Ovulation day whos with me??

SurfWaves · 2021-12-13T01:04:40+00:00

Ovulation day today anyone want to join me in the 2WW?

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SurfWaves · 08/01/2022 08:10

@Bessiebum

Sorry to hear that! To he honest I think the 'vibe' we get, whether it's good or bad, is really just a reflection of our mental space at the time and actually has nothing to do with whether it will happen or not. There are so many uncontrollable factors in it all. Also, I find in life things always go your way when you're least expecting it to. Maybe it'd be a good month for you to mentally distance yourself from it all a bit and who knows what might happen! X

I think I'm going to take some time off from ttc. I'm far to 'obsessed' with opks being perfect etc and checking my temp. Time for a wee break for us.

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Bessiebum · 07/01/2022 20:59

Sorry to hear that! To he honest I think the 'vibe' we get, whether it's good or bad, is really just a reflection of our mental space at the time and actually has nothing to do with whether it will happen or not. There are so many uncontrollable factors in it all. Also, I find in life things always go your way when you're least expecting it to. Maybe it'd be a good month for you to mentally distance yourself from it all a bit and who knows what might happen! X

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SurfWaves · 07/01/2022 20:30

I'm feeling like this month is out for me already, just not feeling the vibes

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SurfWaves · 07/01/2022 20:30

@Bessiebum

How's it going *@surfwaves*? I've had three positive LH tests - yesterday am/pm and today. I reckon ovulation will be today or tomorrow. My temps will give me an idea. Been dtd everyday this week!! Been feeling quite positive so far as been busy and distracted but I'm not looking forward to 2WW. Although AF actually due 12dpo so on the bright side there's less time to wait!

I've had no surges at all nothing on LH strips

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Bessiebum · 06/01/2022 16:28

How's it going @surfwaves? I've had three positive LH tests - yesterday am/pm and today. I reckon ovulation will be today or tomorrow. My temps will give me an idea. Been dtd everyday this week!! Been feeling quite positive so far as been busy and distracted but I'm not looking forward to 2WW. Although AF actually due 12dpo so on the bright side there's less time to wait!

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SurfWaves · 02/01/2022 11:12

[quote Bessiebum]@surfwaves Hi! Doing ok here, feeling a little bit more optimistic now AF has stopped and we are in the new year. CD10 today and I was just thinking this morning how the few days between AF and ovulation are the only ones where I'm not driving myself crazy as I've accepted that it's not worked that month but not yet on the symptom spotting countdown spiral that is the 2WW! Ovulation due Thurs/Fri and going to start LH tests today or tomorrow to help confirm. How are you doing? X[/quote]
I'm good just anticipating ov so we can try again, start testing for surge tomorrow to track those darkening lines.

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Bessiebum · 02/01/2022 10:21

@surfwaves Hi! Doing ok here, feeling a little bit more optimistic now AF has stopped and we are in the new year. CD10 today and I was just thinking this morning how the few days between AF and ovulation are the only ones where I'm not driving myself crazy as I've accepted that it's not worked that month but not yet on the symptom spotting countdown spiral that is the 2WW! Ovulation due Thurs/Fri and going to start LH tests today or tomorrow to help confirm. How are you doing? X

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SurfWaves · 31/12/2021 19:51

CD5 off we go again. How is everyone??

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SurfWaves · 27/12/2021 00:54

Absolutely ttc buddies next month, ov same time so we can support each other through the rollercoaster again.

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Bessiebum · 26/12/2021 21:07

@SurfWaves

Af reared her head today so I'm out. 😭😭

That sucks!!! We will have to hold out together for next month

I'm feeling extra crappy now as I'm sticking out a job I'm miserable in until we have our second baby, at which point I won't be going back. I was hoping I would be going back in the new year knowing I only had to count down a few months. It's horrid now not having the end in sight, especially on top of the emotional rollercoaster TTC is anyway!! See you here around the 7th? Lol Sending hugs.

pennysays · 26/12/2021 11:08

Sending love @SurfWaves. BFN for me yesterday. Will test again tomorrow.

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SurfWaves · 26/12/2021 10:50

Af reared her head today so I'm out. 😭😭

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SurfWaves · 24/12/2021 19:28

@Bessiebum

AF here to ruin Christmas Eve. Early too, Pretty gutted!

next ov day is around 7th Jan and then I'll be back to do it all again!!!

I'm sorry to read that, I'm 11dpo so just waiting on af now so I can start again. Ov due around 6th/ 7th Jan for me too next month

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Bessiebum · 24/12/2021 10:38

AF here to ruin Christmas Eve. Early too, Pretty gutted! next ov day is around 7th Jan and then I'll be back to do it all again!!!

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SurfWaves · 24/12/2021 00:01

@pennysays

I'm coming on here to offer some support. I'm 6dpo and desperate for someone to talk to about it, whilst also know that I need to STOP THINKING ABOUT IT.

Hi penny come join us ☕️

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SurfWaves · 24/12/2021 00:01

@Jayjane79

Ladies advice is this the start of a positive or a faulty one step. Easy at home is negative buy I'm not Sire what they sensitivity is between them.

Looks positive to me. Huge congrats!!! 🤰🏼 🎉

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SurfWaves · 24/12/2021 00:00

[quote Bessiebum]**@jayjane79* @surfwaves* Sorry you're both feeling so rubbish, I'm there with you today. I managed not to test yesterday but it was the first thing I did this morning (10dpo) another BFN on FRER. I'm sick of playing mind games with myself and at this point the only hint of joy I can feel about it is that I can eat all the cheeses at Xmas!!![/quote]
Defo eat all the cheese is where my brain is at too.

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PointyMcguire · 23/12/2021 23:10

Please can I join? After nearly giving up hope with the Clearblue monitor after 6 days of highs I finally got a smiley face today. We’ve been TTC #1 for a while now, but only really started taking it seriously in the last month or so when we realised our childhood belief that any unprotected sex would result in a baby was a lie

Prettypine · 23/12/2021 18:36

Wow I definitely see a hint of something there! Hope it gets darker for you!

pennysays · 23/12/2021 17:25

ohhh definitely something faint there! you're 10dpo? Test again tomorrow first thing so higher levels of HGC in your wee! Tests can vary a lot in their sensitivity.

Jayjane79 · 23/12/2021 16:42

Ladies advice is this the start of a positive or a faulty one step. Easy at home is negative buy I'm not Sire what they sensitivity is between them.

pennysays · 23/12/2021 11:16

I'm coming on here to offer some support. I'm 6dpo and desperate for someone to talk to about it, whilst also know that I need to STOP THINKING ABOUT IT.

Bessiebum · 23/12/2021 06:51

@jayjane79 @surfwaves Sorry you're both feeling so rubbish, I'm there with you today. I managed not to test yesterday but it was the first thing I did this morning (10dpo) another BFN on FRER. I'm sick of playing mind games with myself and at this point the only hint of joy I can feel about it is that I can eat all the cheeses at Xmas!!!

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SurfWaves · 22/12/2021 17:32

I'm exhausted from the stress of having sex at the right times and the pressure to get pregnant before I'm 40.

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Jayjane79 · 22/12/2021 09:45

@SurfWaves

9dpo and bfn again, that's me out I think.

Me to feel so deflated with I all.