Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

@Cindy974 fab news and lovely pic xx
@Skl2021 oh gosh hope u are ok? Try not to worry too much..I know easier said than done xxx

@Ganesh2022 thankyou for the reply, yeah she said to heal physically and emotionally and for dating reasons - they didn't seem concerned it will happen again which gives me hope. Just feel like my life upside down I took my daughter out for first time since it's all happened and feel like everyone in world is pregnant but me😭 x

Oh don't @bunnykins123. Forever self-diagnosing 😂 I would say stay away from Dr Google but, let's be honest, we all know that never happens!! I do hope you get some answers soon though.

Sorry to hear that @Sassy144. I hope this first one is okay for you x

Thanks for the reassurance everyone, theres my little blob, hope it sticks and grows 🤞🏼❤️

@Ganesh2022 amazing news!! Hope you are doing okay. Take it one day at a time!

Oh @Sassy144 I’m so sorry to hear that!

Af is here 😖 hoping it's not going to be too bad, it's my first since my MC

@Ganesh2022 it's just so addictive. I go in for reassurance and come out a nervous wreck!

@Cruz86 just diagnosing all my miscarriages 😂 obvs the only people who can actually do that are the specialists but they won't see me till next month (1 full cycle). So until then, it's dr google. Tres bad. Haha the TWW is anything but relaxing!!!

@aesgriff thanks 💕 it's nice just to be able to talk about it as not many ppl IRL actually know about the losses. It's lonely!

@Skl2021 im okay, just having a moment feeling a bit sorry for myself. I felt the same with DD - my 1st MMC was quite late so I just rode out the anxiety until the 12 week scan. From everything you've said, it all sounds really positive.

I really hope so @Skl2021 😩 I'm literally taking every single thing as a symptom arghhhh xx

@Cindy974 what great news!! Echoing what others have said about weeks being an estimate....and we never really know when we ovulated, so just a few days is a huge difference. If your O date was off by 3 days and their estimate off by 3 in the other direction—that adds up fast despite all being ok...🙏🏻
@mummyofrb I’m so sorry you’ve had this experience ❤️ I was told to wait one cycle but when I queried it they were clear it’s for dating and should be neither a negative nor positive over not waiting. But, my loss was very (physically) straightforward so I’m guessing it could be individual...you could ask them
Their reasons maybe and if they were for dating, or emotional reasons, that maybe feels different than a physical reason they’re aware of?
@bunnykins123 thank you 🙏🏻 it’s so, so hard to stay off google isn’t it 😭 I’m getting caught in it myself tonight...

What were you overanalysing @bunnykins123? X

Amazing @Ganesh2022!

@Cindy974 so glad you saw a heartbeat! 🥰

@mummyofrb sorry to hear what you've just been through. I waited one cycle because I just wasn't ready to start trying and go through it all again in December, but I would've started straight away if I felt differently.

I'm having such an odd day today. Don't want to do anything, fell asleep at 6pm and so cranky too 😂 eurgh, I hate this TWW. I thought I'd be more relaxed this time round x

@Skl2021 I'm 8 weeks Tuesday I think. Had a massive panic this week as my symptoms decreased but they seem to be a bit worse again now. Got my 12 week scan appointment and it seems a lifetime away xx

@Skl2021 time is at a stand still!!

@bunnykins123 stay off Google.. come and ask your mumsnet friends instead I promise we’re basically just as qualified as Dr Google 🥸🤪 xx

@Skl2021 honestly soooo slow. I’m sure the TWW when quicker than this past week and a half and that’s saying something!! Xx

@arianasky @Ganesh2022 thank you, I’m trying to stay positive 🤍

@Cindy974 so lovely getting to hear the heartbeat, congratulations xx

@Ganesh2022 this is EXCELLENT news, congratulations 💕 how are you feeling?

@Skl2021 would you be totally against having a scan? Or are you just happy living in the moment. I think your symptoms all point to a very positive outcome.

@Cindy974 that's great news, it must have been so lovely seeing the teeny heartbeat. I know lots of people who's dates were pushed back - you have nothing to worry about I'm sure. If you can, try and enjoy the news from your positive scan.

@calimc83 this is true. The 1 cycle I wasn't pregnant, I had soooo many symptoms that I was certain I was pregnant. I wasn't. I don't think symptoms actually mean much when you look at all the lovely ladies who have recently had BFPs and their symptoms in the build up to it. But. It's fun to overanalyse everyone twinge and sensation! Are you feeling much after your wine and pizza last night?

I'm in the build up to fertile week now. Had a bit of a wobble earlier, overanalysed everything on google and now feel totally bummed out. I must learn that no good comes from google 😡

Evening all! Had a busy, busy day. Couple of waves of nausea today too. Still in denial mode if I’m honest. Got that Sunday feeling… sigh. Anyone else feel like the weeks are going soooo slowly?? Xxx

@Cindy974 lovely that you got to hear a heartbeat xx

@Skl2021 I’m not sure think I’m going to try and wait for my 12 week one I think! I know how you feel, are you going to get a scan do you think? X