🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

@Cruz86 🤣🤣 deffo take that!! Thinking of you today for your scan 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Sending you a big hand squeeze xx

@forestlovr so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy. Welcome to the thread xx

@forestlovr I’m so sorry I can’t imagine how you are feeling. This thread has given me some support and I hope it does for you ❤️

So sorry for your loss @forestlovr, that is so sad :( Welcome to this supportive thread; likewise to anyone I've forgotten to say welcome to

Hey ladies. Can I join? I had a late miscarriage at almost 23 weeks in December. My boy died during delivery, its been the most painful time. Me and my partner are wanting to start ttc this month. So scared and nervous still. It took a year with our boy so not sure how long it will be this time. I'm sorry for all your losses it really is the most devastating thing a person can go through.

Oh that's the worst feeling ever @aesgriff 😩 especially with the icky stomach too. Weirdly, I suffer from ibs and my toileting habits have been the best they've been in years 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 I don't know why but I'm taking it! Xx

@Lizm1990 @Beautyangel1 after my D&C it took me 6 and a half weeks to ovulate and then 8 weeks until my period started… it was a long painful wait so I understand how it feels xx

@Ganesh2022 @Skl2021 @Cruz86 it’s horrible isn’t it 😩 I really wanted my dinner too after cooking it for bloody hours! I’ve got a runny belly now too after days of being constipated. All fun and games here xx

Imagine if you started getting them twice as bad after worrying about not having any @Ganesh2022 😂

Yep, I feel the same as @Skl2021, @aesgriff - literally can't win!!

Xx

@Beautyangel1 I’m the same as you almost 4 weeks for me, I had surgery and I’m getting super impatient as I just want to try again. I’ve been testing for ovulation am and pm, and until 3 days ago my LH hormone was going down so I thought my period is coming but now it’s starting to go up, so confused 🤦‍♀️😩

@aesgriff yup when I get sickness that’s what it’s like!

@Ganesh2022 it’s such a anxiety inducing time isn’t it. Sending your strong vibes xx

@Cindy974 the 13th seems such a long way away. We’re here to hand hold you during that time if you need us xx

@Cruz86 that’s a good way of summing up how I feel! Just ups and downs xx

@arianasky 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Really got all my fingers crossed for you lovely lady!! Xx

Girls.. I feel sooo sick after eating. Is this normal?? Couldn’t make it through my dinner xx

@Cindy974 I get that. I’m really hoping it will not be bad news for you and hoping it’s good news you’re not in pain. So shit there aren’t appts sooner :/

@Cruz86 I dunno...usually I feel so bad so early :/ I guess I could be getting a lucky break this time—or I’ll pay for it next week—but it’s so hard not to worry and compare to others :/

@Cindy974 I was going to have to wait ages too when I was bleeding... but I rang up the following morning and left a message saying if you have ANY cancellations then I can be there with short notice and they rang me that morn and asked if I could be in in 40 mins. Worth a shot so you're front of mind for any available appointments. Got everything crossed for you xxx

Oh I'm so sorry you have to wait that long @Cindy974 😞 I'm keeping everything crossed for you and hope for some positive news this week. Make sure you rest and take it easy, look after yourself xx

@mrsmw132 i never got very good lines (if anything) first thing in the morning, they were always stronger in the afternoon. Keep testing! 🤞🏻

@Ganesh2022 that is still early so don't panic that you don't have any symptoms! You're probably just one of the lucky ones ☺️ Are you going to have a private scan?

Xx

@Ganesh2022 I dont think I can justify paying for a private scan just to hear the worst 😢 and no unfortunately I’m North East x

@Cindy974 are you in London? St George’s EPU is walk-in

@Skl2021 @Cruz86 I’m 5 weeks 5 days, possibly a bit less, usually symptoms are here by now and in full swing by 6 weeks :/
@Cindy974 is private an option? If you’re anything like me the waiting is intolerable ❤️

I'm driving myself absolutely bonkers. After this mornings - everything is negative disaster. Again this afternoon I have a squinter on an easy @home test.
I don't know what to think about this!!
So much uncertainty.

Thank you everyone, I really appreciate it, I feel absolutely beside myself and just hopeless. EPAU dont have availability for a scan until 13th 😭 So I have an agonising week wait to see if it stops or carries on. My bleeding is still fairly heavy and Ive had some tissuey bits I’m so sorry of this is triggering for anyone 😞 I’m not in alot of pain and its very different from my previous MC if thats what it is. I just don’t know what to do or how to feel 😭 Thank you for the hand hold everyone ❤️

Hi @Beautyangel1, sorry for your loss but welcome. I think I'd give it another couple of weeks before speaking to a gp, it can take around 6 weeks for your period to arrive xx

That's great then @Prayingformyrainbow93! I know, it's a really anxious time but...you're pregnant!! 😬😬 xx