Anyone else 3dpo want to TWW with me?

@Ohnomollymoo hey 👋🏽 did you test again today?

The FRER I ordered are coming today but I don't know whether to take them today on a 3-4 hour hold or wait till morning. What do you guys think?

@GPLady ah no sorry about the BFN. I hope feb is your month! 🧡 also 12dpo is still early xx

I'm ok. Still feeling crampy but won't test now till CD30 as promised with DH. Taking all my willpower not to each morning. Just hoping it's not chemical.

We also used conceive plus this cycle 🤞🏽

@Ohnomollymoo I see a squinter!! Hope it's a sticky bean x

@Beemo12 yeah I've been taking the Seven Seas pre-conception tablets, just because I know I'm heavier than I was (working on it lol). We used pre-seed for Oli, I've got some concieve plus to try now xxx

@Ohnomollymoo definitely a line. Hope you don't mind I've inverted it and it is more obvious! Congrats! A very nice line so on early on.

@ohnomollymoo I can definitely see the second line 🙂 congratulations. I'm 10dpo but I'm too scared to test yet xxx

It's so hard isn't it. I've only started and understood it this month and found that it was super soft at ovulation but think we missed the timing. So far I've tried evening promise to increase the cm which supposedly helps the sperm survive, using conceive plus lube and taking vitamins but no success. I should probably just relax and enjoy but I can't stop thinking about it ha. We found a free trial for the sperm analysis and decided to do that tomorrow as there is nothing to lose.

I've never really understood about checking the cervix? Like I've tried and I don't get what I'm supposed to feel 🤣🙈 Also, the only thing I've noticed this month is that I've not had the white cm I normally so around this time, so I don't understand that either - am I right in thinking it should be like egg whites around ovulation?

I've never got my head round temperatures either @Tigerlilyxx, is that what you mean?

We've also been trying 6 months and also considering doing the bbt thing, but it does seem a bit complicated and I wouldn't know where to start with it.
We don't have any kids yet so managing to dtd every 2 or 3 days but it does ease off ovulation. Not sure what else to do tbh

This will be our 6 month properly trying with opks etc!

We are the exact same..all the advice to dtd every two days but there is no way we can keep up with that. We have been stopping once I ovulate...I've been confirming this with cervical position and cm but I am considering trying temping this month too...But I'm so forgetful with this type of stuff.

@Beemo12 maybe February is our month 💙 How long have you been trying? If you don't mind me asking, please don't worry if you'd rather not say.

I've said to DH that if AF does come, then we need to maybe do regular BD, not just in the fertile window. Which will actually be a little difficult for us because we aren't a huge sexy time couple lol xxx

Sorry to hear that @GPLady. Bfn for me here too so I guess we will all try again next month. I've organized a semen analysis tomorrow for DH. Is anyone planning on any new "tactics" for the next cycle?

Congrats to the BFPs in the group

@Coastaldreamer I'm ok thanks...bit of a bad day today, starting with another bfn on a dip stick test thing. I'm 12DPO so I'm pretty certain I'm out this month. Again 😔

But it's only been 3 cycles and I know we were very luck to fall for Oli first time trying.

Hope you're ok? Xxx

Congratulations @Goose4 and @Samthenanny!!

Awwh thank you @GPLady @Coastaldreamer @samthenanny and @Goose4 @mooonbaby for the thoughts and concern. What a lovely supportive thread!
There were a lot of tears yesterday tbh. I know it was only a faint line but I had really got my Hope's up. DH keeps telling me not to think about it and "it'll happen when it happens" but I don't know how to not think about it. I also have PCOS so that's always at the back of my mind with infertility.
It was worse this month after seeing the line so I might try not rest until AF late next month (if I can hold out).
I did have a drink last night and hopefully going to book a weekend away next month to take my mind off it.

Thank you all again, I hope you all get your positives orif not, end up in a thread with you next month

@mooonbaby I'm trying my hardest not to test early. I did this before and it turned out to be a chemical pregnancy so don't want to get my hopes up too early. It's killing me though 🤣 hope I can wait

Congratulations and happy birthday 🙂

Congratulations @Samthenanny and happy birthday. What a lovely present

Congrats @Samthenanny !

@Tigerlilyxx how are you?

I decided not to test now till the day AF is due. Promised DH I would stop stressing and wait although it's hard. Will be gutted if Af Comes after the faint line

@GPLady how you doing?

@Goose4 thank you.
I’m ok but have had a rough week really, aches and pains everywhere, headache for 5 days, I feel pretty sick once I’ve eaten and I’m super emotional, angry or happy, my poor DP

How have you been feeling?

Congrats Sam! That’s a very strong line 🥰

Congrats to you, too @Samthenanny that's a lovely strong line!! Happy birthday! How are you feeling?

Congrats goose!!!

@Boymama1990 you could test now! I got my first positive at 8dpo with my first. Just make sure it’s a high sensitivity test like FRER

@Goose4 congratulations

@Tigerlilyxx hope you’re ok

It’s my birthday today and after yesterdays possible implantation I woke and took a test, BFP
I’m 10dpo but maybe 12 looking at the line, it came up.
Fingers crossed it sticks

I'm 9dpo and the wait is killing me. Don't know when to test. Really want to hang on until my period is due but it's killing me not to test early.