Anyone else 3dpo want to TWW with me?

@Tigerlilyxx from what I've seen that's still an early positive, congrats! I hope that line gets nice and clear for you...we can always have a look, never get bored of seeing if there's a line or not lol xxx

@GPLady so sorry for your loss.

I'm just jumping on I'm now 12 or 13 dpo, and the previous 2 days I have had light spotting which has now stopped. All cheapie BFNs up to this morning with the faintest line on FRER. So faint I can't get my phone to take the photo and I'm not sure if I'm just imagining it all.

@GPLady haha it is so true! Although last time I went for a private scan at 9 weeks so I'd probably do the same again I just hate the not knowing lol

@Coastaldreamer as in to the baby, not seeing us in 3 months 🤣

@Coastaldreamer so very hard not to isn't it... do you find the worst bit about pregnancy is that we have to just trust out bodies and have no control? Chill as much as you can, and try to just be oh ok cool. See you in 3 months lol xxx

@GPLady Thank you xx I'm hoping it's a sticky bean. Trying to not overthink anything at this point

@Coastaldreamer thank you 💙 It's still weird knowing that he's out there in the news.

I definitely see a line, I didn't even need to zoom in!! Congrats Mamma 💙 xxx

Ok so I am 10/11 DPO and I always said to myself I would wait till this time to test. I tested on a cheapie with FMU and I can't believe what I'm seeing. Please tell me you can see it too?!

@GPLady I'm so sorry I just read about what happened to him on a news article. I'm in shock.

@Beemo12 thank you so much 💙 He really was a cheeky, happy, chilled out little man 💙

I absolutely hate all these BFNs 😔 Fingers crossed for you this morning if you test. I've given my last test to my husband to hide until Tuesday 🤣 It's a digital and I really didn't want to use it and get a negative again, so I'll get some cheaper ones as well I think to leave with him as well lol xxx

@GPLady what an awful thing to go through. I wish you all the best with your campaign. I can't imagine your pain, your little Oliver looked like a real sweetheart.

I tested again today as my boobs were killing me but another bfn. Last time I didn't get my vvf bfp until 11dpo so kind of holding out hope until then.

@mooonbaby of course I don't mind, although I really don't you to worry about your little one.

He choked while eating at his nursery last September. He was 9 months old, we went to the Evelina in London but unfortunately the damage was too catastrophic for him to pull through. You might have seen it on the news, his name was Oliver Steeper.

Please though don't worry about your nursery. There are things that the Police are investigating to do with ours.

We're in the process of speaking to the council about a Safer Eating campaign across where we are and hopefully eventually nationally. We're also setting up a charity in his memory to provide funds for equipment and training, and general awareness. I guess that's what I meant by his name changing things.

But please please don't worry - it's such an anxiety fuelled thing to leave your babies in child care, please don't think that they're all the same 💙 xxx

@GPLady I hope you don’t mind me asking but what happened to your son? You say you’d like to use his name to stop it happening again. My son is at nursery and has been for about 6 months now and I’m still so scared something could happen to him there while I’m not there to protect him. Please feel free to ignore this if you’re not comfortable answering xx

@GPLady ahhh it happens to us all!

Sorry to hear it was negative. Still early though so there is hope

Still feeling so crappy and pre AF. Meh.

@Samthenanny@Coastaldreamer I've failed us all - 10dpo and just tested. I knew it would be a BFN, not least because it's not my first wee. And I also know it's too early for a lot of people. But oh that crushing disappointment is hideous isn't it 💔

Hope everyone’s ok today.
I’m only 7dpo and I stupidly thought I’d test this morning just with a internet cheapie, I knew it would never be positive I just couldn’t help myself it was of course a BFN.
I have so many symptoms, sore nipples, cramps/dull aches weird pains, headaches, tiredness, peeing every hour and the worse of all I cried at a dog on tv and when sat in traffic last night on my way home 🙄

@GPLady I know what you mean. Mine is saying 4 days till AF or hopefully BPF. My cycles are always somewhere between 29-35 days so this won't help . I'm praying that I did everything in this cycle that I did with DD so hopefully it goes our way.

Still got cramping and severe moodiness

@Hello47 hope you're doing ok! Xxx

Thank you so much everyone, you're all so lovely. Hopefully we can use Oli's name to progress things and prevent it never happening again 💙

How's everyone doing? I'm trying so hard to ignore my app saying 5 days til I'm due on (and so therefore starting the period when I can test early lol) xxx

Sending you love @GPLady

Only 5DPO and I’m cranky to PMS levels and have been for a few days. Might be work stress as aside from a little cramping, I feel no different yet. Only our first proper month trying though so I really need to manage my expectations! :)

@GPLady I’m so sorry for the loss of your son. Every parents worst nightmare. Sending lots of love xxx

@Hello47 congrats!! So exciting to see a BFP in this group. I wonder how many of us there will be by the end of the month

So so sorry for your loss @GPLady ❤️

Thank you so much ladies 💙