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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

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arianasky · 06/02/2022 10:25

@Skl2021 ah thank you I must have line eyes then 😂 I did yeah but I used a clearblue weeks indicator one this morning, the one I had yesterday was the digital early detection one, so I'm not too worried at the mo as the weeks indicator one is a higher hcg detection hopefully It'll show tomorrow 🤞🏻

@PamelaDoov thank you my eyes are going funny I think from staring at tests 😂🙈

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Skl2021 · 06/02/2022 10:05

@arianasky so u got a not pregnant this morning? After a pregnant yesterday. That frer is definitely stronger! You can see the line clearly today xx

@PamelaDoov sorry that bloody thing is still flashing 😩 it's so frustrating when things don't happen. Keep going 💕 xx

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PamelaDoov · 06/02/2022 10:02

@arianasky I think the 11 dpo line is easily darker than the 10 dpo

PamelaDoov · 06/02/2022 10:01

Still flashing. Still no peak. Still fed up!

arianasky · 06/02/2022 09:40

@Skl2021 morning, hmm well the FRER looks exactly the same as yesterday to me so? And I got a not pregnant on a clearblue weeks indicator, when I was pregnant in the summer same happened at 11DPO and then I got a 1-2weeks on 12dpo but obviously this time I'm now worrying 😞 what do you think of the lines?

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!
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Skl2021 · 06/02/2022 08:33

@Bundaberg84 didn't get cramps sorry just felt like I had s cold and shitty for a few days. Xx

@arianasky how's today's test xx

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 21:43

@Skl2021 I'm the same I want one to know it's the right positioning size etc but the same as you I'm scared too, guess we have to take it day by day 💕

@Bundaberg84 thank you 💕

Bundaberg84 · 05/02/2022 18:51

@arianasky so happy for you! ❤️

@aesgriff I have the same right now, sore boobs started very early. Who knows??

I have cramps the third day in a row, and I'm only 10dpo (but didn't track, but my AF never showed up earlier by more than one day). The cramps are not bad as in I need to take pain killers, but bad enough that I feel like crap and just want to cuddle in my blanket. Did anyone of you had the same? I mean it started around 6 days before AF...

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 18:41

@arianasky I'm 50/50 ATM I want one to check everything is ok im just a scaredy cat. I will see how I feel in a few weeks. See if it's sunk in by then 🤣🙈 x

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 18:23

@Skl2021 I'm sorry, I was the same it was awful. 😞 I have to have one at 8 - 10 weeks on NHS as they thought after my d and c the pregnancy was a partial molar pregnancy so they need to check for that earlier this time, I want a private one earlier aswell but then I think well it only shows your ok for that day and after last time so i'm in two minds about having one or not? Are you going to you think?

@PamelaDoov oh I'm so sorry that happened to you 💕

PamelaDoov · 05/02/2022 18:06

@arianasky how terrible 😞 I always look straight at where the heart is when I go for scans, first thing I do, so I saw straight away there was nothing happening, but I lay there in silence hoping it was just some horrible mistake until she actually said it.

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 18:05

@arianasky our stories are nearly identical! that's exactly what happened to me. Private scan at 8 weeks seen heartbeat. I remember them saying to me oh now we have seen a heartbeat chance of miscarriage is really low so your safe 🙄 so we told most family. then I had scan at 12 weeks and she sent me to toilet as she had to do internal and I said on the way out it's not good news you should be able to see it clearly now. Do you think you will have early scan? I want one to know everything is ok but like you say I'm scared of scans now 🤦 x

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 18:01

@Skl2021 I know it was horrible I went for a private scan at 8 weeks and all was fine measuring a day in front then at my 12 week scan I found out no heartbeat. They scanned my stomach first and it was taking a long time and I said to her there's nothing there is it? And she made me go to the toilet to have an internal and I knew what had happened it was awful 😢 crying my eyes out while having the internal scan I'll never get over it it was traumatising 😞 I know I'll be a bag of nerves before the next scan 😞

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 17:57

@PamelaDoov just devastating isn't it. Never think it will happen until it does. 💔 Xx

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PamelaDoov · 05/02/2022 17:56

@Skl2021 I know what you mean, scans are just ruined forever now 😕

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 17:52

@arianasky yes I just don't want them to say oh it might not be good news as your measuring behind. Just need to keep it in my head that I know I should be and that it's ok. Yes I don't think I will be the same at scans again. I might just say I don't want to see anything until I know everything is ok. Used to get excited about scans and now I dread them! IL never forget the words I'm sorry there's no heartbeat 😥 it's haunting xx

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 17:35

@Skl2021 I'm the same with the scan thing I'll just keep in mind I'm a few days behind though even though I know it will be tough, I'm dreading a scan as that's how I found out about my MMC at my 12 weeks scan it was horrible and traumatising so I'll be so scared each time now 😢

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 17:31

@arianasky I feel a bit better but I still think something will for wrong. It just feels too good to be true? Also feeling worried about being behind on scans or appt as I know I ovulated late but they go from last period so they won't match. Just more things to stress about 🤦 hoping it gets a bit easier as time goes on! X

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 17:18

@Skl2021 😂 it's honestly the first time that's ever happened to me I normally love eating haha! Ah ok yes I'm the same should be 4+2 by nhs dating but I'm 3+5 from when I ovulated, how are you feeling now? any better about it Or still very worried? 💕

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 17:11

@arianasky oh that is different! I'm definitely not struggling with food wish I was 🤣🤦 I'm 5+1 today but going from my last period i would be 6+1 but I know I ovulated later xx

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 17:04

@Skl2021 well my last pregnancy I never got sickness at all so this feels different, I'm struggling to eat aswell and I loovvveee my food 😂 I just feel so full straight away and the thought of a lot of things are turning me 🤮 I'm not too tired yet just my normal tiredness feeling, in weeks how far along are you now?

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 15:34

@arianasky it's horrible expecting blood every time u go to the toilet 🤦 I don't usually get sickness until after 6 weeks. Tiredness has started tho 🤣🙈 xx

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 15:25

@Skl2021 I'm the same with the wetness and knicker checking 🙈

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Skl2021 · 05/02/2022 15:17

@arianasky that's promising! I have hardly any symptoms. It doesn't even feel real. I have had a bit of dizziness and feeling wet down there 🤣 constantly knicker checking 🤦 xx

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arianasky · 05/02/2022 14:36

@Skl2021 I'm good thank you, getting some dizzy spells and nausea waves that come from nowhere and are so strong, how are you? 💕