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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

Latest thread for ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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calimc83 · 03/02/2022 14:39

@Sparklesurprise29 ohh 😯 fingers crossed it's just a bit of implantation. Did you test again? X

Cindy974 · 03/02/2022 14:24

Judging by everyone’s responses think I’ll leave DTD for a while 🤣x

Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 14:20

@Cruz86 thankyou 💞🤞 xx

@Sparklesurprise29 keeping my fingers crossed it's good news 🤞 xx

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Sparklesurprise29 · 03/02/2022 14:14

Bleeding when I wipe at 10DPO☹ not sure if AF or IB☹ if the flow increases I think im out!

I can see a vfl @arianasky!💕

Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 14:04

@calimc83 I'm doing ok. It's my youngest birthday tomorrow so IV been busy rushing round trying to get Everything 🤣 could just go to sleep tho 🤦 yes that's a good mindset Im trying to think like that too 🤞 nothing I can do about the outcome. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't 🤣🤦 xx

@Cindy974 nope I haven't DTD either as I'm too scared too 🤣🤦 xx

@arianasky will u test again tomorrow? X

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Vhopeful · 03/02/2022 13:41

Thanks for the welcome ladies.
@Cruz86 Thanks! Is better not to check with OPK after MC? Because my OPK is still strong positive, but I think that's reacting with my residual HCG from MC. I don't know when I should start tracking. I read some messages in the beginning of the thread but couldn't find it.

  • how long it took you all to ovulate after the MC ? I know everyone is different, but just to have an idea.
PamelaDoov · 03/02/2022 13:25

@Cruz86 I do have some and they are totally blank even with the flashing smileys and all the physical symptoms :( yeah we DTD every other day and have done since last Sunday (wish I hadn’t bothered starting so early!)

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 13:18

@Ganesh2022 ohh where u off? Think I missed this xx

arianasky · 03/02/2022 13:12

@Emeal123 🤞🏻🙏🏻🌈

Well I'm glad I'm not imagining a line anyway if you can all see it aswell 🤞🏻 I just hope it's not an indent and something comes of it 🙏🏻

Ganesh2022 · 03/02/2022 13:00

@Cruz86 The problem is...if I don't pack the tests, I'll end up begging my husband to run out to get the nearest test two seconds after possible fertilisation, and as we'll be in the middle of nowhere it'll be expensive and hard to find. A controlled person would use this to their advantage and have a total break...but I am no longer that person! Blush

Emeal123 · 03/02/2022 12:34

@arianasky I see the line too! 🤞🏻crossing fingers and sending baby dust your way!!

@Cindy974 my partner has said he will not dtd with me if/when we finally get our BFP as he is so worried it could harm the baby - even though I doubt that would happen and all online research says to continue as normal!

arianasky · 03/02/2022 12:17

@Cruz86 I'm already overthinking, I only have 2 frer left so I'm thinking do I use one later this afternoon and one in the morning as I have some coming tomorrow from Amazon 😂🙈

Cruz86 · 03/02/2022 12:12

@Cindy974 I have a real block about dtd after a bfp, right up until about 12 weeks normally 🤣🤣

Cruz86 · 03/02/2022 12:11

Your tests look good @Skl2021!

Haha try to resist packing the tests @Ganesh2022. Hopefully your break will be a welcome distraction from TTC.

Ah amazing @aesgriff! How long is your lp normally? I think I tested too late at 8dpo because af arrived at 11dpo, so I'm going to do it again this cycle around 5dpo instead.

Sorry to hear af arrived @Tofu35 and you're finding things difficult. I can imagine there's just that feeling of dread, like you've got a long road ahead of you. Really hope it doesn't take 2 years for you this time round 🤗

@PamelaDoov I would buy some cheap opk strips so you can continue testing twice a day for as long as needed. Hopefully you haven't missed ovulation and it's probably just your body trying to recover after the mc. Have you been dtd anyway?

@calimc83 I always got stronger lines in the afternoon so I don't necessarily think fmu is really important!

Hi @jjunaki100. I don't know anything about macca root or aspirin I'm afraid but sorry about your mc. I hope you're okay.

@Vhopeful sorry to hear about your mc too. I personally wouldn't worry so much about the negative test. I would just try and relax and dtd regularly in the cycle straight after your mc, as long as you've stopped bleeding.

@arianasky I can see the line! I wouldn't be able to wait til tomorrow to test again. I'd end up doing one this afternoon 😂 Fingers crossed for you!!

Can't wait for more testing over the weekend from a few of you. Good luck x

Ganesh2022 · 03/02/2022 12:00

@Cindy974 1...jealous that you guys still want to after all the trying!!! Right now I'd be glad to go without!
I always avoided it for the first few months when pregnant; I know it doesn't cause loss but I was scared I'd bleed b/c of sensitivity and then freak out/have to run to hospital and get it checked. It's actually something we vowed to do differently this time, though after m/c I can't see it getting easier to...

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 11:40

@Cindy974 I DTD before I got my BFP with my previous pregnancy 😆..but then it was any excuse to not DTD 😆..x

arianasky · 03/02/2022 11:38

@Cindy974 sorry I meant to say i'm 8/9dpo not 100 percent which one tbh

arianasky · 03/02/2022 11:37

@Skl2021 hmm could be that maybe my nose is still stuffy but only in the nights and the morning when I first get up 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Cindy974 ah thank you got everything crossed 🤞🏻🌈 I haven't this TWW but I have before that's why I haven't this TWW silly really I know DTD has nothing to do with loss but I'm just so scared if I did something I might not conceive that month or I would and lose it 🙄

Cindy974 · 03/02/2022 11:24

@arianasky definitely something there! Fingers crossed 🤞🏼 What dpo are you?

Has anyone on here who has recently had a bfp been intimate with their partner since? We both miss the intimacy but we are both too scared to DTD. I know that doesn’t cause miscarriage but its still terrifying! I don’t want to go 9 months without DTD 🤣

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 11:13

@Skl2021 erm....trying to work ha ha! Should put my phone away really 🙈...I'm now of the mindset what will be will be and trying not to stress! How are u doing? X

Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 11:09

@arianasky great news 🙌 I felt cold and shitty for a day around 9 dpo. And also had the stuffy nose on mornings. Hope it's gets darker I'm keeping everything crossed for you ✨🤞🌈 xx

@calimc83 how u doing u keeping busy? Xx

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arianasky · 03/02/2022 11:05

Also negative for COVID 🙌🏻 I feel fine today aswell must have just had a slight cold or something thankfully 🤞🏻

arianasky · 03/02/2022 10:35

Thank you all, I still don't believe it yet though it's soo faint, it did come up in the timeline and is pink in real life but still I won't believe it yet. I just have to keep everyone crossed 🤞🏻🙏🏻🌈

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 09:54

@Ganesh2022 😆😆 let's see how long it lasts....x

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 09:54

@arianasky ohhhh I think I see something...eek! Xx