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Entering into 8th cycle..

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Indianna2006 · 20/11/2021 14:27

Entering into 8th cycle…ttc number 2.

Feeling defeated and deflated even though I know odds are still on our side really..
I already have a DD who is 3 years 9 months so very much feel time is of the essence. Just desperate for it to happen now.

Feel like either people seem to fall super fast or seem like 12 months plus and don’t find many “in the middle” types.

Ive fallen pregnant 1st cycle before. And then DD took 7 cycles. So hence why this failed 7th cycle seems like a miserable milestone!

Anyone welcome to keep me company. Sucks 😫

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OK92 · 19/09/2024 22:11

@FlyOnTheWall89 @Indianna2006
Oops sorry for the very slow reply! Gosh I can't imagine being heavily pregnant with such a little one at home too - well done! Will you have some maternity leave to relax etc before your planned section (if you're back to work that is)?

I am good - my youngest is coming up to 2 in November which is just so crazy. Can't believe how quickly the time has gone...she is a real wild card compared to my first and is constantly keeping me on my toes or telling me off 😂

Indianna2006 · 28/08/2024 16:47

@FlyOnTheWall89 lovely to hear you’re doing so well. Time really does fly!
my little one is 16 months now and a world wind and my two absolutely keep me busy.

my planned c section was lovely!! Very calm and dignified way to give birth.
lots of luck for the last few weeks for you. Hope you’ve been coping in the heat!

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 28/08/2024 13:17

Haven't been on here for agessss but thought I'd post as I know I used to trawl through threads looking for good outcomes from scary starts. @OK92 the first 14/16 weeks were pretty brutal.... the tiredness and nausea alongside looking after a 13 month old was just SO hard. It was survival. But after I turned a corner and got a bit more into second trimester, it has been all great. I'm 31 weeks now. I'll have a planned c section towards the end of October (after I had a c section with my 1st daughter) and I'll be back in that newborn world, building up to it all becoming a bit easier again, which it does feel now that my first is on one nap, sleeps so well, walks and talks a bit and can understand so much. It is wild how life works and not for a minute did I think I'd have 2 20 months apart! Hope you're all well! Xxx

OK92 · 09/03/2024 13:37

@FlyOnTheWall89 wow congratulations!! So great it happened quickly this time. How are you feeling so far?

@Indianna2006 yes the washing is never ending 😵‍💫 defo will wait a while before making any decisions, and until my youngest is potty trained / easier to cope with 😂

Indianna2006 · 01/03/2024 08:14

@FlyOnTheWall89 oh wow congratulations. Bet it was nice to not do all that waiting too!! See it’s such fluke sometimes honestly. I’ll never understand ttc.

but yes I can imagine 3/4 is a lot. I mean 2 now my little girl is crawling and pulling up. I have barely any time for anything. I cannot imagine having another one or two in tow. And the washing…don’t get me started on that 😂😂😂😂😂😂 !
NEVER ENDING.

I am done with two. Perfectly happy with 2 girls. And there bond is so cute.

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 01/03/2024 07:04

@OK92 arh so nice to hear everything is well!

I'm one of 4 too and can't imagine having just 2... but equally I can see that it's alottttt of work. Maybe you could leave a bit more of a gap and see if the yearning is still there.

I do actually have some news. My daughter just turned 1 and I'm pregnant, only just..,, around 5.5/6 weeks .... it happened quickly this time 👀 and I'm still breastfeeding a little. Keeping everything crossed that it works out.

Xx

OK92 · 01/03/2024 06:41

@Indianna2006 @FlyOnTheWall89 @Kiaa

Sorry for my very slow reply!! Lovely hearing everyone's updates and glad everyone is doing well. All good here too - little one is 15 months now and a gorgeous little force of nature - starting to properly play much more with older sister too.

I think we are done with two but I can't get a niggling thought out of my head that I'll regret not having one more...I am one of three and DH is one of four so we are used to big families. Although not sure I have it in me to go through pregnancy, newborn days and also TTC again 🙈

Kiaa · 12/01/2024 19:34

Happy new years everyone 🎉
@FlyOnTheWall89
So glad to hear everything is going well they grow way to fast ! So exciting to hear about plans for baby 2 hopefully is easier for you.Fingers crossed for you. & how wonderful to hear about your holiday away 🥰

@Indianna2006
So happy to hear all is great. How special is the sister bond with your 5 year old it's so beautiful seeing how much love and happiness it brings to the family 💕

Bub is 16 months she loves to dance and is cheeky as ! Her big sister is obsessed with her, & she says that's her best friend every day there bond is so precious.
We are happy with just the 2 girls.
My 5 year old just graduated preschool & starts kindergarten soon where did the time go 🥺
We also went on our first family holiday on a Disney cruise 🙂

FlyOnTheWall89 · 12/01/2024 18:04

@Indianna2006 arh that's so nice to hear. The last few months have definitely felt more challenging in some ways as she's always moving, but also so so fun now she is says hi and dadda and waving and pointing at everything. We have gone away on a family trip in the sun and it's just heaven. So special and all we dreamed of.

So pleased your little one is happy and loves her big sister and vice versa! It feels like yesterday when we were battling the monthly sadness. Hoping it doesn't take as long but equally fully prepared for it.... I'm a bit more distracted for now thankfully! X

Indianna2006 · 12/01/2024 13:28

@FlyOnTheWall89 hi!! Omg almost a year! That’s madness isn’t it. My little girl is now 9 months and crawling and just into everything. She’s the happiest little soul!

oh exciting about thinking about baby no 2. Hopefully you might full quicker this time and there is the hope you know you did last time which helps a little!!

I am done and dusted with my two girls. Feel really lucky and blessed to have them two. And my oldest is SO good with my little one and is like a little mother hen.
I had needn’t of ever worried about that 5 year age gap. It’s been wonderful 🫶

hope everyone else is doing really well?

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 12/01/2024 08:31

Girls on this group, how is everyone? We are thinking about baby #2 now! My girl is a year next month!

OK92 · 19/04/2023 18:40

@Indianna2006 congrats 💖 hope you are recovering well and enjoying the new addition!

FlyOnTheWall89 · 15/04/2023 21:11

@Indianna2006 haha yes so nice to put my old clothes back on and do my own shoes and bend in half without feeling like I might throw up whatever is in my stomach. Keep up with the meds and I'm sure it will get better and better in the coming days. 💕

@Emmalou0607 hi! This is an old group from when we were all trying around the same time and most of not all of us have babies now, one born just on Friday and my little girl 6 weeks ago. Try the group trying to conceive 1+ part 4 I think it's called. My brief advice would be to call your gp and say you've been trying for a year and start getting your bloods done: day 3 and day 21 and your partner needs a semen analysis. That's going to give you a good insight into things. If you're worried about your egg stores, get a private blood test for AMH. Alternatively go private and get a package deal where they'll do all the above and a scan for a price which varies across the country. Best of luck - it feels like forever in the moment but you are so so so likely to get there, might just be taking a while. It took us 15 cycles x

Emmalou0607 · 15/04/2023 12:04

Hey, hope it's okay if I join!

I'm on cycle 9 (5dpo) TTC for number 1 and definitely feeling very deflated at the moment. We'd put it off for a while over covid and then a couple of things like destination family wedding and running a marathon b it feel so stupid now cause I worry if there is something wrong it's just delayed the whole process 😔

Indianna2006 · 15/04/2023 11:59

@FlyOnTheWall89 thanks I will do. Today pain has peaked a bit more 24 hours post op. But I expected that a bit. Slow and steady. And hopefully each day is a little easier.
looking forward to getting my body back at some point and feeling semi normal 🥰🤞🏼🌈

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 15/04/2023 11:53

@Indianna2006 congratulations 🙌🏻🫶🏼. Enjoy all those little snuggles. Stay mobile and know it will get easier each day. Rest up and look after yourself and get everyone to lift and get you stuff for as long as you can xx

Kiaa · 15/04/2023 10:26

@Indianna2006 congratulations Mama
Enjoy theses precious moments
Hope your recovery is going well 💕

Indianna2006 · 15/04/2023 03:50

@OK92 @Kiaa @FlyOnTheWall89

all did go okay! Baby girl was morning this morning 09.06am. 6lb 14 oz. She’s perfect 🥰🥰

Im taking it slow and Altho I wasn’t a major fan of the actual surgery afterwards has been better than expected. An am more able and mobile than my vaginal delivery. So 🤞🏼🤞🏼to smooth recovery.

can’t believe she’s here 😍🌈 my second rainbow baby x

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 15/04/2023 03:38

@Indianna2006 thinking of you! Hope all went well x

OK92 · 14/04/2023 18:36

@Indianna2006 omg good luck todays the day! Hope your little girl is safe and snuggled in your arms 🥰

@FlyOnTheWall89@ @Kiaa hope you are both well! It does feel crazy to think of the heartache we were feeling and where we are all now. Little one is coming up to 5 months now and is such a bundle of joy so far!

Indianna2006 · 07/04/2023 22:18

@FlyOnTheWall89 oh good I’m so glad! I will hope for the same. First few days rough. Take it slow. An each day gets better hopefully. I am soo nervous and with h these Docter strikes going on next week hoping it still goes ahead. I haven’t heard it won’t so fingers crossed 🤞🏼🤞🏼

After so long and going through 3 miscarriages and I just have so much fear about losing the baby last minute and I want her out so she’s safe if you know what I mean. Ugh. Such a worry isn’t it.

Anyway…hopefully a week today and she will be here in my arms.

I shall update you all 🥰🥰🤞🏼🤞🏼

My DD is BEYOND excited and I think my heart might explode when she finally gets to meet her baby sister.

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 07/04/2023 07:31

@Indianna2006 honestly it's been amazing - I feel really good. Day 1 was the hardest and it's got gradually better. I would say do not get behind in your pain relief ever, even if you're feeling better. Mobilise yourself - even though it's painful and incredibly hard just to sit up in those first days, once you're up, it's much less painful and a bit of movement really helps. Good luck and enjoy all those buzzy hormones, they're just the best. Feels like yesterday that we were all deep in the struggle - how life has changed! 🫶🏼 xx

Kiaa · 06/04/2023 10:08

@Indianna2006
So very glad to hear 😀
Hope everything goes smoothly for you and not so painful recovery X
It went so fast ! Soon she will be in your arms so exciting
My little one turned 7 months not so little anymore 😭 not ready for her to grow up

Indianna2006 · 06/04/2023 09:04

@Kiaa yess good 😊 I am having my little girl next Friday via elective c section 😬🥰🥰 the nerves are now kicking in. Can’t believe I am almost at true finish line and she will be here. It’s felt such a journey.

@FlyOnTheWall89 how did you find your recovery from your emergency one?

@OK92 hope you’re well

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Kiaa · 06/04/2023 08:45

@Indianna2006 @FlyOnTheWall89 @OK92 how is everything going for you all 🥰

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