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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

Latest thread for ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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Bundaberg84 · 28/01/2022 16:51

sorry, wrong link. Not my day. www.blood.london/test/beta-hcg-quantitative/

Bundaberg84 · 28/01/2022 16:50

I don't know where you live, and you might have to get private, but it's def. possible. This one is private though: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4457188-For-those-who-have-had-BFP-s-when-and-how-many-times-did-you-DTD-in-your-FW-window?msgid=114347275#114347275

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 16:41

@calimc83 I didn't think it was done in the UK 🙈 I know they do it for like ivf or like maybe epu? My GP is useless so I don't expect to get anywhere 🤦 I have work tomorrow so I can't look at my phone then 🤣🙈 no Google hole for me! Sunday not alot but guess I need to get out and plan something 🙄 u got anything planned! X

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calimc83 · 28/01/2022 16:37

@Skl2021 I'm sure I've heard of GP's taking bloods to get HCG levels tested? Depends how helpful your GP is as well I guess 😬...hope u are ok, yep maybe distraction is the way forward if at all possible. Have u much planned for the weekend? X

calimc83 · 28/01/2022 16:36

@arianasky oh my peak was Monday as well. So might count Tuesday as day 1 then! That makes me 4DPO 😆😆 x

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 16:29

@Bundaberg84 I might try them on Monday see if I can get through the weekend 💕 thankyou xx

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 16:28

@BlueForYou3 it's a shame what miscarriage does to your body and head. This should be the happiest time and instead I'm choosing to think I'm not pregnant and constantly worrying or checking for af! Don't know how women go through this multiple times! Yes I just need to breathe for a few days 😩 but it's easier said than done! I think if my tests got super dark I would be a tiny bit more at ease. Feel like there going to fade at any moment! I feel so bad for bringing this group down 😩 xx

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Bundaberg84 · 28/01/2022 16:27

@Skl2021 I totally understand you, but I think you will be feel better once you were able to talk to a GP.

BlueForYou3 · 28/01/2022 16:24

I’m so sorry you feel like this @Skl2021 Sad I wish there was something I could say to ease your anxiety. I genuinely think the best thing you can do is try and distract yourself to give your mind a break from the worry. This is a completely different pregnancy, your FRER lines look great and AF hasn’t arrived Flowers

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 16:14

@Bundaberg84 yes I just feel it's going to end up a chemical as my cheap tests are hardly showing. IV never had this much anxiety before. I knew it would be hard if I got pregnant again but this is a different level! I think I'm never going to believe it until your actually holding a baby! Xx

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arianasky · 28/01/2022 15:56

Ah I know it's dragging so much @calimc83 well I had a peak clearblue on Monday so counted Tuesday as 1DPO not sure if that's right but I just do it that way and hope for the best haha you?

Bundaberg84 · 28/01/2022 15:52

@Skl2021 yes, they should. You test all 48h to see if the hcg level doubles.
There's no way you're not pregnant. It has the potential to put your mind at ease, as testing daily with not accurate line progression is way to stressful for one's mind, especially after suffering MC.

calimc83 · 28/01/2022 15:24

@arianasky sooooo slow! Keep telling myself I'm further along than I thought..so u count peak OPK as ovulation day or day after? Xx

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 15:20

@calimc83 I only have one frer left now will save it for the morning. I have taken cheapies in the day and don't think it made a difference. X

@PamelaDoov I'm not quite sure I don't use the clearblue ones 🙈 maybe go with your body? Can they go from flashing to not flashing? X

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 15:17

@Bundaberg84 i don't know if GPs even do that is it even that common? 🤔 No I'm scared to do one incase it's not pregnant or doesnt increase in weeks indicator x

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Bundaberg84 · 28/01/2022 15:07

@Skl2021 can't you get your blood tested? It's the only way to have an accurate result. My OB-GYN laughs about progression lines in pregnancy tests and says it's just not reliable, otherwise they would make them that way.
Did you try a digital one yet? Maybe it helps you to see it black on white.

arianasky · 28/01/2022 14:37

@calimc83 slloooooowww 😂 only 4 dpo but feel like 40dpo 🙈 analysing every twinge and everything even though it's nothing yet 😂 how are you? Xx

calimc83 · 28/01/2022 13:53

@BlueForYou3 yay! Another 2WW buddy ☺️ x

calimc83 · 28/01/2022 13:52

@Cruz86 are your tests defo BFN's? No squinters? U could of implanted late - sorry you're in limbo xx
@arianasky how's the 2WW going? 😬 xx

PamelaDoov · 28/01/2022 13:52

My ewcm has gone though, well I haven’t seen any so far today. But had quite a lot yesterday. Could the tests be a step behind, so they show neg when you’re actually high and then high when you’ve already ovulated? I highly doubt it but I don’t know.

calimc83 · 28/01/2022 13:50

@Skl2021 also I always would get better lines on an afternoon...xx

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 13:40

@Bridgey8 you will be fine you cheapies have good lines 🎉 not long to go now 🙊✨ xx

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Bridgey8 · 28/01/2022 13:38

@Skl2021 no I only have internet cheapies here with me. I'm ordering some frer and a clear blue digital to be at home when I get there Monday! But gahhh the nerves xx

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Skl2021 · 28/01/2022 13:35

@Ganesh2022 thankyou. 💕 I'm not sure I could look Into it though! Sorry your still getting faint lines. It's so frustrating 😩 the only one time u actually want a negative test! X

@BlueForYou3 yey 🎉 good luck with the tww! X

@Bridgey8 have u done a frer yet? I think I need to stop for a few days I'm stressing as I'm hardly getting a positive on all my cheapies! X

@PamelaDoov yes glad.its finally flashing for you! Ovulation must be soon! Get busy 😝 I think you ovulate after the solid? Hope it's not to long for you! And thankyou I'm worried about not getting lines on all my cheapies x

@arianasky glad you've found us! I didn't realize the last one was nearly full 🙊 thankyou I'm trying but it's hard 🤞 x

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arianasky · 28/01/2022 13:26

Joining on to the third thread glad I found it 🙌🏻 @Skl2021 your line progression looks great congratulations 🎉 try not to overthink it, I know that's easier said than done but it looks great so far 💕