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Trying for a November baby 🎇🍁🥮

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BiscuitLover3678 · 30/01/2022 12:24

Af arrived!

Anyone else about to start TTC a November baby?

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BiscuitLover3678 · 13/02/2022 18:12

@MrsGrealish

Welcome all newcomers! 6dpo now and don't feel any different. Gotta feeling it's not my month. DTD once over fertile week so not really surprised
Do you know what day you did it on? Only takes one go! :) I understand the feeling though. I’ve sort of known it hadn’t worked the last two cycles (and it hadn’t!) 1dpo here and not letting myself think anything yet. Only DTD twice and two days in a row but I think we did them on my peak days (I hope!) whereas last few months we DTD much more but earlier on in fertile week.

Good luck to us all!

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MrsGrealish · 13/02/2022 17:20

Welcome all newcomers!
6dpo now and don't feel any different. Gotta feeling it's not my month. DTD once over fertile week so not really surprised

Charl881 · 13/02/2022 17:11

@Coastaldreamer similar to me then! I need to find the energy to do it this evening then will see about tomorrow.

@FreckledMouse welcome, sorry to hear about your mc. Good luck for this cycle!

Coastaldreamer · 13/02/2022 16:17

@Bubblesandballoons yay for your peak! Haha wel hopefully you won't need to touch the 40 and this month is your cycle!

@Charl881 we did SMEP too so did fri, sat and this morning. Totally worn out! Got the strongest peak yesterday so hopefully we have done enough. May do tomorrow just in case but already done 5 days in this one week so that's overkill right?!

Welcome @FreckledMouse sorry to hear of your early mc and hoping this is the month for you x

Bubblesandballoons · 13/02/2022 16:02

@Charl881 I got a stronger peak today, so will dtd tonight too and see how we feel about tomorrow.
Welcome @FreckledMouse, sorry about your mc, hopefully this will be your month

FreckledMouse · 13/02/2022 15:31

Hi 👋🏼
Hope you don't mind if I join the thread ?
Got my BFP last month but unfortunately ended in Early MC 😣
Just been given the all clear to try again and we are hoping to jump straight back in ♥️🙏🏼
Bleeding has now stopped and calendar is predicting ovulation in 2 weeks so 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 for a Nov Baby !

Charl881 · 13/02/2022 14:01

@Bubblesandballoons yay glad you finally got it! My cheap OPKs aren’t positive this morning so last night was definitely peak and I assume today / early tomorrow is ovulation day. When are you planning on DTD until?

I DTD Friday and Saturday, will try again today and not sure whether to do tomorrow just in case. Was meant to be doing SMEP for the first time this month but it’s a lot of DTD!

How is everyone else doing?

Bubblesandballoons · 12/02/2022 22:50

Well ladies… peak has finally arrived 🎉.

@Charl881, I was a bit worried as only a two hour hold, but it worked. Will do another cheapy in the morning too, see if it’s any darker.
@Coastaldreamer thanks, thought it would never come, and typically as I was thinking it wasn’t likely and only had 3 cheap opks left I ordered 40 more this afternoon that are coming tomorrow 🤦🏼‍♀️😂.

Trying for a November baby 🎇🍁🥮
Coastaldreamer · 12/02/2022 21:14

@Bubblesandballoons hope this is finally your peak tonight 🤞🏽 xx

Charl881 · 12/02/2022 21:02

@Bubblesandballoons so far I’ve found Clear Blue seem to be pretty sensitive regardless of hold! So fingers crossed you’ll still get an curate result.

Thanks that’s good advice! Never had close to a high on a easy@home before, assuming now this might be because I peak in the evening.

Bubblesandballoons · 12/02/2022 20:50

@Charl881 I’d test again with an easy@home in the morning and see if it’s darker or lighter. If darker count tomorrow as peak, if lighter count tonight.
I also finally got a high opk reading tonight after 10 days of flashing smileys. Typically I threw sample away and didn’t think to check with clear blue. Gonna try and hold till bedtime and do it then and see if that shows peak finally.

Charl881 · 12/02/2022 19:48

Question for OPK experts. I had a negative reading on an easy@home and a flashing smiley this morning. Tonight I’ve had a high easy@home reading and a static smiley on my Clear Blue.

Would you count today as peak day or tomorrow?

Should I keep testing tomorrow?

I DTD tonight anyway and will do tomorrow so it’s a moot point, just interested as it’s the first month I’ve tested of an evening as well as a morning!

FirstTimerHan · 12/02/2022 15:25

Current CD 16 of cycle 2 TTC following MMC November 🤞🏼🤞🏼

LH peak CD14... BD CD 13 and CD 14 (ovulation day?!)

BBT not corresponding but trying to not worry too much!

Not going to HCG test until AF is late, due 25th Feb I believe!

🌈🌟🤞🏼🙏🏼

Trying for a November baby 🎇🍁🥮
FirstTimerHan · 12/02/2022 14:59

Yes! Desperately trying - THINK ovulation was yesterday but BBT not lining up 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Coastaldreamer · 12/02/2022 14:47

Lol @MrsGrealish I don't think I've seen a peak like that even when we had DD!

I'm feeling a bit sorry for DH Atm though as I've been all over him to DTD and must be feeling a bit used!! We will go again tomorrow morning I think 🧐

MrsGrealish · 12/02/2022 14:40

THAT is one hell of a peak @Coastaldreamer yep DTD later😂 imagine if it's 3.5 tomorrow

Coastaldreamer · 12/02/2022 13:37

Welcome @Annabelle0852 and @Bluemilan

@mightbeyesmightbeno wow congratulations on the BFP!

Sorry to hear about AF and the losses :(

Oh @Bubblesandballoons that's frustrating. Hopefully it's just late ov because of the miscarriages.

So we did DTD today and then I checked on OPK after getting what I thought was peak yesterday but the line is even darker. What does that mean?! Also the app is messed up I'm actually CD 15 not 14.

Should we just DTD again tomorrow
Too? That would be yesterday, today and tomorrow to be covered ?

Trying for a November baby 🎇🍁🥮
Bluemilan · 12/02/2022 13:11

@Poppyjen hi! Mine are DD8, DS almost 3 & DS almost 2 Blush DC3 was also a surprise from the universe, we only found out at 4 months and I’d been breastfeeding and had the depo, there’s 12 months between them!

I’ve started to bleed now but only lightly, so will probably count tomorrow as CD1

Poppyjen · 12/02/2022 12:27

Ps...will catch up with the rest of the thread asap but just wanted to say 👋 to @Bluemilan as a fellow TTC #4. How old are your other DCs if you don't mind me asking?

Also, I feel your frustration after getting the coil removed - this happened to me a few years ago, it was almost like my body had to re-learn its normal cycle...

Poppyjen · 12/02/2022 12:22

Hello, can I join in too?

TTC #4 ...can't quite believe I am writing that, totally thought we were done at DC 3 (well DC 2 actually but I guess the universe had other ideas 😂) but I have finally given in to the feeling that I am just not done yet.

I turned 40 this year so it feels like this is a bit of a last gasp - I already have DS (12) DD1 (9) and DD2 (3) with 2 miscarriages and 1 ectopic in the mix. Am I crazy?.....

I am on CD 5 of cycle 1.

Xx

Bluemilan · 12/02/2022 11:19

Hi everyone, hope it’s ok for me to join!

TTC #4!

Initially we were set at 3 as we’ve also had 8 miscarriages and 2 losses at the 23 week mark but since finding out I’ll likely need a procedure on my cervix next year my GP pretty much said to go for number 4 now as it won’t be an option then, so had coil out yesterday on what should have been AF day but typically it’s a no show after two years of coming bang on time Hmm

Annabelle0852 · 12/02/2022 10:31

Hello, could I join? AF arrived in full force today which puts me on track for a November baby 🍁 this cycle.

smiles39 · 12/02/2022 09:52

@mightbeyesmightbeno congrats! 🥳

Definitely think I missed my LH peak with the OPKs. Started testing too late because I was trying to be chill about it all but then caved.

AF due on 23rd Feb, so I think TWW has begun. Will continue DTD every other day in case I ovulate later than I thought. Still empty circles for me. Fingers crossed for everyone else in the TWW!

excitedemmi · 12/02/2022 09:33

@mightbeyesmightbeno oh my gosh oh my gosh oh my gosh! Amazing news! Congrats!

mightbeyesmightbeno · 12/02/2022 08:04

Just spotted this thread - to give a little hope I've just got to the end of my TWW and a BFP and we only DTD twice in fertile window... and one of those times (TMI next) when DH withdrew, all liquid inside me came out onto the bed. So I am pretty sure that was a wasted try. But it was enough to work! Keep positive!