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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

*The TWW States* ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜‚โ€ฆ. Here for positive vibes as we try to create new lives ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคžโ€ฆ (Ttc #1 and cycle 1 continued)

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Newbiemg · 25/01/2022 21:38

Hello!

Continuation of our last threadโ€ฆ

All of us TTC and in different cycles and stages of our journey.

Helping eachother through the TWW, through the confusing days of OPK/BBT testing and charts, through all of the symptom spotting, the dreaded arrival of AF and the BFP announcements! ๐Ÿ˜Šโœจ

January was a very lucky month for some who got their BFP and some of us are ready to make February our month!

With giggles and lots of support along the way.

Welcome!

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Bluets · 01/02/2022 18:37

@mrsyan oh I'm so sorry, it's so tough navigating TTC and all the emotions that come with it. Today can be a day for tears โค๏ธ

@newbiemg why oh why do we get thrown these curveballs for no discernible reason?! I took Pregnacare 'before conception' and it extended my cycles by a number of days. I now stick to my usual multivitamin and take an extra folic.

I'm in the TWW, testing on Saturday. Not holding out much hope as I have the exact pre period symptoms I always have. We shall see!

Newbiemg · 01/02/2022 16:28

@MrsYan Sorry that AF may be on the way and youโ€™re feeling down Sad

Donโ€™t give up! It will happen for you and we are all here for you whenever you need to chat or vent.

How are you tracking your ovulation? Do you temp or use OPKs? Are you taking any supplements?

Sending you lots of baby dust โœจ

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MrsYan · 01/02/2022 16:13

@Pickles91 I hope cycle 2 brings you lots of luck!

@Pops100 will you test or wait for missed AF? Fingers crossed.

I am currently 12dpo, I have started spotting so know AF is on the way. I have been very very tearful today because of it, I feel really down. This was cycle 5 and I think hitting 6 months next cycle is just a lot.

I had a good cry to DP, he's told me to not be so hard on myself- it will happen when it happens yada yada yada. Yep that's all well and good but it's not helping me right now feeling sad and having these raging hormones. I will agree with him in a couple of days but right now... not what I want to hear. I feel like giving up but I can't because I WANT IT SOOOO MUCH.
Sorry for moaning- I will be back to my positive self in a few days. I'm going to go write in my manifestation journal some more as it obviously didn't work last month ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ™„ xx

Newbiemg · 01/02/2022 14:19

@babydreamin @Pops100

I was 10DPO when AF arrived so I didnโ€™t even get time to test as I only had a 9 day luteal phase and a 26 day cycle. Usually my cycles are 30 days and my luteal phase is atleast 14 days.

The supplements I took that were different to my first cycle were well woman and EPO. Iโ€™m not sure if itโ€™s anything to do with that or maybe it could have been the stress of ttc or just a random weird cycle.

I think I will just have to see what happens this cycle and hopefully it goes back to normal and If it doesnโ€™t Iโ€™ll see my GP.

Sending you both lots of luck and baby dust โœจ I hope you get your bfps in the next few days! ๐Ÿคž

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Pops100 · 01/02/2022 13:47

@Newbiemg sorry to hear about af causing you so much trouble ๐Ÿ‘ฟ , what new supplements did you start?

I'm in the tww , 7dpo ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ don't really feel any different except a few cramps that seem to be there one day and then go then come back & have had a really bad headache today but not sure if it's related,

babydreamin · 01/02/2022 13:41

@Newbiemg I'm in the TWW! Will be 9DPO tomo and although very early might be tempted to test๐Ÿคž
I hope AF leaves you soon so you can get to it!!๐Ÿ™

Newbiemg · 01/02/2022 13:23

I feel like I need a focus so Iโ€™m glad I can start testing something lol. I want to see peopleโ€™s opks etc so I can be excited for you ๐Ÿ˜‚ distract me!

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Newbiemg · 01/02/2022 13:22

Where is everyone in their ttc cycles?

Whoโ€™s got AF, whoโ€™s OPK testing, whoโ€™s in the tww? Smile

Iโ€™ve started BBT testing and waiting for AF to go away so I can start back on the OPKs.

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Newbiemg · 01/02/2022 11:56

Im having a really bad AF. Much heavier than normal and my cramps are really bad. That along with the fact it came early and my luteal phase was too short Iโ€™m wondering if itโ€™s something Iโ€™ve done last cycleโ€ฆ

Itโ€™s hard to know if itโ€™s the supplements Iโ€™ve taken or changes to my diet or if itโ€™s just one of those things and I had a weird cycle. I keep thinking do I change things for this new cycle or just see what happens. Confusing times lol

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Pops100 · 01/02/2022 11:54

@beatingheartbaby @Emma543 welcome โœจ๐Ÿค

@MrsYan I am 7dpo now , also don't have any symptoms except cramps & headache again today but not sure if anything related as I do get them quite often but trying to stay positive๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ

Newbiemg · 01/02/2022 11:52

Welcome @Emma543 and @beatingheartbaby sending you lots of luck for this cycle โœจ

Happy Tuesday everyone Smile

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beatingheartbaby · 01/02/2022 10:56

It's so hard isn't it! Keep trying to tell myself it's only been 1 month and not stress too much!

SMD16 · 01/02/2022 10:42

@beatingheartbaby

Hi all,

Newbie here, hope you all don't mind!

Jan was our first month of 'seeing what happens' so naturally I was checking my fertile days (via Ovia app only no tests). Dtd every second day over that time lol. AF was due Saturday, was no sign.... started getting excited, boobs were killing me, then woke up this morning to AF. Feeling disappointed but also silly because it's our first month!

@beatingheartbaby I was the same with last month which was my first cycle but it will come when the time is right! Just don't over think it is the best thing I can suggest, the more you think about it the more stress you put on your body. X
SMD16 · 01/02/2022 10:41

Morning everyone! Happy Tuesday ๐Ÿ™ƒ

Welcome to @beatingheartbaby and @Emma543! Wishing you both lots of baby dust with your journeys.

How on earth is it February?! Feels like I blinked and it was christmas yesterday...

beatingheartbaby · 01/02/2022 09:55

Hi all,

Newbie here, hope you all don't mind!

Jan was our first month of 'seeing what happens' so naturally I was checking my fertile days (via Ovia app only no tests). Dtd every second day over that time lol. AF was due Saturday, was no sign.... started getting excited, boobs were killing me, then woke up this morning to AF. Feeling disappointed but also silly because it's our first month!

5manc · 31/01/2022 20:20

@Newbiemg I'm good thank you. No symptoms or anything apart from cramps in my pelvis/thighs that last about 15 minutes and happen every night - so weird! Midwife said that's normal though ๐Ÿคž Ovulation on Valentine's Day - perfect timing and perfect time to make the most of it haha xx

@Pickles91 not yet! We are waiting for family to visit so we are telling my boyfriends parents this weekend and mine in 3/5weeks when we next see each of them! Splits up the excitement at least! ๐Ÿ˜Š xx

Pickles91 · 31/01/2022 20:17

Itโ€™s only my first, so wasnโ€™t really expecting a miracle @MrsYan!

Thanks you @Bluets! Yes, hopefully a GP can shed some light. Iโ€™ve had ultrasounds and bloods for various other things, and i must say, itโ€™s just nice to know whatโ€™s going on so early in the journey and have people to bug with questions!

Hi @Emma543! Haha I think a lot of us know that feeling! Distractionsโ€ฆ I donโ€™t have many of those. When I knew I really shouldnโ€™t test, I just peed first thing really fast to get rid of that prime testing FMU ๐Ÿ˜‚ hopefully your symptoms are for all the right reasons!

Emma543 · 31/01/2022 20:09

Hi all wondered if I could jump onto a lovely thread?! 1st month TTC with AF due this Sunday - 9-10DPO told myself I wouldnโ€™t test before AF was late but itโ€™s killing me!! Think Iโ€™m also convincing myself I have symptoms experiencing sore boobs and cramps! Any advice on distractions?!
Good luck everyone lots of baby dust

Bluets · 31/01/2022 19:43

Thanks so much everyone, it feels good to talk and I really appreciate your replies. I feel somewhat unburdened! I had been thinking it might be ovulation pain but it builds until my period so who knows (hopefully a Dr!)

So sorry to hear AF is arriving @pickles91. I'm sending out good vibes through the ether for February.

Sorry you had such a crappy Monday @mrsyan

MrsYan · 31/01/2022 19:37

@Pickles91 AF is so annoying. What cycle is this for you? Af is due Wednesday so if she comes, I will just be a couple of days behind you, @Newbiemg @FastFish1993.

@Pops100 I hope you are right! AF due Wednesday so let's see what happens over the next couple of days๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ how many DPO are you now? x

Pops100 · 31/01/2022 19:29

@MrsYan don't rule out till af shows! I've heard loads of people say they didn't experience any symptoms at all including no implantation bleed.

@5manc thank you lovely!! Back home now from a lovely weekend and back to reality.

Had cramps all day yesterday with a headache and cramps again today... hoping these are all good signs and not the wicked witch arriving!

Pickles91 · 31/01/2022 19:26

Sounds like a nightmare Monday @MrsYan! AF didnโ€™t arrive over the weekend but cramps are kicking in now, so joining @Newbiemg and @FastFish1993 on CD1! Hopefully AF stays away for you this month. So impressed that your experience managed to stay away from the tests!

Hi @5manc! How are you? Have you shared the good news with anyone?

Newbiemg · 31/01/2022 18:20

@Bluets I think always trust your instincts even if nothing is wrong itโ€™s better to put your mind at ease. Hope it all goes ok for you.

@Pickles91 @MrsYan Thank you both. I feel ok. Disappointed but expected. Hoping this cycle goes back normal ๐Ÿคž

@SMD16 aww so cute in her nappy! ๐Ÿถ lol

@5manc Hello! How are you getting on? โœจ

So according to my app my ovulation day is Valentineโ€™s Day that would be cute โค๏ธ

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MrsYan · 31/01/2022 18:15

Hey everyone- I hope all your Mondays were good? My work Monday was diabolical... lots of mistakes made by other people and I was the one who had to sort them all out ๐Ÿ™„

@Newbiemg sorry to hear af came. Hope you are ok ๐Ÿค the ups and downs that go along with our cycles are hard work, luckily I haven't cried again!

@SMD16 I hope everything is ok with the lump. Your pup is cute!

@Pickles91 I can't see your previous message but think you said AF has stayed away, I hope that's still the case.

I am 11dpo today, af due Wednesday. I don't have any symptoms so not feeling it this month at all. xox

5manc · 31/01/2022 18:05

Hi everyone ๐Ÿ‘‹ Just wanted to pop on to see how everyone is doing?? I have been keeping up with the thread even though I haven't been responding much! Everything crossed for February for you all โœจ๐Ÿคž

@Pops100 huuuge congratulations on your engagement โค๏ธ

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