappointing. This month my AF is due on his bday, i would probably cry my eyes out if she shows, really want that to be his present.

Sassy144 · 25/04/2022 15:49

@Brunette1989 I'm really sorry, that's so unfair! Could you possibly have ovulated a day later than you thought? Otherwise cycles can just vary randomly I'm sure!

Brunette1989 · 25/04/2022 15:38

Hi Ladies,
Hope you're all okay 😊 I had a very stressful weekend with AF. Was due on Saturday and I always come on first thing in the morning I'm due so I have a cry and carry on my day. This Saturday nothing. Been 27 days bang on for the last 4 months so I was like ooooh. Waited all day nothing, did the 2 tests I had at home negative. Went and bought a 6 day early test- not pregnant. Then Sunday morning she arrives! Just very deflated as I tried not to get my hopes up but I've just been like clockwork the last few months so really thought that was it, was planning how i was going to tell my partner and everything. Has anyone else had cycle dates just randomly change?
is there a May thread made as i will need to hop onto that one to see how everyone gets on. Lots of love to everyone through this rollercoaster journey xxx

Kitty901 · 24/04/2022 23:29

I am sorry to hear that, it is really heartbreaking! All the best to you both for your next cycle xx

MissBlue93 · 24/04/2022 11:32

AF arrived today!

See you on the May thread!

kizzy97 · 24/04/2022 11:12

The witch has got me today 4 days late 😭😭 kinda glad I didn't test now, really starting to feel it's never going to happen and deflated that I'm looking at a 23 baby (was hoping for 3 year age gaps but looking at just under 5 now) good luck and baby dust to everyone yet to test! xx

MissBlue93 · 23/04/2022 22:54

Kitty901 · 23/04/2022 22:41

@MissBlue93 these are good and show the same as CB digital, i finished my CB and not going to buy anymore as no point. Just sticking to easy at home. Good luck to you too xx

Yeah I've got a couple CB digital tests left but not going to bother taking them as I know I'm not pregnant! Waiting for AF 🥲

Kitty901 · 23/04/2022 22:41

@MissBlue93 these are good and show the same as CB digital, i finished my CB and not going to buy anymore as no point. Just sticking to easy at home. Good luck to you too xx