Valentines, pancakes, BFPs etc thread 2

Well my temperature dropped today and I can tell that AF is definitely imminent I'll head over to the March thread now. Good luck to anyone still to test!

@ViL89 we will always be here I'm never off this app at the moment so shout out whenever you need to ❤️

@TheBirdintheCave I do that every month. Every when I know for sure I'm not the hope is always there which is frustrating. I'm also crazy obsessive! It must just be part of this journey.
Xx

@TheBirdintheCave no not at all, don;t apologise. This is really tough so be kind to yourself, we all do the same and understand how much you want this so it's totally normal.

You're not out for yet so fingers crossed for you, but I find it easier sometime to assume I'm not so the fall isn't quite as tough.
xxx

@ViL89 That must be really hard :( hugs

@kizzy97 Hopefully your AF turns up soon :)

I'm like 90% sure my line is an indent now. I must have looked at it about ten thousand times x__x I'll still do a test tomorrow but after that I think I'll stick with the cheapies. FRER used to be so good and now they get my hopes up and then leave me feeling really stupid when it turns out to be nothing :( Sorry guys, you must all think I'm some kind of crazy obsessive. I guess maybe I am? Perhaps that's just what happens when you want something really badly but realistically have very little chance of getting it.

Thank you @J90A I'm home alone at the moment as husband is away so your support means more than you know. Only next month xx

@TheBirdintheCave CD 35 today, I've got sore boobs and slight cramping so I think it's on the way, but this is the latest I've been since coming off the implant and ttc

@kizzy97 What CD are you now? I skipped a month once and didn't get my period until CD 60.

Still no af, going stir crazy now 😭😭

@ViL89 yeah I always tell myself I won't test because of that but I do. when you know your not then your just waiting on af it's the worst. Once it comes and your starting a new cycle you will feel better. Ride the waves of emotion just now and allow yourself to feel sad. A hot bath and chocolate xx

Thanks @J90A

I nearly had a moment of kidding myself that it was too early but it's not I know that and hopeful thinking just makes me fall harder.

My sister is starting IVF next month and my family don't know about our struggles and having to support her is really hard
Feels so lonely

I'm sure I will feel better once AF arrives but today I feel lowest of the low

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@ViL89 @Bramblecrumble21 sorry about the bfns is would destroying.

I've been Googling night sweats all morning I'm desperate how but I think im just getting unwell. Xx

Ok, thanks for the hope thebirdinthecave. Maybe I'll wait till af before booking lambing experience.

13dpo and bfn

Crushed especially as now were getting extra help and still not working

So heartbroken

I think I'll book a lambing experience for the weekend as I was looking at it for my family (dd3) but it's not safe for pregnant women. Silver lining.

@Bramblecrumble21 With my son I didn't test positive until 14dpo so don't give up just yet :)

It was a bfn, two days before my period is due when the test says it works up to 4 days before.

@J90A Yeah I don't think I'm imagining things this time haha. I'll take another test tomorrow and see if it's darker. Knowing my luck I'll just start bleeding today but we'll see :)

@TheBirdintheCave very faint but it does seem like there's a shadow of something there 🤞🤞🤞 xx

@TheBirdintheCave can't wait to see it! Hoping it's a BFP for you when you test again!

This is the best I can do re photo. I can see it better in real life than my daft camera can pick up 🤦🏻‍♀️

@TheBirdintheCave oh 🤞 🤞 do you have a pic xx

@J90A Don’t congratulate me just yet haha I haven’t seen it in daylight so it’s probably all in my head x__x

@TheBirdintheCave oh that gives me hope!! BFN this morning but I'm only 8/9 DPO 🤦‍♀️😂.

Omg congratulations! How long have you been ttc this time. Xx

@J90A I had night sweats before I found out I was pregnant with my son. It was my only symptom :)

So, after alternately dreaming about BFPs and spotting all night I had to get up at 6am with IBS and didn’t want to waste the FMU.

Tentative faint positive on a FRER... I am shocked. I’ll take a photo after my husband has gone to work as I want to surprise him but don’t want to say anything until it gets darker so will test again in a couple of days :/ It’s not as faint as the chemical I think I had at Christmas and it came up within five minutes. I think I’m 13dpo but if I ovulated up to 48 hours after my ovulation cramps then I guess I could be as early as 11? I had some cramping yesterday afternoon and evening so thought AF would be here today...

@TryTheNight me too! lol.

@Jellysweet ya still early try not to let it get you done. Easier said that done I know!

I've woken up with night sweats which I usually get just before AF but I'm only 8/9 DPO. Does this mean anything or am I clutching at straws 😂. (I also had this with Covid mind you) 😂