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11dpo, is it over?

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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 12:59

11dpo today, no sign of anything.. Dont really temp but I feel like im out this month. Shall I give up any hope?

thanks in advance x

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Rose253 · 17/12/2021 17:32

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle I know what you mean, its just putting all the effort in and then having to start again, I really hope we all get our bfp soon😓

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 17/12/2021 16:16

I've just added more prenatal vitamins to my amazon order and some fertility lube. sigh didn't want to do this again.
Yes new cycle etc!

Mama500 · 17/12/2021 16:07

I guess we get to enjoy a drink this Xmas at least :(

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Rose253 · 17/12/2021 16:00

@Mama500 @Theneverendingcleaningcycle I think im joining you😓 bad cramps allday at work, guess we just have to look forward to the next cycle🤞🏻

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Mama500 · 17/12/2021 15:52

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle me too :(

Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 17/12/2021 13:37

I'm out. ☹

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Rose253 · 16/12/2021 22:04

@sunflower25049 wish I had that willpower😂 I test every morning with my cheapies to keep me going for the day. Although I think im defo out now, cramps and all symptoms disappeared. Hope you get your bfp this month🤞🏻

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sunflower25049 · 16/12/2021 20:35

Hi all! I successfully abstained from testing but this time last week I was having nausea, back ache, sense of smell increased and now nothing... AF due Sunday so won't be testing now until atleast Monday. Driving me nuts!

For those who have had AF arrive, cheers to 2022 and lots and lots of BFPs xxx

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Rose253 · 16/12/2021 20:30

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle aww dont be upset, even though its easier said than done. Hopefully we'll all get our bfps soon, just taking a little longer..❤️

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 16/12/2021 19:15

No but I'm getting cramps so feel like tonight tommrow morning :(

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Rose253 · 16/12/2021 18:15

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle

I'm resigned. 🍰 for us all.
eh has af showed up?
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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 16/12/2021 17:09

I'm resigned. 🍰 for us all.

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Rose253 · 16/12/2021 17:01

@Mama500

I haven’t tested as cannot stand to see another bfn. Feeling really down. Day 3 of spotting
aww, its so hard the whole situation. Hope you're okay❤️
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Mama500 · 16/12/2021 16:50

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle it is! I’m feeling quite low about it all. How are tou

Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 16/12/2021 16:43

@Mama500

I haven’t tested as cannot stand to see another bfn. Feeling really down. Day 3 of spotting
I'm sorry @mama500 it's hard to not despair sometimes.
Mama500 · 16/12/2021 16:41

I haven’t tested as cannot stand to see another bfn. Feeling really down. Day 3 of spotting

Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 16/12/2021 16:40

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah you're right, the food is way too nice not to eat it! My new years resolution can be to focus on the weight haha[/quote]
My aim is to maintain over Xmas and start again in the new year.

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Rose253 · 16/12/2021 15:26

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah you're right, the food is way too nice not to eat it! My new years resolution can be to focus on the weight haha

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 16/12/2021 14:16

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah im done testing now, I know its done. My cramping has disappeared though but I know it comes a few hours before AF.

Yeah ive got my fitness pal app, going to start being more consistent. Really need to shift this weight, making me feel really depressed😓[/quote]
Just don't put to much pressure on yourself over Xmas. X

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Rose253 · 16/12/2021 13:52

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah im done testing now, I know its done. My cramping has disappeared though but I know it comes a few hours before AF.

Yeah ive got my fitness pal app, going to start being more consistent. Really need to shift this weight, making me feel really depressed😓

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 16/12/2021 13:44

I'm also dieting I'm finding calorie counting is the best. I've lost 6 pounds in a month which for me is amazing.

Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 16/12/2021 13:41

@Rose253

How is everyone doing today?

im defo out, did a test thing morning and BFN. Had a little cry and now looking forward to the next cycle. Also going on a diet, the whole lockdown and covid hasnt been good towards my weight gain😂

hope you're all doing well❤️

I'm sorry @rose253 I'm still having cramping so likely to be start of AF. Due tommrow. I'm not testing till Sunday though if I don't come on.
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Rose253 · 16/12/2021 10:29

How is everyone doing today?

im defo out, did a test thing morning and BFN. Had a little cry and now looking forward to the next cycle. Also going on a diet, the whole lockdown and covid hasnt been good towards my weight gain😂

hope you're all doing well❤️

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 20:54

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle i love them, it helps my addiction😂

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 20:36

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle oooo you never know then, do you do OPK's?

Yeah its literally like a dark force😂😂😂[/quote]
I haven't done. I think I will next month then. More peeing on a stick woo! 😂