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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

Latest thread for ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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calimc83 · 03/02/2022 21:18

@arianasky Thanks! I'm convinced u have your BFP 🌈 xx

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 21:17

@Skl2021 I definitely need some positivity 🤞🏻..no not really...but who knows 🤷‍♀️..I've had back ache on and off for 5 days and a bit of a stitch/stabby pain 2 nights ago that lasted all eve..but could of been anything 😭 x

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Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 21:10

@arianasky yes your a good few days before me then and mine was faint at 11! Hopefully the next few days it will darken 🤞🙌 xx

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Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 21:09

@calimc83 do u usually get af cramps beforehand? I know what u mean I felt exactly the same but it can be wrong 🤦🤣 I hope it stays away! Only a few more days to go now 🤞🤞 I'm staying positive for you 🤞 xx

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arianasky · 03/02/2022 21:08

@Bun14 wow I'm sorry that happened! How bad of him! I hope you're ok? 💕

@calimc83 I have everything crossed for you 🤞🏻🙏🏻

arianasky · 03/02/2022 21:05

@Skl2021 ah thank you 😊 I'm 8/9dpo

@Cindy974 really? I hope it turns into something 🤞🏻🙏🏻🌈

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 21:04

@Skl2021 ahh ok...been a bit crampy this eve. No sign of AF yet but according to my app I'm not due till Tues but I think it's more like Sat/Sunday..I'm just convinced I'm out xx

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Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 20:44

@calimc83 I didn't see a midwife until 9 weeks last time and don't think I can get in contact with them before that. 🤔 It was hard enough to get a scan last time and I was bleeding then 🤦 like u have to jump through hoops! I'm not ready to even register with midwife's yet 🙊 are you feeling any better? Any symptoms? X

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calimc83 · 03/02/2022 20:40

@Skl2021 I wondering your midwife would refer u for an early scan if super anxious? X

Ganesh2022 · 03/02/2022 20:36

Welcome @MangoLipstick, so sorry for your loss. I’m coming up to 39 so can certainly understand the time ticking element. My Acupuncturist continues to reassure me that fertility doesn’t decline nearly as fast as media say. Still, it’s hard :(

@bun14 what a crazy question...what does he mean why?!

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Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 20:24

@calimc83 yes if money wasn't an issue I would have one every week 🤣🤦 I only have one clinic near me aswell the rest are 1-2 hours plus away. Going to be a long few weeks 🙈

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calimc83 · 03/02/2022 20:15

@Skl2021 I don't think they're much less where I am tbf..I've heard u can get deals on groupon though xx

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Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 20:12

@Bun14 definitely report them. That's disgusting. Hope your ok 💞 xx

@calimc83 I would if I could afford it 🤦 there 70 were I live 🙈 it's an expensive month for me with birthdays and things so I don't have alot of money spare 🤦 xx

@Bridgey8 I have days were I find it hard. I'm overthinking everything and googling too much 🤦 just always thinking something is going to go wrong! Wish it would just switch off! X

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MangoLipstick · 03/02/2022 20:09

Thank you @calimc83 and @Skl2021
I’ve already found it so helpful just reading everyone’s experiences and general chit chat x

@Bun14
I’m sorry for your loss x

Your doctor sounds like he needs retraining in how to speak to his patients. That’s horrible. How are you feeling?

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 20:08

@Bun14 wow! What an arse...xx

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 20:07

@Skl2021 I think our heads can be our own worse enemies at times..gosh, I think if I'm lucky enough to get a BFP again I can see me booking a scan every week 😬..xx

Bridgey8 · 03/02/2022 20:02

@Bun14 so sorry for your news. And what a horrible doctor 😡

Hope everyone is doing ok... I'm over thinking everything at mo - need a break from my own head!

Xx

Bun14 · 03/02/2022 19:48

Thank you everyone. It's nice to be on a thread where everyone is so nice and can talk openly.
So sorry for everyone else's losses and I wish you all, all the best in your TTC journeys. The doctor I saw today was so horrible. I was crying at the news and his response was "why are you so upset?" Sad

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Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 19:46

@calimc83 I'm thinking about it. I want to but I'm scared and I don't know when to book it for 🤦 last time I had one at 8 weeks and all was fine so in my head I'm thinking I need it later but then I also need to know if it's viable and to make sure it's all ok before I get so far along. Gosh I hate my head 🙈 xx

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calimc83 · 03/02/2022 19:43

@Skl2021 yeah I just get that feeling don't you..but...gonna try wait it out! What will be will be...I think your lines are fab. What's the next step do u think? Book a private scan? X

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Skl2021 · 03/02/2022 19:34

@Cindy974 my period started Christmas Eve so we're pretty much exact date wise for both dates 🙊 haha yes u will be busy! Lots of birthdays 🎈🎂 xx

@Bun14 sorry for your loss 💐 lots of help and support on here 💕 xx

@Sparklesurprise29 I'm really sorry af got you 😩 hope your cycle goes back to normal soon 🤞💞 xx

@calimc83 I'm still comparing it 🤦 I know I shouldn't but there's something niggling at me saying it should be darker 🤦 wish my head would switch off! How u feeling now? Still feeling like your out? 😩 xx

@MangoLipstick sorry for you loss 💐 yes opks are a good move as they can be a bit all over after miscarriage. Lots of support on this thread if u need anything 💞 xx

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calimc83 · 03/02/2022 18:50

@MangoLipstick @Bun14 Welcome, I'm so incredibly sorry for your losses. You'll find we are all incredibly supportive here and nothing is TMI xx

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 18:49

@Sparklesurprise29 ahh sorry to hear it's AF. My first 2 cycles were really all over the place ( on 3rd now) feeling v crampy so have a feeling the witch 🧙 may be on her way..I started spotting last cycle at 10DPO which will be tomorrow 🙈 xx

MangoLipstick · 03/02/2022 18:47

Hi everyone,
I’ve been lurking for a while, I can’t keep up with the threads, they move so fast!

Sadly had a mmc at 12 wks early Jan, had been ttc for 5 months prior to that.

I’m just waiting for my period to show up then we will start ttc again.
I wasn’t using opks last time but think I will this time around. I feel my periods are going to be all over the place & I’ve recently turned 36 , so think I need the extra help!

I’m sorry for everyone’s losses Flowers

calimc83 · 03/02/2022 18:13

@Ganesh2022 Wales will be lovely! I went abroad in Dec, a month post MC and it did me the world of good 😊 xx