Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

@Bridgey8 whoops saw your reply after I posted. Hope it’s not too long to wait!

@Bridgey8 when is your scan? I can understand that, I felt the same last week going into EPAU again. We’re all here for you 💕 I have everything crossed it gives you some reassurance!

@Skl2021 I’m good! Spotting has stopped. I’m on progesterone pessaries now so that’s fun but happy I’m giving this pregnancy every chance but I’m still so nervous. Husband has been really excited ever since the scan - I keep telling him it could all still go wrong! How are you feeling?

@PamelaDoov keeping my fingers crossed it’s implantation, definitely seems too early for AF! 🤞🏻

@Skl2021 just waiting for EPU to call. I would think tomorrow but not sure!

@Skl2021 it is way too early for AF, but this is my first cycle after MC so I suppose it’s not unlikely that it would be a bit messed up. Or I’m worried that my body tried to ovulate, hence the positive tests, but didn’t, so it’s given up early this cycle! Will see how it is throughout the day.

@PamelaDoov sounds like implantation to me!

I've been referred for a scan by the GP - feel so sick. Am shaking about going back in that room :(

Hope everyone is having an ok day xx

I’m 6dpo and I’ve started bleeding very lightly. I suddenly felt very wet, so went to the loo and it was on the loo roll when I wiped. It’s quite confusing. On one hand, it’s a week too early for AF, and I have had genuine implantation bleeding with previous pregnancies. On the other hand, I’ve got that feeling in my tummy when you know AF is coming, although no actual cramps yet. My lower back is really aching, but tbh that’s not typically an AF sign for me. I checked my cervix after I had the bleed and it’s still high and soft, and there’s wasn’t much blood up there at all so it’s not like in full flow. So I really don’t know what to think!

Hi everyone, congrats on all the fab baby news!

I just got my period so out this month. Silly to upset as first cycle but feels rubbish doesn't it.

Onwards!

@Bridgey8 hope goes well with your Dr too! 🤞🏻 The nausea is horrible but also hoping it’s a good sign!

@aesgriff @JuniperAndTonic I'm waiting for a doctor call back today due to my spotting. I am also soooo nauseous... I don't know how I'm going to get through the day at work. Didn't feel like this last time so hoping it's a good sign 🤷‍♀️

Morning ladies! Today I’m cd12 after the CP, we’re using clear blue ovulation sticks, wasn’t going to bother this month but here I am again! So fx ovulation happens soon, still getting negatives! So question ladies after your CP when have you ovulated if you’ve been tracking? Xx

Tested at 4am because I could sleep... On a FRER and got a BFN. I convinced myself there might be the faintest of faints but I think it's wistful thinking, it's pretty stark if I'm honest with myself. Here's a pic with Mr cat in the background (not having been weed on).

So two questions are - has anyone had a BFN on a FRER at 12 DPO and gone on to get a BFP. Second, should I just assume I am out? Be brutally honest with me, I've done this cycle all wrong and been stupidly obsessed and now I'm devastated. Wtf were all the symptoms, I never get queasy!

Glad you've got your call in @aesgriff and line is getting darker! Good news

Not long until ovulation for you then @calimc83! I'd dtd every other day until Weds/Thurs and then every night for 3 nights from there. I also had the same with ewcm, literally loads straight after the mc! So strange.

I'm so sorry @arianasky. Look after yourself, we're all here for you when you're ready ❤️

Sorry you're going through a chemical too @bunnykins123. Hope you're okay.

@aesgriff so happy you got a darker line yesterday! Good luck with any more testing you do and let us know how you get on with the gp.

For those who have tried Vitex before (sorry, I can't remember who said they had!) did you find it delayed ovulation at all? It feels like my body is trying and has been over the part few days x

@aesgriff I’m good thanks! The spotting has pretty much stopped 🙌🏻 Been having a lot of nausea the last few days though, and some food aversions - don’t even want my morning coffee and I can’t stand the thought of eating anything milky/creamy/cheesey which is usually love so it’s a bit weird 😅 I’m still nervous, busy taking it one day at a time and I’ve booked a private scan for 2 weeks time for reassurance! Good luck for the GP phone appointment 🤞🏻

@JuniperAndTonic how are you?? Any more spotting? I’ve got a call this afternoon so we’ll go from there. I tested yesterday and the line has got stronger which is a good sign. Not going to test anymore now unless the bleeding gets heavier or towards the end of the week xx

Morning all! Got a telephone appointment between 3:30-6:30 this afternoon with ironically the same doctor who referred me to EPU last time.
How is everyone this morning? Xxx

Morning! Busy day at work yesterday so trying to catch up!

Just wanted to say @aesgriff EPAU gave me the progesterone without me even having to ask after my bleeding last week - I was ready to ask for it and quote the Tommy’s research but she actually gave me a print out form Tommy’s about it! So hopefully your GP is the same. Have you tested this morning?

How is everyone else? Anyone else testing soon? 👀

Hi ladies, hope everyone is doing ok in their wait for that positive test! Aunt Flo is due here on Thursday and so far tests have been BFN! Also feel like I’m peeing on money at this point 🙈 Do any of you have experience using clear blue ultra tests? I got those instead of FRER this time but telling myself they must not be as sensitive… not sure if I’m lying to myself though!

Bit of history I’ve had two previous losses, one at 8 weeks and one at 10 weeks last year. I went to a private consultant and am now on progesterone, pred, clexane injections etc which is reassuring however I find the side effects from them are the same as what pregnancy symptoms would be so they’re a bit of a head f**k.

Anyway I didn’t just want to be a ghost, hope you’re all well & this is a better week for everyone xx

@aesgriff good luck tomorrow with the fight for progesterone 💪 fingers crossed the spotting will have eased up by then too.

@MO22 good luck testing tomorrow! Got my fingers crossed for you 🤞 (hoping the cat will be spared too!)

I've been off for a few days as trying to take my mind off the tww! Sending love to everyone 💛 it's an emotional rollercoaster for sure.

Af is due for me next Saturday and I have my best friend coming over, which usually involves a lot of wine. At least if af comes I'll be able to drown my sorrows, it will be my first since the MC.

@aesgriff never TMI on this thread!! I forgot I'm planning on using pressed this cycle actually 😂 x