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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

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arianasky · 07/02/2022 12:29

@Skl2021 I think so, I think I'll test until get my dye stealer I have 7 tests here so hopefully I'll get one Sunday/Monday next week and I'll just do the CB weeks indicator next week and following week then 🙏🏻

@BlueForYou3 I know 😂 I have everything crossed for you 🙏🏻

@Ganesh2022 Yayyy!

Skl2021 · 07/02/2022 12:22

@Bundaberg84 I know it's hard but try not to give up just yet. Your not out until af shows. I was convinced I was out this cycle. You don't have much longer to wait if you don't want to test. I will cross everything for you 🤞✨ xx

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Skl2021 · 07/02/2022 12:17

@Ganesh2022 thankyou! And don't think like that 😩 your ovulating! 🎉 Go get that egg!! Keeping positive for you 🙌🤞✨ xx

@PamelaDoov congratulations to you too! Go get busy 🎉🙌 what a coincidence for you both 🙊 xx

@hopefulsunshine11 I'm so sorry your having such a hard time. Don't give up I'm sure it will happen it's just so cruel at times 😩 have a cry and let it all out xx

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Bundaberg84 · 07/02/2022 12:14

I don't feel that optimistic anymore. Two days before AF is supposed to show up, starting with my normal AF symptoms like mild cramps and bloating. Also got that weird metallic taste again, which I only had when I was getting a BFP, but weirdly after the last BFP that ended in an ectopic, I seem to have it every cycle now. Thanks.
Two days ago I was weirdly optimistic because I started cramping at what I think was 7dpo, which is too early for AF. The only other time I had that was with my first BFP. Boobs hurt, but that's not out of the ordinary.
I don't want to test though. I wouldn't want to know if it would be a chemical.

PamelaDoov · 07/02/2022 12:09

@Ganesh2022 such a weird coincidence! It’s my birthday in 2 weeks so I could be getting either a nice birthday present or a huge disappointment.

BlueForYou3 · 07/02/2022 12:05

I’m so sorry @hopefulsunshine11, I completely relate to how you feel 😔 It feels like everyone around me is getting pregnant. I see people pregnant with their second child and I think about how I was wanting a baby before they even had their first! Life can feel so unfair at times. I try my best to be grateful for what I have but I definitely still have a good cry every now and then about it x

Ganesh2022 · 07/02/2022 12:03

@hopefulsunshine11 So sorry, what a crap feeling. When you say AF came early, do you mean your LP was too short?

Ganesh2022 · 07/02/2022 11:59

@PamelaDoov Ha! How funny...never been so happy to see that stupid face. Fingers crossed we have another set of matching tests in two weeks' time huh?

PamelaDoov · 07/02/2022 11:55

@Ganesh2022 omg I had my static smiley this morning too!!! Hooray for us!! Luckily we DTD yesterday, gonna do it tonight and maybe tomorrow for good measure lol

hopefulsunshine11 · 07/02/2022 11:52

I give up, I had a positive ovulation test, dtd for 4 days and used the conceive plus lube taking vitamins etc and still to be greeted with the 9th month of negative tests after MMC and another AF who came early at the weekend just to flip me over the edge. Why does this hurt so much and happen to people who just desperately want to be parents!

Ganesh2022 · 07/02/2022 11:45

@aesgriff Thx, I feel like it's a step...How amazing would a positive on Valentine's day be...?! Fingers crossed for you.

@MangoLipstick Hope period isn't too painful. And may this be your LMP...

Ganesh2022 · 07/02/2022 11:40

@Skl2021 I am relieved..then that voice in the back of my mind says "well it doesn't guarantee ovulation" but I am trying VERY hard to silence that voice. Belated happy bday to your little one btw :)

Ganesh2022 · 07/02/2022 11:39

@MO22 Yes!!! My parents' house has this digital timer with a very similar looking smiley face and I find it hard to look at it lol.

MO22 · 07/02/2022 11:37

@aesgriff oh lol, the joys of the metaformin tummy! I found it passed pretty quickly, hope it does for you! I know, valentine's Day was what I had my eyes on, I don't plan on getting DH anything because we are lazy but that would be a brilliant gift. I am getting ahead of myself tho, let's see what the new few days of symptoms bring. I think I'll aim to only test 12 DPO if I have symptoms, we shall see.

@Ganesh2022 huge congrats on your solid smiley, I had mine this cycle after nine days of flashing, by that point I was about to throw that smiley face out of the window. It's such a relief isn't it!

Skl2021 · 07/02/2022 11:35

@Ganesh2022 yesss!!! Brilliant news so happy for you 🎉🎉 bet your soo happy and relieved!! Get busy 🤣🙌 xx

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Skl2021 · 07/02/2022 11:34

@aesgriff it totally does and the closer you get the urge to test gets the better of me 🤣🤦 all common sense goes out the window! Yes I will definitely do something I do want it on record incase something does go wrong xx

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aesgriff · 07/02/2022 11:34

@Ganesh2022 WOOOHOOOOO 🤩🤩🥳

Ganesh2022 · 07/02/2022 11:29

Never thought I'd be so excited to share with the internet what my pee sticks are doing. Confused. Thanks for being such a nice group.

BlueForYou3 · 07/02/2022 11:29

@arianasky Wow those are some very vivid dreams! 🤣 Your lines are looking great by the way, you must be thrilled. I’m feeling okay, trying really hard not to get my hopes up x

Ganesh2022 · 07/02/2022 11:28

Good luck to everyone in 2ww! Hoping for happy news.

FINALLY GOT SOLID F-ing SMILEY!
@PamelaDoov I had a flashing this morning and tested again a few minutes ago...with my last stick. Came out of nowhere as OPKs were all but blank and today are dark. This was tenth day so hoping you have the same luck. Now to catch the damn egg....

aesgriff · 07/02/2022 11:19

@mo22 yay DPO buddies 😄 I haven’t got sore boobs any more but have had some pelvis pinching earlier (although I have started metformin which has given me a funny tummy so could be 💩 related - sorry TMI!).
I’m thinking of testing Valentine’s Day as that’ll be 12dpo. But only if I haven’t started spotting. Oh god I feel like I’m making these promises that I know I won’t keep 🤣 xx

@Skl2021 I’m not enjoying the TWW 😜 it goes so slowly. I hear you on the aftercare it is totally sh^t. However if it’s on your GP record you’ll have more to back a referral to a specialist team should you need it xx

Skl2021 · 07/02/2022 11:07

@arianasky I never knew that! yes the chances are it won't happen again! I'm sure everything will be fine. Its a new pregnancy and chances are everything is going to be ok 🤞💕 u won't have long to wait until your scan! Are you continuing to test? X

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arianasky · 07/02/2022 11:01

Thank you @aesgriff I'm not sure yet but I think between 6-8 weeks

@Skl2021 well as it was a partial molar they say that's a bit of a fluke type of thing as it's when 2 sperm fertilise the egg so the baby won't survive after 14 weeks. Apparently there's only a 1% chance that will happen again so hopefully it won't 🙏🏻

Skl2021 · 07/02/2022 10:43

@arianasky Is there a higher chance of having another molar pregnancy after u have already had one? I don't know anything about them. Haha I feel like I am I feel no different 🤣🤦 xx

@aesgriff ahh the tww! Hope it goes quickly for you and that spotting stays away🤞🙌 my GP does nothing u don't go through them anymore u have to self refer and after the aftercare I received last time which was none I don't have high hopes 🤦 I do need to do it though. Xx

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MO22 · 07/02/2022 10:40

@aesgriff I also made a promise to myself that I wouldn't test until at least day 1 of AF but I already am eyeing up maybe 12 DPO... Confused

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