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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

Latest thread for ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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BuchananBaby · 06/02/2022 22:37

Hello lovelies
I hope you don't mind me joining I had an early miscarriage in January (unexpectedly pregnant but was very excited). So we've decided to try again and see what happens. Must be mad though got an 11 month old DD.
Hopefully we all go on to get a bfp soon ❤

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Skl2021 · 06/02/2022 22:15

@Bridgey8 @arianasky let's spread some positivy in this thread ✨🌈🎉✨🙌🤞and good luck to everyone else waiting for there bfp!! ✨🌈 Xx

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arianasky · 06/02/2022 21:40

@Bridgey8 @Skl2021 same I'd love to tell my parents and in laws but can't face the disappointment and heartbreak of telling them if it goes wrong again 😞 definitely I hope and pray that this pregnancy is happy and healthy for us all 🤞🏻🌈🙏🏻

Bridgey8 · 06/02/2022 19:35

@arianasky I'm with you... I was so tempted to tell my family yesterday but have decided not to until I've at least had a scan so that I don't get anyone's hopes up if it's bad news again xxx

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Skl2021 · 06/02/2022 19:08

@arianasky thankyou we had a good day 💕 and yes my oh knows I haven't told anyone else. But we're not getting excited or even talking about it as it doesn't feel real. Yes it's a shame we think of others before us but I feel exactly the same! Hopefully it's a different story this the! ✨🙌🤞 Xx

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arianasky · 06/02/2022 17:15

@Skl2021 yeah he knows he's really happy but cautious as well, you? I'm not telling anyone else until my 12 week scan though, it was heartbreaking coming out of the scan and having to tell people what happened last time I felt like I let everyone down 😞 if I do miscarry again I'll still tell family but I think that way at least they wouldn't have got their hopes up before it, stupid really as I should care about me not family

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Skl2021 · 06/02/2022 16:27

@arianasky I'm hoping it gets easier but I doubt it 🤦 have u told your oh yet? X

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Ganesh2022 · 06/02/2022 14:21

@PamelaDoov it sounds cynical but kinda I wonder if they’ll do it as they get paid :( I just felt like I needed to get the ball rolling, I doubt they’d do
Something without months of evidence as u say :/ let’s hope we both get sorted naturally soon !

PamelaDoov · 06/02/2022 13:41

@Ganesh2022 I guess it’s unlikely someone without pcos, aka me, would get any help for something like that, especially without at least a few months of ‘evidence’ that ovulation wasn’t happening as it should. I hope they take your concerns seriously and try to do what they can to help.

arianasky · 06/02/2022 13:38

@Skl2021 aww happy birthday to your little one 🎉 aww I know this next few weeks ( months ) I'll be a nervous wreck 😢 I'm not sure why tbh but I know it is common in pregnancy

@Ganesh2022 ah thank you that helps a little 💕

Ganesh2022 · 06/02/2022 13:24

@PamelaDoov I can guarantee they'll ask 250 for a consultation and then say it's not suitable...but I'm feeling desperate. I was basically hoping for Clomid/Letrozol which is used often in PCOS (which I have but it's been controlled...or was controlled...) I don't feel like I have months to wait and see what happens...I'll let you know what they say!

PamelaDoov · 06/02/2022 13:18

@Ganesh2022 oh have you, I didn’t know that was a thing, let me know what they say I’ll be interested to know what can be done

PamelaDoov · 06/02/2022 13:17

@aesgriff oh gosh I could still have ages 🙈 in which case I’ve been DTD all this time for no reason! Well, not no reason because I love DH, but you know what I mean 😂

Ganesh2022 · 06/02/2022 13:06

Re scans being ruined....I remember ages ago I thought a scan was just to find out the sex of a baby. Others' experiences and my own early though upsetting experience....I'm completely humbled.

Ganesh2022 · 06/02/2022 12:58

@arianasky It does look darker to me. But I think it's every 24-48 hours for HCG to rise so even if it didn't (which it does!) I wouldn't read much into it :)

@PamelaDoov same! It's really stressing me out. To the point where I've emailed a clinic about ovulation induction Blush

jjunaki100 · 06/02/2022 12:29

Hey ladies just wanted to ask isit safe to take progesterone cream?

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Skl2021 · 06/02/2022 12:11

@arianasky yes it's hard to stop once u start. I'm glad I didn't try them weeks indicator ones as it would of been another thing to stress about 🤦 I'm not doing bad. Were away for the day doing things for my little ones birthday so had something to keep me busy! Do feel like I have a water infection tho 🙈 for some reason I only get them when pregnant? Does anyone know why?! X

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aesgriff · 06/02/2022 11:40

@PamelaDoov after my D&C I ovulated on CD45. I understand how frustrating the wait is! X

arianasky · 06/02/2022 11:14

Thank you @Cruz86

@Skl2021 oh I know I'll drive myself insane now 🙈 as soon as I get a 1-2 weeks on CB then I'll calm down a little, and I'll prob do a FRER every other day until I get a dye stealer then and do the CB weeks one once a week until I get 3+ if I even get that far 🙏🏻🌈 how are you feeling today?

PamelaDoov · 06/02/2022 11:00

Cd 36 actually!

PamelaDoov · 06/02/2022 10:59

@aesgriff cd32, if cd1 is the day I had my baby delivered. CDs don’t mean much this month as it could happen any time.

aesgriff · 06/02/2022 10:46

@Bundaberg84 I’ve had sore boobs yesterday and today (4dpo today) but I read online that progesterone is the likely cause. If you still have sore boobs/cramps after 10dpo it’s likely it’s a good sign x

aesgriff · 06/02/2022 10:45

@PamelaDoov grrr those bloody OPKs! What CD are you? X

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Skl2021 · 06/02/2022 10:41

@arianasky yes I was going to say maybe it's not as sensitive! I wouldn't worry that frer is definitely darker! I know how u feel tho I felt terrible all week comparing lines 🤦 it's destroying! Still worrying now! Your still early aswell! Xx

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Cruz86 · 06/02/2022 10:30

The line looks darker to me @arianasky x