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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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SantiagoSister · 25/11/2021 18:13

Hi all, just thought I’d make a lead on thread from the TTC NOVEMBER 2021 group for us all to continue on. Wishing you the best of luck for a lovely little Christmas miracle āœØšŸŽ…šŸ¼

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Decaffe · 13/12/2021 09:23

Absolutely no symptoms together, I don't feel anything is differently. Strangely for the last two cycles I've had what you would absolutely think were ovulation pains; sharp enough to make me catch my breath! But not even that this month. So I just have a feeling I'm out this month. Sad

Have to say, DH is looking forward to next cycle's fertile week as it's essentially the week between Christmas and New Year, hopefully we won't be tired and will be nice and relaxed!

Sjmc16 · 13/12/2021 09:23

Thank you, I think I’ll test again later with another cheapie just to be sure and then use a better test! Up until today I’ve had BFN, I think (if this is defo positive) I implanted on Friday as I had cramps and some light discharge/spotting (TMI!) and then nothing, so don’t lose hope just yet xxx

Tor88 · 13/12/2021 09:17

Ahh congratulations @Sjmc16, that looks promising!!

Cmacq32 · 13/12/2021 09:17

@Decaffe 10dpo is very early and many go on to get BFP. Are you feeling symptoms?
I'm 10dpo today also. Trying sooo hard not to read into symptoms but I had light cramping the last few days. I'm constipated (sorry tmi) and very bloated. AF due any day from tomorrow. I've vowed not to test till Thursday if AF hasn't arrived by then....

alexalexalex18 · 13/12/2021 09:13

@Sjmc16
Looks positive to me!
Congrats!!!!šŸŽ‰

Decaffe · 13/12/2021 09:12

That looks very encouraging indeed @Sjmc16 Smile

10dpo here, BFN, as usual....

Cmacq32 · 13/12/2021 08:47

@Sjmc16 congratulations that looks like a positive to me. Can you pop out and get a better test? 14dpo you should get a stronger line with a better test. That's what I'd do!

Sjmc16 · 13/12/2021 08:25

Hi all, thank you all for this thread, I’ve been lurking and it keep me sane.
I’m 14 DPO give or take and have had a number of symptoms the past week, cramps, vivid dreams, and just feeling like something was different! I tested early and nothing but tested with a cheapie this morning and thiiiiiink this is positive? I’m trying to just stay calm and test tomorrow morning with a first response, but if anyone who’s used these strips and got a positive let me know what they think that would be amazing! It’s going to be a LONG day! Xxx

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frenchie4002 · 13/12/2021 07:46

@newjourney21 I fell pregnant after I had one normal period after coming off the pill x

Whoknew22 · 13/12/2021 07:19

@newjourney21 awwwww I feel you. I came off the pill in September and got my first period in November. I had terrible, pregnancy like symptoms when I stopped taking it and really thought I was pregnant. I continually got BFN and was confused as no period. I did start using ovulAtion sticks, just the cheapie ones and they helped massively as made things a bit clearer for me.

Everyone is so different though and some people fall pregnant straight away so don’t lose hope. Unfortunately my periods still seem pretty irregular for now. I guess this is my second month trying after my first period but I seem to be ovulating just now again. Ovulating on CD30 ish so things are obviously all still a bit all over the place.

Well done on everyone’s BFP. Amazing news. Xx

Cupcakee · 13/12/2021 01:25

I hope this will be the best Christmas ever for everyone Xmas Smile

alexalexalex18 · 13/12/2021 00:04

@newjourney21
I don’t think you ovulate right after you go off the pill, it takes a couple of months for the body to get back on track.
I suggest making an appointment with your gyno to check everything is alright, I know hormones can go cray.
I’ve been through it.
I also know that you might release more than one egg per month when you start ovulating again after you stop the pill 😁

Cmacq32 · 12/12/2021 21:04

@newjourney21 there is nothing worse than not really knowing when your due 😩 hopfully you will get a BFP in a day or 2. šŸ¤žšŸ¤ž

Purple29 · 12/12/2021 20:43

@alexalexalex18 there usually wouldn't be but because I had some heavy spotting after the bfp it could be a chemical pregnancy (horrible term, basically an early mc) so the early pregnancy tell you to wait 2 weeks and test again. That gives hormones time to settle if it has been that, or if its just spotting (also common in early pregnancy) it would still come back positive. So it's like another TWW!!!

newjourney21 · 12/12/2021 20:41

@Cmacq32 not 100% sure. Flo app predicted Cd28, but my first month off the pill so I know that it might take a bit longer. I've been having cramps on and off for a week now so keep thinking it's AF then nothing! I had EWCM CD14 so assuming I ovulated after this I would've thought I'd get a BFP by now so ruling myself out this month

Cmacq32 · 12/12/2021 20:38

@newjourney21 what day is AF due usually?

newjourney21 · 12/12/2021 20:29

I'm CD30, no sign of AF but having AF like symptoms (cramping mainly) tested yesterday and today and BFN. I have been so bloated all weekend which is strange for me but still nothing.

Just want AF to turn up now to put me out of my misery so I can start again! Sad

frenchie4002 · 12/12/2021 20:16

Congrats @Purple29! Xxx

Anyone else only just embarking on the 2 week wait and wants to keep me company?!

alexalexalex18 · 12/12/2021 19:56

@Purple29
Fingers crossed!! I didn’t even think there’s doubts after a bfp :))

Purple29 · 12/12/2021 19:08

Well its been a week since I got my first bfp, and I have stopped spotting so i thought I'd test again. I know the early pregnancy unit told me to wait 2 weeks but it was torture.
Still got 2 lovely lines, so fingers crossed it stays!!!!
I'll use the expensive test next week again. I'm really hoping it was implantation.

Cmacq32 · 12/12/2021 13:47

Ah I see from previous posts these are good ones. I have only ever used cheapie from asda šŸ˜‚

How did I know? Well I had cramping 8&9dpo with each preganancy (only spotted with 1) headache, stuffy nose and fatigue. I think when you know your own body, you just know! There's a reason women keep testing even when you get a BFN, that's because you know something doesn't feel right. For me the fatigue is So bad, it's obvious!

alexalexalex18 · 12/12/2021 13:34

@Cmacq32
I have friends who also say they knew they were pregnant.
HOW?? How do you know?? šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

alexalexalex18 · 12/12/2021 13:33

@Cmacq32
I just have this first response one but I might get some cheap ones from Boots today.

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Cmacq32 · 12/12/2021 13:29

@alexalexalex18 with all 3 pregnancies I knew I was pregnant around 11dpo but I got a BFN on day, 11, 12, 13 and got the BFP on day 14. I'm going to hold out and see if AF arrives instead this time!
Have you got any tests at home?

alexalexalex18 · 12/12/2021 13:16

@Cmacq32

Do day 9/10 for us. Should we test with cheapies? šŸ˜‚

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