🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

@flowergarden16 I was about to say could you EPU start monitoring your blood HCG. Ectopics are rare but if that was to happen I'm here if you need someone to talk too. I suffered with Ectopic in Jan. wishing you all the best x

@Skl2021 ohh gosh not long now. Hoping all is ok, keeping everything crossed for you. Erm I'm not sure yet 🙈 see how I feel in a few days! X

@flowergarden16 sorry you're still not sure what's going on, I'm glad you've got an appointment on Wednesday though 🙏🏻

Thanks @Bundaberg84

Did you have your tube removed? Sorry if that's too personal. That's my main concern

That didn't think if necessarily is but want to rule it out

What a palaver!

@flowergarden16 I'm happy they want to see you! Chances of an ectopic aren't high, but it's better to rule it out. I had constant spotting with my ectopic, all shades of red. And absolutely no pain. That being said, my friend had the same, but it resulted in a perfectly healthy baby boy.

Just spoke to EPU as have been getting some pressure / stitch like feelings on one side.

They said (just in case anyone else ever gets this) that it can be totally normal but they want to check it's not ectopic

Have an appt on weds morning so should get some answer then - either miscarriage/ongoing miscarry, ectopic, nothing at all or a healthy sac.

Just got to wait now - and told me to go in to a&e if pain gets worse

Yeah @Skl2021 wish I'd done that earlier 🤣 bleeding has really slowed down but still could be period or ectopic or chemical I guess. Just won't know. No pain though and boobs are sore and tingly! My two year old jumped on them this morning and hurt a lot 🤣

I would probably avoid the smear test if I were you, just postpone a couple of weeks if you can? X

@Skl2021 today is first day of using non digital tests so I'll have to wait until Sunday to really know :-(
I should be 2-3 on digital on weds so that should give a good indication and then could be 6 weeks and scan-able but the following Tuesday. If nothing else has happened re bleeding and the tests are progressing next week I'll call up for a scan. My EPU is really good and are happy to see me x

@speake Thanks. That's good advice, I'll give them a call. How are u getting on? I've been off MN for a bit trying to not obsess 🙈 so not sure where everyone is. @Skl2021Hey! Am ok..not entirely sure as didn't take an OPK this cycle. Maybe around 2/3DPO. How u doing? U must be due 12 week scan soon?! X

@Skl2021 yeah tests still saying positive. Think I'll just have to wait until another ten days when they can scan :-(

@calimc83 I tried to go after one of my miscarriages and the nurse told me they won’t do it within 12 weeks of a miscarriage… when I told her I had hoped that I would be pregnant again within that 12 weeks she said that they also won’t do it whilst you are trying to conceive or if there’s a chance you could be pregnant as they wouldn’t want to unsettle anything that could be trying to implant. It could vary per healthboard or gp practice but I would phone and ask for clarity xxx

Hi ladies, hope u are all ok? Currently in the 2WW. I'm supposed to be going for a smear next week ( joys!) I don't really want to cancel it as the nurse is always super booked up. Just wondering if anyone has been before when in 2WW? Xx

Still very light.

I'm mega confused but I guess have to ride it out until I get to what would be six weeks so I can see. X

@flowergarden16 I really hope things work out! How's the spotting this evening?

@Lizm1990 the most I've had is a 2 day gap then more bleeding. My cycles were so messed up after my MC though, AF was 2 days this cycle and normally 5-6. Was your loss recent? If so maybe your body is just getting back into a Rhythm! My only advice would have been so test LH which you're already doing

@flowergarden16 fingers crossed for you 🤞

@LittleMrsMama congratulations 🌈 😊

Has anybody experienced spotting 4 full days after AF completely disappeared? It’s a bit strange never had this before, the Premom app reckons tomorrow is the start of my fertile period but who knows, I’m testing LH daily and it’s been quite low.

Thanks @Lottie2267 and @LittleMrsMama

I'm feeling ok about it. Least it's super early if it's happening and my body is dealing with it unlike my MMC

if we are still pregnant in ten days then great if not. Then fine.

Good luck everyone

Thanks @Skl2021 I'll go and check it out

I'm so sorry again @flowergarden16 , I hope it all works out for you. I know a few people that have had bleeding during pregnancy have happy healthy babies now. I know that won't be much relief after going through a miscarriage as I would be feeling the same as you. I hope this time goes quickly before you can get your scan and have an answer either way. I had an early MC in January and not knowing was there worst

@Lottie2267 honest answer is I've had enough of DTD outside of the fertile window so DH has no chance of continuing beyond then! 😂 I don't think it impacts chances of conceiving though

Aww congratulations @LittleMrsMama fingers crossed for you xxx

Hope you’re doing ok @flowergarden16 xxx

Hope everyone else is also doing ok ❤️ Just wondering, does anyone stop having sex in the tww or do you continue as normal? Not sure if I’m overthinking it all xxx

Don't be silly @LittleMrsMama ! Huge congrats! X