🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

Okay I'm so so so sorry @flowergarden16 I've only just seen your messages and I can't find a way to delete mine, this isn't what you needed today with what you're going through. I'm so sorry :( x

I just got my BFP rainbow 🌈 (although still early days and more faint than fat!) I'm feeling happy and excited but also so anxious and worried that it'll end in a miscarriage again.

I couldn't find a group on Mumsnet, does anyone know where I can go to chat/get support?

Thanks @Skl2021 and @Lottie2267 I

It seems to be getting slowly heavier (although still light) so expecting the inevitable but no pain which is good.

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Aww gosh @flowergarden16 sorry to hear you’re in this position. Hope you’re ok, let’s hope it’s implantation 🤞🏼 One of my friends bled all the way through both her pregnancies and everything was fine. Hope these next few days go quickly for you xxx

TMI but the blood is now red but quite thin. I am so confused. Guess I just have to keep waiting and testing?

@peachiekeen I'm really hoping it's that! Have some dull aches but it's not painful, keep worrying it's ectopic now. The agony of having had a miscarriage before hey!

Thank you x

@flowergarden16 🤞🏼 it's implantation bleeding. When I got my BFP in Jan I had implantation bleeding the day before af was due so I assumed it was af. Didn't realise I wasn't actually on until 4 days later! It was watery red blood which is also unusual for my af as it usually starts as browny discharge but I just didn't think anything of it.

EPU said spotting / bleeding not necessarily a problem if it's light. If you get pain or it gets heavier then call them back.

They said testing doesn't massively help as you have HCG in blood for a while either way.

They said I can go in for early scan if still pregnant at six weeks. So it's a waiting game

Thank you all!

I've been using CB digitals but will get some FR ones later and test the next couple of days. I guess that's an easier way.

Calling the EPU later for advice as well.

So stressful as could all be fine or all be over

@flowergarden16 how's your lines looking on your test? Are they darker than when you first tested? This thread has seen lots of bleeds in successful pregnancies so it could totally be implantation bleeding. Keep us updated 🤞

@Sassy144 sorry that's AF has showed. It totally sucks doesn't it 😔

@flowergarden16 I thought my period had come but it never amounted to anything..took a test the next day and positive. Could be implantation?

So confused as got a positive again this morning and it's actually spotting not a full period (I think I over estimated what I saw)

Presuming it's a chemical and the full bleed will come? Has anyone else had this?

Very weird x

So sorry to hear this @flowergarden16, and sorry that AF has arrived for you @sassy144. Big glasses of wine, some nice biscuits, or a massive midweek takeout is in order. Be kind to yourselves!

@peachiekeen honestly TTC makes me think the strangest things, but I think if moving about makes you happy (especially if there's music involved) it can only be a good thing! Although remind me why i signed up for a personal trainer session in my FW

It seems that way sadly. Was going to test again first thing but honestly seems like a proper AF. Red. And heavier: think I'm going to have a glass of wine

Oh man, I'm so sorry @flowergarden16. Has it started in full flow?

Sorry af has arrived for you too @Sassy144 😩

Same @Sassy144 after a BFP yesterday!

Yikes

Onwards....

@Tofu35 @Lottie2267 @flowergarden16 thank you 🤗 that's made me feel a lot better and also just confirms I'm not going mad thinking these thoughts in the first place!

@Sassy144 I'm so sorry 😕 make sure you give yourself some grace and treat yourself to something nice or book something in to look forward to

Well ladies af has reared her ugly head, ah well!

@Lottie2267 that's what I was thinking yesterday while I was bouncing about in Clubbercise! Also, my ovulation was so late this month. I am usually textbook. 28 day cycles and ovulate on day 14. But this time I didn't ovulate until day 20! I really thought it wasn't going to happen but it did. I think the MC just has really messed with my cycles and my hormones. I've also read that Pregnacare Max tablets can make your cycles longer and I've been taking them for 2 months now. Try not to worry - O probably just late this month.

Thanks @Lottie2267

I am stupidly holding out hope that it's the digital test being rubbish as wasn't fmu as still no actual period but probable lost cause

Defo do lots of exercise it's so go oh x for MH

I'm going to spin now!

Ahhh I am so sorry to hear this @flowergarden16 hope you’re ok, sending you big love 😫🤍 we are all here for you xxx

@Sassy144 hopefully you will find out in the next couple of days xxx

@peachiekeen I exercise a lot but I have tended to stop in the tww. I don’t know, I’ve had two miscarriages and just makes me worried. I’m pretty sure it’s got absolutely nothing to do with exercise and all health professionals say it’s completely fine! I just worry that it might interfere with implantation - that’s just how my head works though ha.

Guys I said I wasn’t gonna test for ovulation this month but I have and I’m late ovulating. I guess it could be because of the chemical I had last cycle? Do you think this might mean I won’t ovulate this month? I’m two days late now and not even a flashing smiley on the clear blue tests. I’m kind of thinking I will stop testing now and wait until next cycle but part of me wants to know xxx

Sorry typo. Said not pregnant so I guess it was a chemical