Hi everyone!
This thread may or may not contain questions, I've mainly started it to be my brain dump safe space but in an excited way, not a bad way...
Me (30) and my SO (34) have decided to take the leap and start TTC! We have both wanted children for a while but just knew the timing wasn't right for either of us until now. For me, any time I see a baby or even baby clothes recently my heart aches for it to be my turn. I've never really had that strong feeling before.
The reason behind this 'safe space' is that we have agreed not to tell anyone we are TTC. We just want to avoid any pressure or disappointment if things don't go to plan, etc.
For context, I am the youngest of 5, the only girl the only one of my siblings without children.
SO is the oldest of 2, his brother has a child who lives with BM away from here so isn't really seen much by grandparents.
Both families are great and would only want the best for us but I personally don't want to feel any sort or pressure at all (intended or not) from either side.
So, we start our journey, we are on cycle 1 SWI, not expecting anything to happen this cycle and trying not to turn in to a crazy lady about TTC 
If anyone else needs a brain dump safe space, feel free to join me here x