🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

Thank you @bunnykins123 and @aesgriff I think we will try again and if I have a third one then I will book private.

Aww I hope you’re ok @mrsmw132 I’m keeping everything crossed for you!

Hope you’re ok @arianasky I know how you feel. Try not to worry, they say it’s better to dtd before and you’ve done plenty so fingers crossed one will be hanging around ready to meet the egg.

Hope you’re all ok xxx

@arianasky how annoying, I'm sorry. I'm sure weds and Thurs will cover you though, when I got pregnant before, I'd only dtd 2+3 days before ovulation as I miscalculated.

@mrsmw132 I'm so sorry about your mmc, it's hard and I think we put so much pressure on ourselves to be pregnant again as quickly as possible. Good luck testing tomorrow 🤞 keep us updated.

@arianasky how weird. As in properly darker than control? I've used multiple lh brand strips in the past and always get different readings. I'd say trust the CB monitor - they are pretty accurate! In fact my CB monitor always shows peak before lh strips 🤷‍♀️

@aesgriff ergh I'm gutted sounds so silly but I've been testing every day since CD8 and feel like I've blown it now 😞 god knows if Wednesday and Thursday will have been enough I just have to hope it is I won't even be a for to DTD tomorrow either 😞

@Lottie2267 they’ve brought out new guidance following Tommy’s research that you can be prescribed progesterone if you have had a previous miscarriage and have bleeding in a ‘viable’ pregnancy. So I had to have a progesterone blood test (which they said was good) then once they confirmed the sac was in the uterus I asked for them and they prescribed them. I’m not sure if I necessarily ‘need’ them but here we are xx

@arianasky that’s so strange 😞 ugh I really feel for you!!! Xx

Ah I can't believe it took a one step OPK as I only have 2 easy@home left and it's peak 😭 my easy@home have gone lighter and I had my peak on CB Wednesday evening so over 48 hours ago! Im stressing as I haven't DTD today and won't be able to either scared I'll have no chance this month now 😞

[quote bunnykins123]@Lottie2267 I've had 3 consecutive early miscarriages so I registered with a fertility clinic and just asked for some (no tests done). They prescribed me some (you'll have a real fight to get them off the GP without having it recommended by specialists). I don't know (or actually even think) I have low progesterone but basically just throwing everything at it. The consensus is that it doesn't hurt so 🤷‍♀️

@mrsmw132 you're 1 day ahead of me! Absolutely no symptoms whatsoever 🙄 when will you test again?[/quote]
Most likely tomorrow. My pregnancy in November I got a BfP on day 11 but I hadn't tested on 9 or 10.
I'm just a bit crampy.
So emotional. Things at work that usually wouldn't bother me are making me well up.
As this is our first IUI after our missed miscarriage I'm trying to stay calm and not pressure myself.
I got recommended the 'pregnancy after loss' book - I'm hoping I'll get to use it soon.

@Lottie2267 I've had 3 consecutive early miscarriages so I registered with a fertility clinic and just asked for some (no tests done). They prescribed me some (you'll have a real fight to get them off the GP without having it recommended by specialists). I don't know (or actually even think) I have low progesterone but basically just throwing everything at it. The consensus is that it doesn't hurt so 🤷‍♀️

@mrsmw132 you're 1 day ahead of me! Absolutely no symptoms whatsoever 🙄 when will you test again?

8dpo and symptom spotting but pretending I'm not.
Sore boobs and cramping today. And yes I caved and tested, not feeling surprised!
Line eyes in full flow.
Thank you for your sanity ladies 🤰

Girls, hope you don’t mind me asking but how come some are taking progesterone? I know if it’s low then it can cause you to miscarry so I’m guessing that’s why? Did you have blood tests to see what your levels are? My doctor said I don’t need them but I’m worried maybe I have low levels too 👎🏼 Xx

@HoneyLemon29 thank you, I feel a bit better now. I think I'm prepared for bfn this cycle so probably better to get in the headspace now 😂

@mrshodgy21 🙋‍♀️ @Cruz86 is right I use them but only recently - tried it during my last chemical and am now on it in 2WW. Truth be told, inserting the 'bum pellets' isn't particularly glam but that's the worst I gets. You can't feel them after about 30seconds... not sure if that's what you wanted to know?! 😂

@Skl2021 oh yuck I sympathise. I always seem to get sickness pretty badly in my pregnancies (which secretly I enjoy as it makes me feel like my hormones are doing exactly what they should be doing 😂)

@Cruz86 that's very true. I think given I'm on progesterone, I expected a double whammy of symptoms that at least made me hopeful but actually, seems less than normal so I guess that's that 😂

I agree about the anxiety after a loss, it's not something I was prepared for.

That is true @aesgriff. I can't imagine he'd want to talk to me about it being dangerously low! 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have my scan on Monday before he rings anyway so I'm not too worried about the call. Hopefully I'll relax a little bit now 🤞🏻

Eurgh how frustrating @Skl2021! Only a few more weeks and you should be clear of the first trimester symptoms. You ovulated later didn't you?

No one ever warns you about the anxiety you feel after a loss do they 😞

Xx

Thank you @aesgriff

Keep getting weird little twinges in my right side and it's enough to set me off. My anxiety is sky high 😮‍💨😮‍💨 x

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 I'm having sickness and tiredness hit me lately 🙈 had a wobbly few days with anxiety but apart from that I'm doing ok. Sorry your having a rough time. Some days are easier than others. Scream breathe cry do whatever it takes 🙌 tomorrow at is a new day 💕 x[/quote]
Anxiety is completely normal after a loss.
When is your next scan?

[quote MrsRosaline]@Nikkic2123 CD7 and I feel that[/quote]
It would drive you insane
I'm booked in for more bloods on 16th March
See if they are ok
My due date was 4th Jan, my periods are only just turned normal again

@Nikkic2123 CD7 and I feel that

@Skl2021
How are you? I'm coming back for some support- today is not a good day
CD9
Pissed off
Living in a world of pregnancy and births

@calimc83
How are you?

Hi everyone else, I hope you're all doing well x

@Skl2021 urgh I feel you, I never got morning sickness, just afternoon and evening sickness!

@Skl2021 oh bless you that sounds tough 🥺 are you keeping anything down?? Sending hugs xx no more appointments or scans, got to complete the dreaded booking form…. Xx

@peachiekeen thank you so much ♥️♥️ Xx

@Skl2021 feel like the Mumsnet version of Bring It On 🤣🤣 xx

@HoneyLemon29 keeping all fingers crossed baby settles in the uterus 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Cmon baby!! Xx

@Cruz86 81 is amazing!!!! Mine were 46 at 14dpo so that is double my results. Maybe he wants to talk about how progesterone may not be suitable with levels that high?! Or to ask why they are if he doesn’t know you’re pregnant xx

@MrsL2021 oh bless you thank you soooo much ♥️♥️ How are you?? Xx

The symptoms literally come and go don't they @Skl2021 😩 I can't believe you're 8+4 already! Have you decided on a private scan or not? You can't feel guilty for how you're feeling or not being as you normally are with your kids ❤️

I got my progesterone test back - 81.6nmol at about 15dpo. I think that's a good thing but my gp wants a phone consultation with me on Monday?!

Xx