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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

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calimc83 · 31/01/2022 17:30

@arianasky @Skl2021 I have the urge to POAS...🙈🙈😫 x

Cindy974 · 31/01/2022 16:50

@Skl2021 awful isn’t it! I know its a good thing and normal but doesn’t help us from panicking 🤣 do you have many other symptoms at the moment?

@Ganesh2022 So I stopped bleeding around the 31st, starting doing opks but just the cheap ones because I wanted to see if and when I’d ovulate, then I got positive opks on the 12th and 13th so I ovulated around 2 and a half weeks after x

Bridgey8 · 31/01/2022 16:00

@Skl2021 still doesn't feel real and to be honest I'm not sure when it will? I'm just expecting to miscarry the same as last time 😭 will we ever stop feeling like that? How are you feeling?

@Cindy974 I did drink over a litre of water on the flight and then a cup of decaf coffee on drive home (obvs peed loads on plane and in arrivals and then had a 3 hourish hold before I got home!

@Ganesh2022 gahh I know they are a nightmare. Fingers crossed mine are going the right way.

@flowergarden16 ah thanks I knew that. I'm just worried as at 5 weeks I think I should be 3+ but I guess I'm prob a bit on verge right now!

Might for a frer in the morn with fmu and see how that is looking and then my other digital a bit later in the week!

Xxx

Han888 · 31/01/2022 15:58

Thank you all, I've not had a period yet since the miscarriage so didn't think it would be possible to track ovulation / get pregnant so soon - that was the plan for next month Hmm
I called the early pregnancy unit that followed my miscarriage and they said to test again in a week and see if its still positive then go in to them to see.
Fingers cross for everyone too. So bloody stressful all this testing and waiting malarky xx

flowergarden16 · 31/01/2022 15:25

@Bridgey8 those CB test are confusing, I think you add two weeks to what it says as they are actually post ovulation dates - when conception occurred, whereas we count from the date of missed period which is two weeks before x it's a US/UK thing I believe

uk.clearblue.com/pregnancy-tests/digital-with-weeks-indicator

PamelaDoov · 31/01/2022 14:10

@Ganesh2022 two eggs! Why the hell not, let’s have twins, I’m open to anything at this point 😂

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 14:10

@Cindy974 when did you ovulate after miscarriage? I'm not waiting for period to start...don't have it in me...did you just track it with OPK and try then?

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 14:06

@PamelaDoov for me it kinda popped up randomly but I hadn't had that area looked at in a while, so if you have that's probably not it...fingers crossed it's a super egg...or...two...? Confused

@Bridgey8 those tests destroyed me last time...! I heard these were banned in USA as they're so inaccurate. Also, we never for sure know when O was unless it's IVF/similar... I'd only look into it more if it went backwards; 2-3 seems perfect for where you are Flowers

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 13:22

@Cindy974 I'm the same! Convinced that it's blood! Terrifies me everytime I check when I wipe! X

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 13:20

@PamelaDoov yes.must definitely be ovulation then with lots of ewcm! Good luck hope it's not much longer for you! Get busy 🙊 xx

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PamelaDoov · 31/01/2022 13:18

@Skl2021 well I just had to dash to the loo because I thought I was bleeding heavier but it was just loads of ewcm so that’s good! Mixed with a bit of blood but not a huge amount.
Day 4 of flashing smiley, hope it goes static soon!

Cindy974 · 31/01/2022 13:15

@Han888 I miscarried Christmas day followed by a negative test. Im now pregnant again without having a period in between so it’s entirely possible and sounds like a new pregnancy to me! Congratulations x

@Bridgey8 That sounds about right, do you drink alot of liquids before bed? I always found my second morning urine was stronger

These wet knickers are driving me mad! Ive been to the toilet at work today about ten times to check I’m not bleeding 🥴

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 13:06

@PamelaDoov there ya go then 🤣 you just have a super egg popping out 🙊 let's hope it's good news! 🤞 X

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PamelaDoov · 31/01/2022 13:00

@Skl2021 haha super egg 😂 I had ovulation bleeding only once before in my life, I was like daym that egg went hard 😂
@Ganesh2022 I did think that to be honest, but I’ve had so many scans and examinations in my life (including scan of ovaries) and there’s never been anything of concern. Or can they just pop up randomly?

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 12:52

@Bridgey8 I was going to ask how u got on!! I wouldnt worry your just 5 weeks now and it wasn't fmu! Does it feel real? How u doing xx

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 12:51

@calimc83 yes you do! 🤣🙌😝 Think positive! I don't know tbh think I'm in denial I don't want to admit that I am if that makes sense? My head is just wanting to protect me? I feel bad for even saying that when I should be grateful I am. Think it's just taking longer to get my head around. I didn't test today again X

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Bridgey8 · 31/01/2022 12:49

Finally home and my digital tests were waiting... I got 2-3 weeks and am now stressing it should be higher as I'm 21dpo today (so exactly 5 weeks). Granted it wasn't with FMU but should I be worried?

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!
arianasky · 31/01/2022 12:48

@calimc83 oh I'm glad, I'm feeling the same a bit like is it going to happen type of thing such a long wait xx

arianasky · 31/01/2022 12:47

@Ganesh2022 ah that's interesting I noticed it last cycle and I've noticed it again I have no idea what it is mind? 😂

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 12:45

@PamelaDoov so annoying re bleeding! Could the loss/hormones/trying be unrelated and might it be something like a benign polyp? I had that last year and bled intermittently til it was removed. Last thing you need is to have something else to deal with but...

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 12:44

@Skl2021 ok, ok! Do I need a virtual shake?! 😆 sounds like he's had a tough time...poor thing xx how are u feeling with this new pregnancy today? X

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 12:43

@Emeal123 Ha I'm the wrong person to advise as I start OPKs basically when still bleeding. Sometimes several times a day. Was getting better at not doing that, but that resolve has gone.

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 12:42

@arianasky Yes I do get that! I get it all cycle long though so have stopped wondering if it means anything...but definitely do get it.

@Han888 Fingers crossed it's a new pregnancy! Definitely possible.

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 12:39

@calimc83 come on snap out of it! You still have plenty of time it's really early! Your another day closer! 🤞 Keep going I'm right here behind you 🙌✨ he now has a chest infection and he's asthmatic which isn't a good mix. Hoping he's over the worst now xx

@PamelaDoov I would say your ovulating then with all them signs! Hopefully your test says the same today 🤞haha super egg 🤣🙌 x

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PamelaDoov · 31/01/2022 12:32

I mean haven’t tested