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🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

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Skl2021 · 21/02/2022 19:19

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

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speake · 25/02/2022 17:16

@aesgriff glad you managed to get the first two in, so glam isn’t it 😂 I jokingly told my husband he would have to do it for me, you can imagine the response 🙈😂

@Bundaberg84 great news about your appt, I’d be excited too as it’s a step closer to hopefully getting some answers / a cure 🤞🏼

@peachiekeen mine was the exact same, almost jelly like again!

peachiekeen · 25/02/2022 17:11

@Skl2021 I’m so glad you got to see a heartbeat today!

@aesgriff and that you got to see the sac too!

I’ve been thinking of you both all day. I’m putting out all of the possible positive vibes for you both. I’ve never wanted something more for people I haven’t met!

@Cruz86 I personally think that talking about pregnancies on here gives me hope. If everyone disappeared as soon as they got pregnant we’d never know of happy stories and that would be pretty sad. The amount of Mumsnet holes I’ve fallen down only to never hear the outcome!

Random side note: anyone else’s first AF after miscarriage strange? TMI but mine is literally like tar. So dark brown it’s practically black and so thick it doesn’t move. No wonder I was in so much pain yesterday!

PamelaDoov · 25/02/2022 17:01

@Cruz86 cd12 but no guarantee when ovulation will be. Could literally start gearing up any time between now and next week

Cruz86 · 25/02/2022 16:51

Hahaha @aesgriff you have made me laugh with your oh helping comment. Thank you for preparing me for the scan too. I literally just want to see a sac so that I can get the prescription! How far were you when you had your first scan?

@PamelaDoov whereabouts are you in your cycle?

@Bundaberg84 great news about your appointment and next steps!

@HoneyLemon29 you're officially in your TWW!

@Skl2021 how are you feeling about everything? Have you had time to digest it all?

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Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 16:47

@Cindy974 stay positive. 💞 I'm trying 🙈🤦 just need to accept that what will be will be there's nothing I can do to change anything 🤞 xx

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Cindy974 · 25/02/2022 16:37

@Skl2021 no I don’t not sure if I’m just going to wait I think. I hope youre feeling alot more positive 💕💕

@bunnykins123 wow now thats a good weight! I thought my DD was big at 8lb 11oz 😅

Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 15:45

@Bundaberg84 thankyou 💕 glad your appointment went well that all sounds very promising and like it's going in the right direction 🙌 hope it gives you answers and good news 🤞 yes u should be excited 😁 xx

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Bundaberg84 · 25/02/2022 15:40

ahhhh so relieved for you @Skl2021! I was thinking of you this morning, had a doc appointment at 10h as well.

I went in to ask about hycosy, check my one remaining tube. She was lovely and said she wouldn't just do that but do the "whole package" so to speak. Blood test at cycle day 3 and 21, as well as hycosy and ultrasound and whatnot on day 14. Also semen analysis. I think I'm excited about this? Am I ? :)

Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 15:34

@aesgriff yes I should of just lied on booking and gone from my dates to stop the confusion 🤦 funny you should say that my actual 12 week scan date came through the post today 🤦 it's end of march also! Few days before epu one 🤔 going from Lmp I would of been 13 and a half week but if I go from today's date I would be 12 weeks exactly. X

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aesgriff · 25/02/2022 15:29

@HoneyLemon29 yay a cover line!! Yep that’s what happened to my premom chart once they confirmed ovulation. Exciting!! Xx

aesgriff · 25/02/2022 15:28

@bunnykins123 omg 🤣🤣 I’m sure OH will want to ‘help’ insert them but that’s going to be a solid hell no xx

aesgriff · 25/02/2022 15:28

@Skl2021 ahhh see I’ve been a bit naughty and just added 2 weeks into when I ovulated so my dates are correct 🤫 otherwise I’d be 7+2.
So you’ll have 12 week then EPU 12 week? That’s the best of both worlds then as your 12 week normal will be around 10+5 which is when you lost your little baby before 😢 it’s sooo hard but we’re gonna keep this together xx

We are all also gonna be the biggest cheerleaders for everyone on this thread 🥰🥰🥰 xx

Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 14:29

@bunnykins123 haha I was going to say 🙊 my biggest was 8lb7 and that was bad enough! Wow 52 hours 🤦 that is some going! 🙌 Xx

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bunnykins123 · 25/02/2022 14:21

@Skl2021 lord no. Although I did try - I wouldn't dilate past 8cm so c section it was for me! 52hrs later...🥴

Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 14:03

@bunnykins123 wow 10lb what a chunky Baba 😍 did you have a natural birth? X

@arianasky thanksyou 💞 xx

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arianasky · 25/02/2022 13:59

@Skl2021 amazing news ❤️

bunnykins123 · 25/02/2022 13:47

@Skl2021 @Cindy974 DD was 1 week behind at 12 week scan, she was born 10lbs (massively overdue!) and just scrumptious.

@aesgriff My DD walked in on me putting on in once in the morning. I dread to think if she's been scarred for life from this 🥴 don't freak out when you see your poop (I did!)

Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 13:45

@PamelaDoov thankyou. Yes I can only hope the only thing that is worriying me is the fact that this is exactly how it started last time and it's the same week. Just feels like deja vu. Don't want to go down the same path xx

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PamelaDoov · 25/02/2022 13:36

@Skl2021 thank goodness you’re ok! When I went for my 8 week scan with DS I was told I had a small pocket of blood at the bottom of my uterus that would either pass out of me or would get absorbed back into my body. Mine ended up being absorbed. You could’ve had something like that? And now that it’s passed that’s why they can’t see any reason for the bleed on your scan.

Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 13:14

@aesgriff haha yes all the support and hand holds worked 🙌💞 xx

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Skl2021 · 25/02/2022 13:13

@Cindy974 try and not worry I know scan dates can catch up by 12 weeks. Hopefully it was just too early and small to get accurate reading. Are you having another one? Xx

@Tofu35 thankyou 💞 yes the next few weeks I will find the hardest. Xx

@aesgriff so glad your scan went well! Progesterone sounds interesting 🙊 epu have booked me in for a reasurance scan at 12 weeks from my dates today which is around end of march but I don't know why as I would of had my actual 12 week scan by then. Going off lmp I should be 9 weeks so my 12 week scan will be earlier than the one at epu. Unless they cancel that one. 🤔Sorry it's all confusing 🤦 xx

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aesgriff · 25/02/2022 13:07

@Skl2021 p.s WE DID IT 🥰🥰🥰 xx

aesgriff · 25/02/2022 13:06

@speake @bunnykins123 I managed to get two up the bum earlier 🤣 popped a bit of lube on and up they went. Wow.. what a interesting feeling!! Thanks for the advice.. I can confirm @Cruz86 when you start using yours hopefully next week that squatting is the way to go 🤣🤣 xx

@cruz86 fab news about your scan!! Just remember you’ll be very early like me and with me they couldn’t see anything. It’s scary so just want you to be prepared xx

@speake deffo only one sac… maybe identification twins in there though who knows 🤩🤩 xx

@Skl2021 I’m so pleased you got to see a heartbeat 😍 I dream of that day. I’m sorry you’re still feeling anxious but it’s to be expected. When’s your 12 week scan?? Xx

Tofu35 · 25/02/2022 12:58

Oh hearing a heartbeat, what a lovely sound for you @skl2021. Understand the next few weeks will be so stressful coming up to the point where you lost your last wee one, but I'm so happy you had some happiness on screen today 💐

Cindy974 · 25/02/2022 12:56

@Cindy974 off scan date I will be 6+4 a full week behind 😟😟 x

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