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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

Latest thread for ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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JuniperAndTonic · 28/01/2022 09:25

@Skl2021 I’m sorry you’re not feeling great, it really is a rollercoaster isn’t it.

@Cruz86 how many DPO are you?

So ladies I need some advice - I’ve been thinking about a new job for while, basically aiming for promotion. Recently, our assistant manager left and I have been all set to apply for her job. I think I could manage it even if this pregnancy works out because it’s within the same team and a job I mostly already know how to do and not too much of a step up from where I am now. It’s permanent and it wouldn’t be too much of an issue if everything works out and I need to go on mat leave later this year. But now I’ve heard about another post - a 1 year secondment as a manager but with a different team - an opportunity I’ve been looking out for for a while for the experience and chance to try out the management job without committing permanently. However, it would be a big step up and a whole new team so not ideal if I’m potentially pregnant and also it’s a year secondment which if I suddenly left for mat leave after a few months wouldn’t be great! On the other hand, if I don’t got for it and I have another miscarriage, I know I’ll kick myself! DH thinks I should just apply for both and see what happens, but I’m so unsure! And I can’t talk to anyone in real life because I’m not ready to tell anyone yet! Help!!

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 09:25

@Cruz86 @calimc83 I'm 14 dpo. Will attach some piks. My frer is maybe a smidge darker irl. But I have taken a poundshop 10miu yesterday and it was so faint! That's the pic on its own! The other tests are Wilkinsons meant to be 20miu. Surely the cheapies should be darker at this point meaning my HCG can't be much higher than 20miu? Even though I'm seeing progression on the frer the other tests are just so faint still. So I'm not hopeful 😭 I'm sorry for going on at everyone I feel like a broken record. X

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!
Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!
Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!
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BlueForYou3 · 28/01/2022 09:23

Thank you for the tag @Skl2021. It looked like you had good line progression? I’m fairly sure I had a Chemical last month and didn’t get beyond a very faint line on the FRER’s. If there’s no sign of AF I wouldn’t worry too much about line progression as you’ve had a clear BFP. I know it’s easier said than done though x

Still no temp rise for me this morning so I persuaded DH to DTD one more time Grin Really hoping to see that rise tomorrow as I’m all out of stamina!

Sparklesurprise29 · 28/01/2022 09:23

Hey everyone how are you all doing? Found the new thread💖
Had a small Mumsnet break, this 2WW is going in so slowly😵 I'm roughly 4DPO if I count ovulation as the date my opk was negative, can't believe its still ages till I can test 😨

calimc83 · 28/01/2022 09:16

@Cruz86 how u doing? X

calimc83 · 28/01/2022 09:15

@Skl2021 Hope u are ok? Have u any pics of the progression? X

Cruz86 · 28/01/2022 09:06

Have you done another test this morning?

I'm feeling very confused. Bleeding hasn't started and spotting has slowed right down, temp is still high. But bfn x

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 08:51

@Cruz86 af due yesterday xx

@calimc83 I was panicking thinking no one was coming 😩 just sat here waiting for someone to message 🤦 xx

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calimc83 · 28/01/2022 08:48

Phew! Mild panic that our old thread had run out! 😩 how's everyone today? X

Cruz86 · 28/01/2022 08:45

Oh I'm sorry you're not feeling great @Skl2021 😞 has your af due date been or have you still got a few days til it's due? X

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 08:39

Yey finally people 🎉 I'm not doing great I don't think it's good news there just not progressing like they should xx

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JuniperAndTonic · 28/01/2022 08:39

Good morning, just found the new thread! Hope everyone is okay today ❤️

Cruz86 · 28/01/2022 08:38

Thank you @Skl2021! How are you this morning? Xx

Bridgey8 · 28/01/2022 08:37

Thanks for the tag!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 22:06

Sorry ladies new thread our last filled.up so quick I didn't even notice! 🙈 Please tag people! I have done a few but I'm shit at it 🤣🤦 xx

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 22:05

@Cindy974 @theblueflowers @JuniperAndTonic @calimc83 @Cruz86 @Ganesh2022 @Nikkic2123 @PamelaDoov @BlueForYou3 @Bridgey8 @Shortmamashortcycles

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