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So..... Is it really bad of me to use a pair of hold-ups to encourage DH to impregnate me when he does not want another child or should be responsible for his willy and abstain....?

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wimpydisguise · 03/01/2008 23:59

He knows I am desperately wanting another and am 'wide open', so to speak.
I am taking no precautions, and neither did he once I had slipped into something more comfortable last night.

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wimpydisguise · 04/01/2008 00:11

I thought similar Northener.
He is my hubby and knows how I feel.
He is very aware I have no precautions in place.
He was reluctant to get jiggy the other day and I asked him if it was because he was scared of me getting preggers and he said no. The next day he might say definately no more children. He is very confusing.
I think he may be shocked if I did fall but would come round to it.

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NorthernLurker · 04/01/2008 00:06

sounds like he isn't totally against having another baby tbh - I think it's quite sweet of you to seduce him actually - as long as you have been honest about your lack of precautions then I think it's just a case of seeing what happens - good luck!

lulumama · 04/01/2008 00:05

nope , i don;t think it is ok, no. if he is joking about it being a trap, then the shit will hit the fan if you do get pregnant, but he needs to take responsibility and use a condom and insist on a condom .

maybe this is a conversation you need to have again, without the stockings.

Rhubarb · 04/01/2008 00:05

If he knows you want another, and he knows you are "wide open" then surely it is his responsibility to take precautions?

However if you do get pregnant and he is less than chuffed, indeed very unsupportive, you shouldn't be too surprised. I can see this ending in lots of arguments. Surely it would be better to have it out in the open, so to speak?

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wimpydisguise · 04/01/2008 00:03

He knows I am not taking anything/have anything implated/in etc.

He likes stockings better but they take me a good 30 mins to get right and I can't be arsed with that anymore!

Do you think it is okay for me to seduce him though?

He did say 'It's a trap' in a joking tone....

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lulumama · 04/01/2008 00:03

would depend if he knows you are precautionless too......

if he does not want another child, he should stick a condom on for sure

but not fair to force his hand, as it were , or indeed anything else

PussinJimmyChoos · 04/01/2008 00:00

Did he know you were not on the pill or anything?

Rhubarb · 04/01/2008 00:00

eugh! Hold ups?????
He can't be that bothered if he doesn't put a condom on. His look out.

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