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Having trouble pinpointing who could be the father of my unborn

38 replies

Dricka86 · 18/01/2022 17:47

I was in a marriage for 8 years until my husband decided to leave to go be with another women. So we went our separate ways and finally I started seeing someone that I enjoyed. I met him in September and my husband and I spilt in Aug. Never did anything with my friend because I was still messing around with my husband. Until I did. I had intercourse with my husband on 12/25 and had intercourse with my friend for the first time 12/30 and 12/31. Did not use protection :( So my cycle started on 12/18 5 days and the length of my cycle is 27 days. It states on my app that I have been using not to get pregnant for 4 years stated that ovulation was on the 12/30. My husband did not pull out or anything like that. Now, my friend did on both days and he made sure of it every time. Can someone help me?

OP posts:
Dricka86 · 18/01/2022 18:25

I took my test yesterday morning. I was 3 days late for my cycle.

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Gazelda · 18/01/2022 18:18

When did you take the test?

Dricka86 · 18/01/2022 18:02

Yes, I took 7 test to make sure I was not pregnant. I have a doctors appointment coming up this Friday for them to confirm.

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Dricka86 · 18/01/2022 18:00

First off before me and my friend decided to link up we both got tested. Please go somewhere else with that.

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Gazelda · 18/01/2022 17:56

When did you do the pregnancy test?

Porfre · 18/01/2022 17:55

The only way to be sure is a DNA test

WeeFae · 18/01/2022 17:54

Have you posted about this a couple of times before? I think the answers are the same.

blyn · 18/01/2022 17:54

It probably is your husband's baby though you cannot be sure without dna testing. Are you absolutely sure you are pregnant? If not, do a test.

The important issue is whether you actually want a baby.

BlueSky8 · 18/01/2022 17:54

Too close together to even try and pin point

Bakewelltart987 · 18/01/2022 17:53

Or when you go for your first scan dates might be wrong.

katieg03 · 18/01/2022 17:53

Either! You should probably get an sti check too.

Bakewelltart987 · 18/01/2022 17:52

Your dates are days apart so there is no possible way to know without a dna test.

Lovemylittlebear · 18/01/2022 17:51

Could be either from that info due to how long sperm can live for x

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