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Anyone due to get BFP/AF at Xmas?

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madeleine85 · 15/12/2021 05:10

The pressure is on... in the TWW and AF is due right around Xmas. Spending the holidays with my in laws, and both wanting to drink through the holidays/not drink as in the TWW. I’m also dreading a little bit of feeling down if I get AF right at Xmas. If anyone is looking for a TWW companion/obsessor here I am ☺️. Good luck, and hope you all get your Xmas present 🎁 BFP from Santa 🎅🏻. Xx

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RAP08 · 21/12/2021 17:34

@oldermam you have to let us know the outcome! I've developed lower back pain throughout the day and I'm off to Tesco to buy some more tests. Period was due 5 days ago - I've never been this late!

oldermam · 21/12/2021 17:32

I won't be testing again until the morning. This is driving me mad 🙈🙈

i123i · 21/12/2021 17:21

Interesting @Pinkyflipflops. Didn’t realise the wait could be so long! Hopefully you won’t need it.

@madeleine85 - I’m the same with double digits!! 10dpo sounds like a much more reasonable time to start testing in my head 😬!

@LondonladyTTC @whymewhyme - sorry to hear about the BFNs. ❤️

@TheBirdintheCave - reassuring to hear re the alcohol!!

@oldermam - worth another test soon for sure with those symptoms!

@Tigerlilyxx - yes that could still be too early to show a BFP. You’re not out until AF shows up.

Still no symptoms here, 7dpo…I’ll try and resist and do my first test at 10dpo 🌟.

Pinkyflipflops · 21/12/2021 17:10

Yessss @oldermam go on and test! I need to know lol. What tests are you using? I just checked my internet cheapies and saw they are 10 mIU/ml. Didnt realise they're were that sensitive, I feel even more pessimistic now ☹ I've got one frer but dont want to waste it.

@madeleine85 that's a good sign about the hair 🤞🏼 got everything crossed for your test tomorrow 🤞🏼
I really dont think this is my month, but if it is, I will wrap the test and give it to my husband on Christmas as well. A bit cheesy but this will definitely be my last pregnancy (if I'm blessed enough to get pregnant) so I will go overboard with everything 🤣

oldermam · 21/12/2021 16:38

Symptoms actually get worse as the day goes on. I wonder if it's worth testing in the evening instead

oldermam · 21/12/2021 16:37

@madeleine85 I haven't managed to pick up first response test yet. Might actually pop out to boots now.

My nausea is on another scale. I'm just constantly eating to keep the yucky taste away. Just piling on the weight 😩🙈

I also have sore boobs, and extreme tiredness 😴

madeleine85 · 21/12/2021 16:18

@i123i thank you, woke up today thinking it was all over as was feeling a little bloated as that is my pre AF day sign. Not sure though, the weird boobs are still there. Never had this before. From googling it looks like another progesterone side effect though and a lot of ppl get it and don't get BFPs, so trying to not get my hopes up.

@oldermam and @Pinkyflipflops I have promised myself that i'll hold off POAS until 10 DPO which is tomorrow. For some reason the lure of double digits makes me wait. Though last time I did that on day 10 and then wiped and AF was there. Total waste of a FRER. Let me know how you get on please, we must be in sync this cycle. It seems that every cycle so far i've had different and confusing signs. With my DD I had none, except I stopped shedding hair in the shower, and had cramps I thought were AF coming. Yesterday my husband was like your hair looks great just now and my response was... well none has come out in 5 days. So he is now convinced, even though i'm not... I think i've believed the symptoms and been burned too many times now. It would be perfect to tell him at Xmas as a present, but also, if AF comes I can drink the wine advent calendar he got me which I haven't touched the 2nd half of!

@TheBirdintheCave welcome, and good luck for this cycle, fingers crossed for you!

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Pinkyflipflops · 21/12/2021 15:25

So sorry about af ladies @whymewhyme @LondonladyTTC I hope you're ok. Ttc can be so shit! I'll be very upset on friday and drowning my sorrows in prosecco

whymewhyme · 21/12/2021 13:50

Ah TTC is such a roller coaster, bloody sick of it now. I've had horrendous fore boobs, feeling sick and been dry heaving for days and today I've just wiped and there is light brown mucus so looks like AF will arrive tomorrow as planed!

Sorry to be negative but i honestly thought this was my month.

LondonladyTTC · 21/12/2021 12:27

AF arrived today and DH tested positive for covid so is now isolating in the spare room, thankfully feeling ok. Very Merry Christmas!! WinkAngry

TheBirdintheCave · 21/12/2021 11:46

@Tigerlilyxx Ah sorry, FRER is 'First Response Early Result' :)

Tigerlilyxx · 21/12/2021 11:02

Sorry new on here so not sure of the acronyms, not sure on FRER. But I did use a clear blue ultra early, BUT having looked back of my dates AF due 26th is with a 28 day cycle but my last three months are 30 day cycles so I'm probably not due until 28th anyway, which might be too early. But then it's probably not morning sickness either if my hormones levels haven't risen either yet Confused

TheBirdintheCave · 21/12/2021 10:46

@Tigerlilyxx It can be too early yes. When I was pregnant with my son I had a BFN at 12dpo and the BFP at 14dpo. I was using cheapies though and the FRER I took on 14dpo was blazing so I think if I'd have used that earlier I would have got a line. What test did you use?

Tigerlilyxx · 21/12/2021 10:43

Hi, can I jump on this thread.
We're in fourth cycle of TTC. Currently 10 DPO using OPKs. Started feeling nausea on Saturday in waves, terrible nausea yesterday and actually vomited twice. Did a test this morning (after not sleeping a wink convincing myself I was) and BFN.
Is 10DPO too early or do I just have a stomach bug? AF due boxing day.

Pinkyflipflops · 21/12/2021 09:37

My excuse is that I'm using cheapies, and my period always arrives right in time so I never get a chance to use them..so I'm catching up this month and using up my stash

Pinkyflipflops · 21/12/2021 09:36

@oldermam 🤣 definitely not alone

oldermam · 21/12/2021 09:32

@Pinkyflipflops glad it's not just me that's lost the plot 🙈

Pinkyflipflops · 21/12/2021 09:26

Sorry about the bfn ladies, finger crossed it's just too early. I also got a bfn this morning, I'm 8 dpo. I think I'll be testing until af arrives, I've officially lost the plot..still zero symptoms.

@madeleine85 when are you going to test? I've got a feeling you're going to get your bfp 😊 @i123i so I rang the surgery and talked with a gp. The good news is that I'm going to have the day 2 and 21 blood tests. The bad news is that I have to be trying for 2 years before being referred to a gynecologist, because I already have several children I wouldn't get treatment funded by the nhs (like ivf, not that I would go down that route anyway) . But the gynecologist could prescribe some stuff. By then I'll be 40 years old 😱 hopefully it wont come to that

TheBirdintheCave · 21/12/2021 09:15

We weren't going to try this month as we were planning a holiday in May and I wanted to be able to fly comfortably but it looks like Covid will be changing those plans (again) so we gave it a shot. Period is due 25th/26th. It would be such a lovely Christmas present but I'm already starting to feel like a second baby isn't on the cards for us.

Re Christmas drinking: Please don't worry. The week before I found out I was pregnant with my son I had about six gins and a bottle of cider and he was born perfectly healthy :) TTC is stressful enough, don't deny yourself Christmas fun because of it! :)

Hopefull1981 · 21/12/2021 09:15

10 DPO here, BFN. I am not surprised as I don’t have any symptoms whatsoever.
Good Luck to all of you who are testing today/tomorrow.

oldermam · 21/12/2021 08:33

Also 9dpo. And gone stick mad. Another bfn this morning but was only a cheapie! Symptoms still strong, nausea. Tiredness. Incredibly painful boobs. But I also have a fair bit of stomach ache today!

I've been up and done my food shopping at 5am. I'm hosting Xmas dinner this year. My first in three years not working. Im just going to busy myself with Christmas prep for the next few days!

RAP08 · 21/12/2021 08:26

@i123i yes this is what I keep telling myself! I suppose I'm just impatient hahaha! Looking forward to finishing work on Thursday for a three day break! (Provided we aren't plunged into lockdown!)

i123i · 21/12/2021 07:59

@Pinkyflipflops - definitely don’t feel bad ringing your GP about this. I’ll be 35 in a couple of months, and husband is mid 40s so if we’re not pregnant by then, then I’ll be trying to be seen by my GP too as it’ll have been well over 6 months by then.

@madeleine85 - hope the journey is ok! Tingly nipples sounds painful. Hope it results in a BFP!

@RAP08 - welcome and sorry to hear about the BFN. I’ve read some people don’t get them until a week or more after they’re late… you’re not out until AF arrives. 🌟

Uuughh final 3 days of work before I can relax for Christmas!! Guess it’s a good distraction from this.

RAP08 · 21/12/2021 07:30

Yes. Peaks showed it should have been CD14. Took another test this morning being 14dpo and still negative! I suppose I'll just have to wait a few more days!

madeleine85 · 21/12/2021 06:18

@RAP08 welcome! If you know your ovulation date is right then you’re still in with shot, as the luteal never normally moves by more than 1 day. Fingers crossed for you, let us know how you get on.

9dpo now, I had incredibly tingly nipples today, all night it’s felt like the let down feeling when you start breastfeeding. Had to sit with a hot water bottle on my boobs like a weirdo 😂. I generally have very not sensitive boobs. If I’m not pregnant then over the last 3 months I’ll literally have had every BFP symptom without one. Good practice I guess 😂😂😂. At least today I start a long drive to my in laws. That, traveling with a car sick 2 year old, and a grouchy husband should distract me from this guessing (I hope)!

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