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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

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Cindy974 · 31/01/2022 20:02

@Skl2021 I did but not as much as I am now or I’m not sure if its because I’m aware of my body more maybe? With her she came unexpectedly and I didnt do a test till I realised I was a week late for my period, not like this time testing at 5dpo 🤣🤣

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 19:56

@arianasky Thanks! And you xx

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 19:43

@arianasky I have a feeling you are 🙈 your symptoms sounds promising! Good luck with when you decide to test 🤞 xx

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 19:42

@Cindy974 yes different every time! Did you suffer with sickness with your dd? X

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arianasky · 31/01/2022 19:42

@calimc83 can't say I've felt them before or noticed them at least? Yeah I got a BFP at 8dpo last month and in July I got a BFP at 10dpo so I'm an early tester haha! I will I'll let you know, I'll see if I have any more symptoms tomorrow and I'll go from there 🤞🏻🙏🏻🌈 I have everything crossed for you 💕

Cindy974 · 31/01/2022 19:37

@Ganesh2022 keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🏼I think once you stop bleeding you are good to go and should ovulate soon after x

@Skl2021 Everyone is different but your increased CM is a good sign! Yeah I feel really nauseous all the time and sore boobs and armpits, loads of cervical mucus and tired. I don’t think I had symptoms this obvious with my DDs pregnancy!

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 19:04

@Ganesh2022 I'm the same if tests are in the house all control goes out the window 🤣 I'm doing ok it hasn't sunk in yet. Doesn't feel real! Trying to keep busy so I don't sit and overthink it all x

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Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 19:00

@Skl2021 same! If it's in my head I have to do it. Some stuff I have really good willpower about but with this I'm useless...was getting better but the mc has undone me. You doing ok?

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 18:53

@calimc83 once I get it in my head I have to do it 🤣 haha u can never have enough cheapies! 🙊 What's the earliest u have had bfp? X

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calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:45

@arianasky let us know if you decide to go for it! Your pinches sound promising though...😬 u got an early BFP last time as well didn't you xx

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:44

@Skl2021 hmm..I've never tested early so don't know how I'd handle it 😆🙈 maybe I should just order more cheapies?!
@Ganesh2022 Thanks! It's definitely needed xx

arianasky · 31/01/2022 18:42

@calimc83 yeah I think I might do Wednesday aswell, boobs are more tender today but that could be AF and I've had twinges they're kind of like a pinchy sensation on my right side, I'm bunged up in the nights and mornings but about it really

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 18:40

@calimc83 I can handle early negatives but some people can't so I guess it's upto you! Wouldn't use a frer just yet tho! Still too early! 🤞 I use all my cheapies first! X

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Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 18:36

@calimc83 good luck whatever you decide!!

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:35

@arianasky I was contemplating Wednesday. Still got my back ache but have had a bad cold so now thinking it could be down to that? How about you? X

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:34

@Ganesh2022 @Skl2021 argh!! Who knows then..maybe I should hang on a bit..😫😫 x

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 18:16

I find negatives at like 7-10 dpo so hard b/c it's the shit feeling of the negative coupled with the fact that it isn't conclusive yet and I can't really move on :(

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 18:11

@calimc83 if you can handle a negative then go for it! But remember your still early! I tested from day 7 and didn't get a positive until 11 so don't assume your out straight away. But if it's postive then that's amazing! I like to find out asap! Depends what u can handle xx

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arianasky · 31/01/2022 18:11

@calimc83 I have the same urge 😂 I was literally just thinking to myself if I'm 8dpo tomorrow is it worth testing haha 😂 I think I'll try and hold off until Wednesday/Thursday but I know what I'm like haha! You had any more symptoms at all today?

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 18:09

@Bridgey8 yes I wouldn't want to get to 12 weeks to find that out. I was thinking of getting an early scan but can't decide when to do it and I'm scared incase it's bad news! I'm hoping it gets a bit easier as time goes on we can only hope 🤞 are you telling anyone? X

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calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:07

@Skl2021 I do...but....the urge is consuming me now! 😆😆, are u going to speak to the doctor re a blood test or are u feeling a bit better today? X

Bridgey8 · 31/01/2022 18:03

@Skl2021 I had a scan at 6+5 and they just thought i was earlier than I thought (but I knew I wasn't) so had to wait another 10 days and the sac had grown but nothing else. They said I could have got to 12 weeks not knowing and found out at scan... so glad I had to scan early. Body didn't want to give it up tho so had to have surgery. So I will be worried sick going into that scan that they will say the same thing...

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:00

@Ganesh2022 😆 I've never been an early tester..But I feel like if test early, know it's negative, then I can just move on, not thinking 'what if' constantly until AF arrives and rains on my parade...🙈 xx

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 17:59

@Bridgey8 how far were you when u miscarried? I was ten weeks but found out at 12 and feel like I need to get past that point but it's ages away. I hope it gets easier as it's horrible constantly worrying! Xx

@Cindy974 I don't really have any symptoms which is making me worry but I don't think I had them last time either until 6ish weeks. Dont know if thats good or bad 🤦 have u got any? X

@calimc83 well you know me I would of done it 🙈 but I need to be a good influence on you! Thought u wanted to save your tests? 😬👀 Xx

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Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 17:47

@Cindy974 Thanks! Very much hoping for the same but I think it's taking everything a while to settle...

@calimc83 I know that urge so well. I sometimes wonder if I'll still be peeing on sticks long after my family is complete...what would make you feel worse, doing it and potentially getting a negative (just b/c it's so early) or not doing it at all and sitting with the need to do it? For me they feel equally shit..!