🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

@peachiekeen that’s ok 😊 I’ve got no clue what my CD is, only because technically I’ve not had my first period yet after my D&C but today marks exactly 4 weeks so I’m hoping it’s going to happen so I can bloody ovulate and try 🤣🤣 Premom reckons I should have had my period already but I think my body is out of sorts tbh, what cycle are you in?

@bunnykins123 that's crazy, that line was fairly dark! V. cruel of frer. Glad you are ok.

@Lizm1990 sorry - I've just scrolled back and looked. I think I got you muddled with someone else. I hope either ovulation or AF comes for you soon so you can get some peace of mind either way and start to take control of your cycle back in some way (although we never have any control but I hope you know what I mean) x

@arianasky have you tested again or are you waiting? I know, it did look like a line but actually, the more I checked, the more I couldn't see it unless I had one eye closed, stood on 1 leg and held to the light 😂

@Cruz86 oh 💯 I'm not going anywhere! I'll keep you updated. I can now just relax a bit and focus on next month (before the obsession starts!)

@Lizm1990 it's so frustrating isn't it? It's literally driving me insane. I'm on CD17 and using Premom and easy@home too. What CD are you on now? I hope we get a peak soon! 🤞🏼

@bunnykins123 I'm so sorry that it was negative lovely

@arianasky I'm so sorry and annoyed for you that that happened. I got a call from the midwife last month too. She started with 'Hi, I'm your local midwife, is this your first baby?'. It was like being punched when I had to well it would have been. Communication is awful. She was so lovely though and told me to keep her number in case I ever had any questions in the future and she told me more than the doctors did.

@Sassy144 ahh I'm glad it helped lovely. I went through it without docs etc too. Just a phone call from docs and no follow up. I've never even met my doctors before as I moved to a new area and getting a phone call is hard enough so I doubt they'd care either! The midwife was so lovely though and was shocked that I hadn't had any 'after care'. So may be worth investigating?

I mean, the wine sounds like heaven @bunnykins123!! But it so looked like a line 😩😩 I'm so sorry, keep us updated with af? X

@bunnykins123 I'm sorry that happened I swear the same thing happened to me on my test earlier aswell, enjoy the wine 🍷

@Cruz86 @Skl2021 haha honestly, I'm a bit relieved (sounds nuts, right?!) but after 3 chemicals with 2 of them starting with vvvvf lines, I knew the outcome (if that line was legit) wasn't looking good. So I'm glad whatever that line was has disappeared and I can wait for AF. I had pretty much zero symptoms too so this isn't a surprise. @Cruz86 no, no more testing. Stopped cyclogest and now have a large glass of wine. And that makes me tres happy 😀

@peachiekeen yes it was today, I'm really glad I went. It helped to speak about it properly with someone 💛 one thing she recommended was that I have an appointment with my GP as I went through the whole thing at home and never had a follow-up or anything, and she thinks it will help me process and move forward - but I feel like my GP won't want to know?

@peachiekeen I’m in the same position as you, my body isn’t ovulating, no idea when AF will come, so frustrating waiting. I’m doing easy at home tests am and pm hoping it will happen, it went up then down and going slightly up but still considered low on the Premom app 🤦‍♀️

Noooo @bunnykins123!! Are you testing again in the morning? X

@Cruz86 that is so thoughtful of you. I'll wait and see what happens next.
Still cramping today which is weird.
Will test again tomorrow at 14dpo.
Hopefully af will stay away. Still TTC for now?! But I can entirely understand.
I have found this chat very comforting and hopeful. And thankfully an outlet for my over testing 😂

I completely agree with what you were all saying about better comms between the EPU, GP and midwife's. I had to cancel my scans and found the whole process distressing.

Just to let you all know, looks like my vvvv faint line was an evap. I tested again this evening and it was negative. I was getting a bit nervous thinking I was about to have another chemical so I think this is the best outcome! I couldn't handle another chemical!

@Sassy144 was it your counselling today? I hope it went Ok x

Don't worry, I'll definitely still be posting in here and cheering you all on!! I couldn't leave this thread fully 😂

Ahh I'll be sad to see you all go but I'll definitely try and keep up with how you all are every now and then and fingers crossed I can join you sooner rather than later if I ever blinking ovulate! 🤪

@Cruz86 I will leave joining until get a BFP but I will be popping in to see how everything is going for you all ❤️

@Cruz86 and all the other pregnant ladies, it's very kind of you to think of those of us who might find it hard to be around pregnancy chat at the moment. I wish you all the happiest and healthiest of pregnancies and hopefully we'll be joining you in the new thread soon too. I'll definitely dip in now and then to see how you all are 💛🌈

I've set up a thread called navigating pregnancy after loss and tagged who I can remember - sorry if I've missed you!!

@arianasky and @mrsmw132 I've left it up to you as to whether you join today, I feel very hopeful for you both but didn't want to tag you in something if you wasn't comfortable being in there yet.

@Tofu35 well done on joining the gym! I haven't exercised in sooo long so I take my hat off to you for getting started.

I've joined the gym, operation "get fit and get pregnant" begins today! Probably won't tell the induction person my aim is to get pregnant after miscarriage, I'll probably say something like "do more cardio" or "be stronger" but we all know what I'm doing there!

Hey girls sorry I’m just about to take the dog to the vets (🤦🏻‍♀️) so just clicked through the last two (!!!) pages but I would agree for a separate thread if we can for early pregnancy? It is heart wrenching when you are still so desperate for the BFP and if anyone wants to join us who are still TTC then it’s their choice xx sorry I would do it but I have absolutely no idea how to xx

Thank you @Skl2021
It is af. Feel ok but wish I hadn’t taken the frer tests. I did two in the end and they both showed the same v faint line, but they are indent lines for sure as have faded more now.

@Cruz86 thank you, it is af unfortunately but I could still be in the running for a dec baby in this next cycle. I’m being Positive! 🍀

@arianasky oh no, you think it would only take a minute to check something like that out. It could really cause upset x