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Starting the TWW. Anybody want to join???

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Gillseybear · 07/03/2022 18:07

Hey all,

Simple post really, according to Flo and my current symptoms, I am due to ovulate today or tomorrow. Still trying to figure out OPK's and so not really been using them.

Just wondered if anybody wanted to go through the Two week window with me.

Have dtd a few times over the past few days and so hoping to have some luck this cycle.

Baby dust to all of you

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alwaysseeingstars · 23/03/2022 09:01

@Gillseybear stay strong and make sure you're looking after yourself, not his family or anyone else. It must be such an emotional upheaval if he's not acted like this before. Sending good thoughts & strength :)

@Cheeeeeeeks ooh, congrats!!!

I've had a VERY faint line on a test today but it's Clearblue (only one I had as it came with the ov test) - there was definitely something there easily within the time frame, but it is slightly clearer after the time frame and very thin so I think it's an evap Sad

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 20:55

@BuchananBaby 10dpo ovia app is predicting 4th December but I think it's end of November. Hehe we are so impatient looool

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Gillseybear · 22/03/2022 20:14

@Cheeeeeeeks congratulations to you.

I shall be picking some tests up tomorrow and testing on Thursday.

He has never laid his hands on me before but he has been over using the tablets he has been prescribed after having 4 teeth out and that's what has contributed to it. It's been a tough day and I have spent al day dealing with his family and the police. After 1 hours sleep I am exhausted. So looking foreword to going to bed when I get home. I had to drop some stuff off to him so that's been hard as I was not ready to see him. But he is not allowed anywhere near me now until CPS comes back with a charging decision.

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BuchananBaby · 22/03/2022 20:10

@Cheeeeeeeks how many dpo are you? When's your due date? I got buzzing looking at mine 🙈😂 glad you told your husband I couldn't wait I just came down with the test 😂

@Gillseybear I'm so sorry I really hope it all works itself out just remember you're worth more better than that ❤

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 19:49

@Excited101 I knooooooo, I couldn't fight the urge to not test, more symptoms started showing up. One main one was yesterday afternoon (after testing negative in the morning) was crave for irn bru👀 and those dull aches. Will be testing again tomorrow morning. I told my husband with happy tears lol

@Gillseybear I hope it all works out for you, honestly guys like him make my blood boil😡 stay safe x

Excited101 · 22/03/2022 18:42

Omg @Cheeeeeeeks this is so exciting for you!!!! It’s not even Friday yet! 🤣

@Gillseybear please be kind to yourself, I hope you are going to LTB (sorry if I’ve missed a post about it) you cannot plan to bring a baby into an unsafe relationship. You deserve so much more 💐

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 18:34

@BuchananBaby just an IC tho... My husband just got home from work, haven't said anything yet!!! Wanna confirm it with a Frer or CB tho! His birthday next month might wait till then, but I'm about to burst it out!!!

BuchananBaby · 22/03/2022 18:29

@Cheeeeeeeks OMG 😍😍😍❤ congratulations!!

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 18:20

Eeeeeeeeeeek!!!! The faintest line?🤔

Starting the TWW. Anybody want to join???
Starting the TWW. Anybody want to join???
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Gillseybear · 22/03/2022 17:11

[quote Cheeeeeeeks]@Gillseybear omg!!! WTF??? He should be in a police cell! It must be so stressful for you. I hope he isn't someone your TTC with???? Red flags love!!! Get away while you can, it will only get worse!!!! Tummy upset is probably because of all the stress your going through![/quote]
Yeah I believe it's al realated to that and the fact that I ate a shit tone of ice cream at 4am as I could not eat and was super upset. I just needed a distraction to cope.

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Gillseybear · 22/03/2022 17:09

@BuchananBaby @Cheeeeeeeks @alwaysseeingstars thank you so much for your reply's.
Unfortunately yes he is my fiancé and the man I have been TTC with. The police were supposed to ring me before he was bailed and I have had no warning and he has just messaged me asking if I can drop stuff of to him at the hotel he has been put in. I do not want to see him or do it and so I am trying to get through to the police to see if they can come and pick his stuff up and drop it off. He has been banned from being on the street I live on as part of his bail conditions amongst other things.
I am a complete mess today and it's been awful. I feel like crap and I now have to deal wi the whole process of waiting for CPS to deal with the evidence ect and then I will probably have to go to court and give evidence.

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alwaysseeingstars · 22/03/2022 16:50

oh gosh @Gillseybear I really hope you're okay, look after yourself. It must have been bad if he's still in a cell Angry xx

BuchananBaby · 22/03/2022 16:30

@Gillseybear OMG what an awful situation! I hope you're okay ❤

Totally agree with @Cheeeeeeeks get rid of the loser! Absolutely not acceptable.

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 16:26

@Gillseybear omg!!! WTF??? He should be in a police cell! It must be so stressful for you. I hope he isn't someone your TTC with???? Red flags love!!! Get away while you can, it will only get worse!!!! Tummy upset is probably because of all the stress your going through!

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Gillseybear · 22/03/2022 16:17

[quote Cheeeeeeeks]@Excited101 haha just like me then, I tested Sunday night and Monday morning. Really resisting the urge to test. Starting to feel these dull aches again (similar to ones when I was expecting with DD). My ovia app says test in 2 days so Thursday morning. Although I still think that's early as AF not due till Monday.

@Gillseybear sorry to hear your still ill! EWCM at this stage could be implantation? When is AF due? Defo a good idea to check in with Docs[/quote]
@Cheeeeeeeks AF is due tomorrow according to Flo but I am only cycle day 25 and so I have no idea of or when I will actually come on. I did not realise EWCM could be a sign of implantation. I will defo keep an eye on it.

I have had the worst night going. My partner got arrested for assaulting me last night and is currently in a police cell. I am a mess and feel like shit and cramps are awful today. I have a really upset tummy and so I cannot work out if it's IBS or AF cramps

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Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 15:51

@Excited101 I think I got lucky with DD it happened on the first try and I didn't really symptom spot although I did log symptoms I had, I was convinced I wasn't and was telling DH we need to try more actively the following month. N surprise BFP. So there's always a chance of it happening at the first try.
This is our first month of trying with baby no.2 and where it was quick last time I'm convinced it will be the same but I know I'm getting my hopes up and will be devastated if I'm not.

Excited101 · 22/03/2022 15:45

You sound a lot more likely with the aches then @Cheeeeeeeks I don’t feel anything! (Apart from headachy, bloody sinusitis!) I mean, it would be fairly amazing to be lucky on the first month but I thought maybe…

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 15:36

@Excited101 haha just like me then, I tested Sunday night and Monday morning. Really resisting the urge to test. Starting to feel these dull aches again (similar to ones when I was expecting with DD). My ovia app says test in 2 days so Thursday morning. Although I still think that's early as AF not due till Monday.

@Gillseybear sorry to hear your still ill! EWCM at this stage could be implantation? When is AF due? Defo a good idea to check in with Docs

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Gillseybear · 21/03/2022 20:26

[quote BuchananBaby]@RMS0209 sending baby dust to you all 🥰

@Gillseybear thank you so much ❤ I'm glad you're feeling a bit better fingers crossed for you 🤞

@Excited101 thank you lovely 🥰, I was so shocked to see two lines honestly I wasn't feeling it this month at all still in disbelief if I'm honest my poor partner isn't getting his hopes up because we had an early mc in January but this feels different so I think it'll all be okay ❤[/quote]
@BuchananBaby thank you so much I just want the flu to go away now.
I went to the toilet early and had EWCM with blood mixed in which was weird. If AF arrives as normal then I will defo be ringing my doctors and speaking to them because something is not right with my cycles at the moment and it's really annoying when TTC

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BuchananBaby · 21/03/2022 20:04

@RMS0209 sending baby dust to you all 🥰

@Gillseybear thank you so much ❤ I'm glad you're feeling a bit better fingers crossed for you 🤞

@Excited101 thank you lovely 🥰, I was so shocked to see two lines honestly I wasn't feeling it this month at all still in disbelief if I'm honest my poor partner isn't getting his hopes up because we had an early mc in January but this feels different so I think it'll all be okay ❤

Excited101 · 21/03/2022 19:56

Oh @BuchananBaby I’m so excited for you! I can’t imagine what you must feel like to see that second line!

Excited101 · 21/03/2022 19:55

Ah thanks for checking in @Cheeeeeeeks I wasn’t able to resist and ended up doing a test sat morning and this morning which of course were both BFN 🤦‍♀️ I guess they might have shown up something slight this early on, buuuuut...

Tbh, I’ve had the worst cold I’ve ever had for over a week now, and it’s developed into sinusitis on one side, which has brought migraines with it too. Ran a half marathon yesterday too, so I figure a little cluster of cells wouldn’t stand much chance at the moment anyway 😔

I’m going to test again on Friday anyway.

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Gillseybear · 21/03/2022 17:43

@BuchananBaby congratulations on your BFP,
I am so happy for you.
Starting to feel a little better and the spotting has stopped again but weirdly today I have felt really wet all day like my AF is starting but when I wipe it's just discharge. It's currently a mix between EWCM and Creamy along with cramps that come and go and are not as strong as my normal PMS cramps. It's super weird and this is not normal for me. I am now 13DPO and Flo is predicting AF is due on Wednesday. So going to pick up some Frers tomorrow and test then. (They we're completely sold out when I went shopping the other day)

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RMS0209 · 21/03/2022 16:28

[quote BuchananBaby]@Cheeeeeeeks I have tested every day since 8dpo and absolutely nothing. Bfn yesterday morning then faint bfp last night so it can change so quickly ❤[/quote]
@BuchananBaby get sending that baby dust to all us ladies ❤️😂

BuchananBaby · 21/03/2022 16:14

@Cheeeeeeeks I have tested every day since 8dpo and absolutely nothing. Bfn yesterday morning then faint bfp last night so it can change so quickly ❤