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Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

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Skl2021 · 08/02/2022 18:39

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

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MiaGrace31 · 10/02/2022 21:17

This is one I did this evening, so want it to be true but just don't want to get my hopes up x

Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞
bunnykins123 · 10/02/2022 20:54

I also still BF so wonder if low progesterone is the issue for implantation 🤷‍♀️

bunnykins123 · 10/02/2022 20:53

@arianasky good luck with your pregnancy! I saw your tests and know exactly how you feel with the anxiety. I used the Severn seas on to conceive DD.

@Ganesh2022 I did wonder about proxseed. DH is on Olive leaf extract as I've read that's good but wondering if I should switch.

I tried aspirin last cycle (75mg) and did fall pregnant but it didn't stick. I started using Cyclogest too when I had a bfp - maybe it was too late, will try from O this time.

Bundaberg84 · 10/02/2022 20:33

@1stTimeTina I think there is one in the subforum pregnancy, not in conception. But either way, congratulations and you can stay here if you want! There are some newly-ish pregnant ladies hanging around here as well!

1stTimeTina · 10/02/2022 20:31

Wow this chat has moved quickly since last time I was in here!! I had a miscarriage in Oct/Nov last year but just found out we’re pregnant again, very nervous but trying to stay relaxed. Does anyone know of a current thread for pregnancy after miscarriage or are people using this one? I don’t want to be insensitive x

Bridgey8 · 10/02/2022 20:30

Hope everyone has had better days today xxx

arianasky · 10/02/2022 19:43

@bunnykins123 I take coq10 and seven seas conception tablets and this pregnancy I have taken baby aspirin from O day just bought some from Tesco hoping that will help.

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Skl2021 · 10/02/2022 17:46

@Tofu35 yess ask all the questions! If you went to the back I would be inclined to do it as you have waited so long but like you say if your not ready then your not ready 💞 hope the call goes well! 🤞 Xx

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Ganesh2022 · 10/02/2022 17:40

@bunnykins123 can't say if I've had any luck though (we did conceive the month my dh started the proxeed, though have conceived in past w/o it)...but figure those things don't hurt. Other than my bank account.

Ganesh2022 · 10/02/2022 17:39

@Skl2021 Thank you; you too!

Ganesh2022 · 10/02/2022 17:38

@bunnykins123 My husband takes proxeed, I take myo-inositol (I have pcos though) and ubiquinol x

@Tofu35 So ironic, they take ages and then it all comes at once...good luck whatever you decide; always here if you need a sounding board x

Tofu35 · 10/02/2022 17:05

@skl2021 those are my questions exactly! I'll have to give them a call tomorrow and find out what would happen if I wanted to postpone. I'm sure they've dealt with many cases like me before, they'll have a policy in place (which is what I keep reminding myself of while I start to worry about all possible outcomes!)

bunnykins123 · 10/02/2022 16:45

@Ganesh2022 @Skl2021 thank you so much - it's nice to actually talk to people who understand 💕

I'm throwing everything at it this month and then next month (if it is unsuccessful) having bloods etc done to get an idea of what is going on. I just feel like 3 consecutive miscarriages is not just 'bad luck'. It's just so exhausting!

Is anyone trying anything specific and having any luck ie. Aspirin?

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Skl2021 · 10/02/2022 16:43

@Tofu35 it's a huge decision do you have time to think about it? And if you don't start it do you get put to the back of the list again? Xx

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Skl2021 · 10/02/2022 16:41

@Ganesh2022 IV spoken to them today and they have started doing stuff but only time will tell if things don't improve then I will have to start looking at other schools 😩 so stressful it's horrible when your child is unhappy just want to scoop him up but that ain't going to help. Hope things start improving for you too 💞 xx

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Tofu35 · 10/02/2022 16:35

@ganesh2022 it took two years to get to the top of that list, but suddenly they're keen to get me started! He saw how worried I was looking about having to do more swabs and blood checks and hospital visits, and he offered to call them for me to say I'm not ready to start down that path yet. But I should do it myself, so I can get their advice. I think his thought is "we did it once, we'll do it again" so isn't in too much of a rush to get my follicles counted!

Ganesh2022 · 10/02/2022 16:27

hi @bunnykins123 this thread is great for support; sorry you've been through all that in such a short space of time :(

Ganesh2022 · 10/02/2022 16:26

@Skl2021 Hope everything is ok with school. I'm having major anger issues with our school right now..that's a whole other thread I may start if I can figure out how lol...breaks my heart when little ones aren't happy to go.

@Tofu35 oh wow that was fast...! What does your DH think of it all..? Tho obviously as supportive as they might be, its ultimately our bodies going through it all...

Ganesh2022 · 10/02/2022 16:24

@Cindy974 oh my!!!!

Tofu35 · 10/02/2022 15:51

The same month of my miscarriage I was finally at the top of the IVF waiting list, during the call I had to say to them I was pregnant but had just lost it. They said they would give me a few months. I was expecting another call but instead I've been sent all the pre-testing kits for treatment to start next month. Lot of conflicted emotions...I don't know if I'm ready to go down a clinical route so soon after my loss.

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Skl2021 · 10/02/2022 15:36

@PamelaDoov yess 🙌 enjoy your rest 😉🤣 xx

@bunnykins123 welcome 💐 sorry to Hear that lots of support on here! Don't give up 💕Xx

@arianasky it can only get easier right 🤣🙈 xx

@Cindy974 hahaha 🤣🙈 why u giving yourself a heart attack 🙊 we have enough to worry about 😝 xx

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Cindy974 · 10/02/2022 15:25

Little tip for you all… do not shave your muff with a blunt razor if you’re scared of seeing blood when you wipe… just had the shock of my life then realised I must have been too heavy handed with the razor 🤣🥴

arianasky · 10/02/2022 15:16

@Skl2021 I feel the same, it's so draining, hope you have a nice break soon ❤️

bunnykins123 · 10/02/2022 15:13

Hi all - can I join? After 3 chemicals in the space of 4 months I'm completely defeated with TTC! Would be good to get a bit of moral support now I'm back to CD1.

PamelaDoov · 10/02/2022 14:51

Ovulation has definitely been and gone- I only had that bit of ewcm earlier and now it’s drier and creamier so that’s good.