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Suddenly pregnant - a silver lining for my grieving parents

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Bea0001 · 26/12/2007 20:30

Very sadly my younger brother suddenly and unexpectedly died around this time last year. Almost to the day of the first anniversary my dh and I have found out that we are expecting our first child (I'm 37). When we received confirmation - on Christmas Eve eve - dh said, almost instantly, "now we have a really special gift to give your parents" (they didn't want any, too sad as they were to 'celebrate').

I am so very very excited for us and for them. I feel like I am staring in what feels like a modern day Christmas miracle. Of course my parents are still sad, but there is happiness now that I have never before seen in either of them.

This is one of the most special moments of my life.

B

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CantSleighWontSleigh · 26/12/2007 20:54

Congratulations Bea. Wishing you a very very happy and healthy pregnancy.

Bea0001 · 26/12/2007 20:36

P.S. I meant to say: I am sharing all this with the group as a way of sharing my joy: I don't want to tell other immediate family and friends until we are through the next couple of volitile weeks (we had a v. early miscarriage in Nov), so thanks for being part of this!
B

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munchkinmum · 26/12/2007 20:33

So happy for you and your family.

You are right, a miracle!

Wishing you a healthy pregnancy and a ver happy 2008!

TenLordsaLapin · 26/12/2007 20:33

Very sad to hear about your brother B but huge huge congratulations on your pregnancy. I hope your baby brings you much happiness and joy (and sleepless nights and stinky nappies but that's all par for the course! )

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