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TTC BABY NO 2 first cycle

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TTCBABYNO2xx · 15/02/2022 21:20

Hey girls,

Just reaching out to anyone who is on first cycle trying for baby no 2 to keep each other company on the journey. Just had my coil out a couple of weeks ago 🤞🏽🤞🏽 xx

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TTCBABYNO2xx · 19/02/2022 14:01

@MiaKay 🤣🤣 can't wait till were on the 2nd laughing our tits off like yeah very good the idea of a 3rd 😂🖕🏽

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TTCBABYNO2xx · 19/02/2022 14:00

@Running365 btw I am also cramping too every day on and off but the thing is i got the coil out on the 1st of feb and had a bleed for 5 days so unsure if its just my body settling but I felt these types of cramps when I was pregnant before too .. your right it is very consuming 🤦🏽‍♀️ im doing the 'just being chilled about it' but i'm like oh lets buy a test just because 😂

Im guessing i shouldn't really test till 1st of march given i only got coil out on 1st feb this makes sense in my head!

I adore his name 🌞 Can I ask how old your precious boy was 💙

Xx

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sherbetmelon · 18/02/2022 22:34

@Running365 so sorry to hear about your son, you are so strong xx

sherbetmelon · 18/02/2022 22:29

Hi! I'm also TTC No.2. Had my last depo injection in June and only had my first period in Jan so technically this is our first month trying and I've been tracking with OPK's.

My DC is 3 x

MiaKay · 18/02/2022 22:19

@Running365 thank you! I was nauseous all morning and and afternoon, I could barely eat my lunch so I guess I give up, I'll test tomorrow morning. I'm either sick, going through the strangest PMS I've ever experienced or I'm pregnant again.

OtiMama · 18/02/2022 22:09

I'm one of three and like it. We have said ideally we would probably like two or three, house size depending!

@Running365 ah lovely name ❤ I think all age gaps have pros and cons and it will still be lovely.

I know what you mean about symptoms like cramps, makes you think all sorts and then you wonder if you're just imagining things.

MiaKay · 18/02/2022 09:45

@TTCBABYNO2xx 3 kids is the ideal number for me too! Not that I would mind if more came around, or if for some reason we ended up with just two. But I would definitely love my son not to be alone. Lol I'm laughing about changing your mind about no3. Let's see what happens!

Running365 · 18/02/2022 08:49

Getting so impatient too, have to wait until atleast next weekend to test I think. I hate this waiting and had forgotten how consuming it can be. Keep also feeling like I'm cramping too but probably just my imagination. Good luck with testing this weekend @MiaKay if you do!

Thanks @OtiMama, we called him Gabriel Ray. He's out little Ray of sunshine 🌞

I also love having a boy. It'll be more than 4 year age gap for us now but will just feel so blessed if it happens and all works out ok this time, and there's nothing we can do to change it now.

TTCBABYNO2xx · 18/02/2022 08:08

@MiaKay 🤣🤣 totally !! I am an only child and always would of loved a sibling plus my family is tiny so would love to have maybe 3 kids ... they say though when the second one arrives you soon change your mind on number 3 we shall see 🤣 xx

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MiaKay · 17/02/2022 22:21

@OtiMama exactly and, anyway, let it happen whenever it happens ☺️ let's see what comes out of this cycle.

OtiMama · 17/02/2022 22:18

@MiaKay I totally get that. I think you just get on with it having them close together and at least they can all do similar things!

MiaKay · 17/02/2022 21:51

@OtiMama thank you! I got it now! Lol! I know it's pretty soon. Actually I have 8 years difference with my brother and I always felt like I was an only child, and he felt the same. Now we have completely different lives and whenever we meet it's like we're strangers, so I would love my children to be close together.

@TTCBABYNO2xx boys are great! They are so much fun! ... and here I thought they were all about guns and football. Now it seems so funny that I was ever scared of having one, but I blame my crazy nephews and their mothers who never lifted a finger to save me when their sons tortured me. Lol!

TTCBABYNO2xx · 17/02/2022 21:01

@MiaKay ahh i can't imagine having a girl now after a boy i'd love to have another boy but of course would just be blessed with either or 🥰

Btw i also wondered the same thing maybe someone can shed some light i keep forgetting the convo so would be ideal to reply and see it at the same time 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️ xx

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OtiMama · 17/02/2022 21:00

Hi everyone welcome to the group.

@Running365 sorry to hear about your son, what was his name? It must have been so hard for you both, I hope you conceive quickly again.

We also conceived my son first time, literally days after I came off the pill.

@MiaKay if you use the @ symbol and then the name immediately after to tag people. Wow 7 months postpartum, back then I was thinking omg I will never have another child anytime soon haha funny how things change. I love having a boy, would be happy to have another boy. Obviously would be equally happy for a girl next but I don't have a preference if asked.

MiaKay · 17/02/2022 20:54

A boy! It's weird because I was so scared of having a boy and now I'm wondering why! Boys are so cool! ...I really hope for a baby girl next time, though, I'd love to have one of each lol!

(By the way, how can I reply to one specific person? I'm new here 😊 )

TTCBABYNO2xx · 17/02/2022 20:21

@MiaKay ahh amazing boy or girl you have?? Ahh i so hope its really is baby no 2 😉❤️

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TTCBABYNO2xx · 17/02/2022 20:19

@Cheekypeach ahh totally aww its lovely yous have decided to just go for it! My son is coming up 19 months.. xx

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MiaKay · 17/02/2022 20:14

Hello ladies!

I'm 7 months postpartum and my doctor said we could start trying at 6 months postpartum. Well... We were not exactly trying so far, but didn't make an effort to prevent it either. Anyway, this is the first time I feel a little strange.

I feel just like i felt back when my first pregnancy started, if not a little more nauseous. My mom says that it could be just hormones changing or simply stress, but my husband keeps saying "baby No2? Baby no2?" And he's so cute, I really hope he gets his wish!

To be honest I kind of agree with my mom, though, but I will test on Monday (or during the weekend, if I get too curious Grin)

Cheekypeach · 17/02/2022 20:08

[quote TTCBABYNO2xx]@Cheekypeach ahhh how exciting! Have you another child too? Xx[/quote]
Yes I have a 2 year old girl Smile will be 3 before too long! It’s taken a while to decide whether to try for another but now we’ve made our minds up I feel so impatient! How old is your little one?

TTCBABYNO2xx · 17/02/2022 20:03

@Running365 just seen you have a son- sorry lovely never read it correctly!!

We are trying to be relaxed about it too- last pregnancy concieved first cycle but was peeing on ovulation digital sticks so trying to not obsess over it 🤣 xx

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TTCBABYNO2xx · 17/02/2022 20:00

@Running365 of course lovely ❤️

Awww little older than my son he is just coming up to 19 months. Is it a boy or girl your 3 year old ? Xx

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TTCBABYNO2xx · 17/02/2022 19:59

@Cheekypeach ahhh how exciting! Have you another child too? Xx

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Running365 · 16/02/2022 21:42

Aww thank you. It's certainly not been an easy time and our littlest boy is missed from our family every single day but finally beginning to feel a little bit hopeful about the future and what might be to come. Our DS1 is nearly 3 and a half so brings us lots of happiness and keeps us busy!

Hopefully we'll all have a second one to run around after soon!

@Cheekypeach how old is your first?

Cheekypeach · 16/02/2022 21:26

Hey 👋🏻 I’m starting ttc my second next cycle. CD17 currently, so will hopefully my first testing date will be 26th March Smile good luck all!

TTCBABYNO2xx · 16/02/2022 21:22

@Running365 hey lovely- of course you can. I can't even imagine what this was/is like for you. I'm so sorry to read this sending the biggest hug and lots of strength ❤️❤️

Please do join its good to have someone to chat away with!! I'm Hayley btw 🥰 how old is your other ? Xx

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