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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

Latest thread for ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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Skl2021 · 30/01/2022 19:56

@calimc83 yes in the middle sounds a good plan 🤞 yes if u had lots of cheapies I would of said everyday 🤣🙈 but u need to save them!! X

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calimc83 · 30/01/2022 19:53

@Skl2021 😂😂😂😂I can't test tomorrow as probs only 6....maybe Weds?? Feel like Friday is soo far away. Only have 2 Frers and 3 cheapies so don't want to waste 😂x

Ganesh2022 · 30/01/2022 19:33

@flowergarden16 hope all ok with your little one! And yeah, I forgot to say...I'm sorry you have to join this club. It's really helped me, though, to be able to talk on here

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Skl2021 · 30/01/2022 19:30

@calimc83 are you sure u want me to answer that 🤣🙊 I always cave and test at 7 dpo which is stupidly early!! So I don't advise it 🤣 which would be tomorrow/Tuesday. But logic mind would say hold off till around Friday 🙈 xx

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calimc83 · 30/01/2022 19:26

@Skl2021 😆😆 so if you were me...and got your peak last Monday..when would u test? X

calimc83 · 30/01/2022 19:25

@Sparklesurprise29 I know!! Sooo confusing...🙈 how u feeling? X

Sparklesurprise29 · 30/01/2022 19:22

Thanks @arianasky!! Same to you! Thats so strange! Could be hormonal?💕 I'm noticing a lot more cm than usual tonight 🤔

Welcome @flowergarden16💕

Its so hard to figure out @calimc83! Thats whats putting me off testing too early🙁 I'd maybe count ovs as the day after peak? But then you might've ovulated a couple of hours later 😅

arianasky · 30/01/2022 18:18

@Skl2021 that's the best way I have everything crossed for you 💕🌈.

@calimc83 I know it's strange isn't it I'm just saying I'm 6dpo but feel like I'm more 5dpo aswell guess I'll just have to wait and see? 🤞🏻🙏🏻🌈

flowergarden16 · 30/01/2022 18:10

Thanks @Ganesh2022 my husband is currently at urgent care with our toddler (nothing serious) so don't expect he'll be in the mood tonight! We'll see :-)

Ganesh2022 · 30/01/2022 18:06

flowergarden16 Welcome :) I've also heard conflicting advice; I've had a BFP from once a week and others from every day in the window. We're aiming for every other day at the moment as more often was getting to be too stressful...

flowergarden16 · 30/01/2022 17:57

@BlueForYou3 awww that's great to hear thank you x

BlueForYou3 · 30/01/2022 17:49

@flowergarden16 It’s definitely not a wasted month ☺️ DH and I had only DTD twice in my fertile window when I got my BFP in September last year x

flowergarden16 · 30/01/2022 17:42

Thanks @Skl2021 we have managed it twice and will see if I can muster the energy later 🤣

Good luck everyone x

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Skl2021 · 30/01/2022 17:38

@calimc83 I was desperate to test 🙊🤣 but I did it! 🙌 I will probably cave in the next few days 🤣 I can't wait for all you to start testing then I can obsess over yours 🤣🙌 xx

@flowergarden16 welcome 💐 I think your meant to do it every other day but I don't think it matters as sperm are meant to live for 5 days! So aslong as its in the fertile window! So u should still be in with a chance! 🤞 Hope you get better soon! X

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flowergarden16 · 30/01/2022 17:37

Thanks @BlueForYou3 that was my plan too but we couldn't Friday due to work night away and now this sickness. Feels like another wasted month :-( thanks for the link will take a look x

BlueForYou3 · 30/01/2022 17:29

I’m so sorry for your loss @flowergarden16 Sad We try and DTD everyday if we can once I’ve had a peak OPK. There’s conflicting advice on how often you should DTD though. There’s a study released from Ovia which now suggests the best day to conceive is the day before ovulation (42% chance of conception).

Here’s the link - modernfertility.com/blog/research-ovia-study-fertility/

calimc83 · 30/01/2022 17:21

@arianasky it's hard to know exactly then I guess when u ovulate..a BFP at 7 days would be early wouldn't it?! Unless u implanted quite early..🤷‍♀️...maybe day 5 or so?? Party was fine..have hidden the cake so hopefully they'll forget about it and I can eat it tomorrow 😆😆🐷 x

calimc83 · 30/01/2022 17:19

@Sparklesurprise29 Hey! Yeah got a peak last Monday..so not sure whether to count that as ov day or not? If I do then I'll be 6 DPO but have a feeling I'm more likely 5 😆🙈 x

calimc83 · 30/01/2022 17:18

@Skl2021 well done on holding off!! 😆🙈 x

flowergarden16 · 30/01/2022 16:57

Hi everyone have been watching for a while: we had a MMC in December, found our at our 12 week scan, baby stopped growing around 7 weeks. Had an MVA week later and period returned early Jan.

TTC from this month and in fertile window but got norovirus last night so only managed to DTD twice and it's my peak today :-(

I'm seeing conflicting advice about how often you should DTD during your fertile window (mine is 5 days usually) does anyone know?

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Skl2021 · 30/01/2022 16:32

@arianasky sounds promising! I had stuff nose in the mornings aswell then it was gone 🙊 yes it took alot of willpower IV been doing them everyday! I have two left then that's definitely it! So will do them over the next week! 🤞 X

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arianasky · 30/01/2022 16:28

@Skl2021 I know it is strange but who knows haha, sake ok stuffy but in the nights morning and then I'm ok then it's very strange!? Amazing you didn't test with a FRER today that must've took some will power 💕💕

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Skl2021 · 30/01/2022 15:54

@calimc83 I'm good thankyou. I didn't test today with frer so hoping thats a step. Trying not to think about it to much. Your another day closer to testing 🙌🤞 xx

@Tofu35 well it's not long now! Keep us updated if you do test early 🙊🤞 xx

@arianasky that's weird isn't it that u have never had them before! Maybe it's a good sign? 🙊 I have never had sinus problems and I had them this cycle! X

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arianasky · 30/01/2022 14:42

@Sparklesurprise29 I'm ok thank you, weirdly just had my second nose bleed in 2 days and I've never had a nose bleed in my life before so god knows

arianasky · 30/01/2022 14:41

@Sparklesurprise29 🤞🏻🤞🏻 hoping you get your BFP 🙏🏻