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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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J90A · 21/12/2021 14:39

Hey.

I am in the 2ww and struggling so much this time, much more than usual!! I'm only 5po ish. I feel so stressed and like time is going past so slow. I've even tested 🤦‍♀️ which I know it's far too early so don't know why I even done it 😂. I don't think it has worked this month I don't know why I just feel I know. Is anyone else in the wait?? How do you cope ? Xx

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Lozzza90 · 28/12/2021 12:30

That does look promising hun! I would defo get another one for peace of mind though. Please keep us posted! Fingers crossed for you!! Xx

P.s Im so sorry if I posted on the wrong thread here! I didn't realise as I was just madly googling for people on their 2ww and had to write back to you :) I am not too sure where I sit "category wise" at the minute as it's all new to me still and we had to start and stop over the last year or so Smile xx

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J90A · 28/12/2021 12:29

@Easymeasy I went to shops and got a FRER which was negative. Xx

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Easymeasy · 28/12/2021 12:27

@J90A have you got a FRER test? They are the most reliable.
I'm also in the 2ww. Blood test is Thursday but I have been getting positives since 6dp5dt. Currently 11dp5dt.

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J90A · 28/12/2021 11:52

@HopeMumsnet ok thanks hope! Apologies I am getting infertility treatment so posted in here thanks for moving! Xx

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HopeMumsnet · 28/12/2021 11:36

Hi there,
We hope you don't mind, OP, but we're moving this to Conception because this type of thread fits better there. (Fingers crossed that test looks promising btw).

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J90A · 28/12/2021 11:21

This one might loon clearer. Away to buy more tests. 🤦‍♀️ xx

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J90A · 28/12/2021 11:13

@Lozzza90 @2mumlife

Aw I know I am totally wishing my life away! I've been using internet cheapies but used a clear blue this morning as there more sensitive and I got this?! It has a line but only half? Not sure if you can see it on this pic cx

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Lozzza90 · 27/12/2021 21:43

Ah I know it's so difficult but hang in there hun! SmileI agree, I would always say you're not out until AF shows. There's such varied information out there saying people have got early and late BFP's. Perhaps it is just too early for you. What test are you using?

I've been going mad looking at symptoms and all the chats on here and I totally understand the stress of it all. I'm currently 8DPO so I'm trying to hang in there and not test at all but feel like I'm wishing my life away at the minute. Sorry I haven't done the temp thing, I started using the clear blue digital ovulation though and found that useful so far. What does it all mean? Xx

2mumlife · 27/12/2021 21:28

@J90A Its a long TWW when you actually need to wait the full 2 weeks (my TWW is only 10 days and thats bad enough!). You're not out until you're out though! I've never tracked BBT so can't offer comment on that, but maybe someone else can?

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J90A · 27/12/2021 20:51

I've tracked BBT for the first time this month this is my chart. Last month I didn't track enough days.

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J90A · 27/12/2021 20:50

Hello @Easymeasy @Lozzza90 @2mumlife I have just seen these replies! I'm on clomid and had my ovulation confirmed early this month so it's been the longest 2 weeks ever!! I've been testing last few days even though I said I wouldn't 🤦‍♀️ I am 11 DPO and been getting BFNs so i feel like im out but obv can't relax about it until I get AF which is due between Wednesday and Friday. I've been pretty emotional the last few days so assuming that's PMS. Xx

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2mumlife · 26/12/2021 19:39

@Lozzza90 Hey. I'm 5dp5dt today. Also found christmas a good distraction, but now approaching my 'difficult days' of the TWW. Last time we tranfered I got my BFP 6dp (and then drove myself demented worrying about line progression and did indeed have a chemical pregnancy) so whilst I'm resolved not to do that to myself again, there is the little voice in the back of the head knowing that it is possible that I could test tomorrow and know (though I know a negative I'd feel shit and a positive I'd spend several days being demented testing every day, so I don't want to open pandoras box with testing early this time). Hold on in there - no good comes of testing early!

Lozzza90 · 26/12/2021 13:27

Hey, I’m also on the dreaded 2WW! Confused it’s always the worst when you know there’s nothing you can do now. I’m so relieved there’s someone else feeling like me right now! I’ve got 1 week left and trying soooo hard not to think about it until 2nd Jan when AF is due but like you I always bloody test early and get so upset every time! The only distraction I can say is the fact it’s Xmas and being round lots of people is great to get through the days. Keep as busy as you can and enjoy Christmas I know easier said than done! Good luck 🤞🏻 xx

Easymeasy · 23/12/2021 20:05

Hey, how is it going?