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Rose253 · 2021-12-14T12:59:12+00:00

11dpo today, no sign of anything.. Dont really temp but I feel like im out this month. Shall I give up any hope? thanks in advance x

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 20:34

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle oooo you never know then, do you do OPK's?

Yeah its literally like a dark force😂😂😂

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 20:10

I'm only going by the Flow App so I'm not 100%.
I'm not getting my hopes up.
I know what you mean when you say somthing comes over you with testing. It's a compulsion. 😂

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 20:08

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle did you defo ovulate when you thought you did or is it possible you're implanting now? My cramps have been more central and got bad back pain, cant wait for AF to just show up now so I can get over it and start again🥲

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 20:06

@sunflower25049 Yeah I didnt track BBT this time round and wish I did now but defo next cycle going to do the whole thing properly.

I always say im going to hold out till the day AF is due but soon as it hits 7dpo, something comes over me😂 I promised myself im only going to get a frer if the cheapy shows a line, so not anytime soon😶

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 19:55

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle omg me too! been having cramps most of the day, AF is defo coming😓 [/quote]
Mine feel like sharp stabbings pains on my left side. So now I'm reading into that that maybe implantation?! But I know that's unlikely at this stage and I'm just fooling myself.

sunflower25049 · 15/12/2021 19:54

@Rose253 thank you! I feel like I'm probably not pregnant but this last 2 weeks of constantly reading posts has made me realise that starting the new year I'm going to track BBT and ovulation days properly so when we do start trying I have an understanding of my body. I said I wasn't going to test unless AF is actually late now and have no more tests here anyway but I have FRER in my Amazon basket 👀👀

Keeping my fingers crossed for you that AF does not show xx

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 19:44

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle omg me too! been having cramps most of the day, AF is defo coming😓

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 19:42

If I knew where the tests had been hidden I would also be testing!
I'm having some cramps so I think AF will show up Friday.

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 19:36

@RGxo13 Bit of a sticky situation hopefully you get some news before the christmas party!🤞🏻

I cant help myself and got the cheapy easy&home tests, I say im not going to test but run to the bathroom first thing in the morning😬

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 19:34

@sunflower25049

Hi all, can I join please?

I'm in a bit of an unusual situation. Had the coil out earlier this year and was planning to start trying next year. Had a "whoops" moment around ovulation day and have been convinced I'm pregnant since about 4DPO (I know symptoms are so unlikely then) but either I am or I'm noticing a whole bunch of symptoms I've always had that have gone unnoticed? 2 x BFN yesterday and today. AF due on Sunday and but both me and my BF were gutted when there was no line?!

still might be abit early yet, maybe wait till Friday/Saturday to test again? again this is coming from someone who has an addiction with testing everyday😂

I think even if you thought you wouldnt be as gutted, its something that really gets your hopes up, hope you get good news soon❤️

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RGxo13 · 15/12/2021 19:31

Thank you ladies! Giving me a little hope last month was the first month I’ve known about the ‘fertile window’ so made sure that peak time to dtd. No signs of af coming, I usually get really bad cramps but nothing so far! Have my Xmas party on Friday so panicking about drinking but feel a bit silly not going when I’m only getting bfn! Think I will try and wait until one week after I thought I was due af to test again but boy will that he hard haha! Xx @Theneverendingcleaningcycle @Rose253

sunflower25049 · 15/12/2021 19:29

Hi all, can I join please?

I'm in a bit of an unusual situation. Had the coil out earlier this year and was planning to start trying next year. Had a "whoops" moment around ovulation day and have been convinced I'm pregnant since about 4DPO (I know symptoms are so unlikely then) but either I am or I'm noticing a whole bunch of symptoms I've always had that have gone unnoticed? 2 x BFN yesterday and today. AF due on Sunday and but both me and my BF were gutted when there was no line?!

Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 19:18

@RGxo13

Now two days **

You're not out till AF arrives. Maybe hold out testing for a few days. I say this as a big hypocrite as I would be testing every day. Baby dust to you xx

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 19:14

@RGxo13 aww bet it must be so hard😓 I have read people going on to getting positives like a week after their period but dont know how common it actually is.. Is there any signs af is coming?

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RGxo13 · 15/12/2021 18:43

Now two days **

RGxo13 · 15/12/2021 18:43

I’m in the same mindset ladies. Usually have 28 day cycle like clockwork. I’m not two days past when af was due. Thought the two week wait was bad enough but now I’m actually late for the first time and only getting negative results. Is the baby dream over for this month? x

Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 15:06

[quote Geemmm]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle I tested again today it another whiter than white BFN. I'm not testing again this month it's just torture now. Just need to hope AF doesn't come and will test if I'm a week late. [/quote]
I'm sorry I know that crushing disappointment. I keep thinking of the positives of not having morning sickness over Xmas. Its not much to cling to though.

Geemmm · 15/12/2021 14:26

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle I tested again today it another whiter than white BFN. I'm not testing again this month it's just torture now. Just need to hope AF doesn't come and will test if I'm a week late.

Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 12:36

@Decaffe

12DPO and BFN on a FRER this morning.

For me I am going to stop wasting money now, and accept AF is on her way this Sat/Sun.

I have had absolutely no symptoms whatsoever so just feel like I need to face facts!

I can’t believe I was so naive as to think I’d get pregnant on the first go. Dear Lord.

I know how you feel. I feel like I was naieve too. I caught first time with DD 7 years ago. I just assumed it would happen like that again. I forgot I'm also 7 years older! My DD is desperate for a sibling. Which is making this harder.

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 11:06

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle I know how you feel, in the same boat. Just waiting for AF to come now, not going to bother testing anymore.

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 10:40

Sorry there's no BFP this morning. My husbands hidden the tests so I can't test till the weekend. If I knew where they were I would have. Trying to focus on work but it's so hard.

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 09:25

@Mama500 same for you❤️ I'm trying to do things to make my day go quicker because before you know it im googling all sort of stuff🙄
Normally id be at work doesnt help ive got two days off haha

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Mama500 · 15/12/2021 09:17

@Rose253 yes it really is! Sending you lots of baby dust!

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 09:14

@Mama500 Hey there😘, its heartbreaking isnt it, especially when you want something so bad..

I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant or having babys and im like bleugh😓

Our time will come, we just have to keep hope and stay positive, and maybe the slightest chance we arent out yet till af shows🤞🏻

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Mama500 · 15/12/2021 08:53

Hi everyone can I join!

I’m in exactly the same boat. I really thought I would be about 6 months pregnant by Xmas but here I am still trying still BFN:(

AF due sun