Conceiving after M/C

Hi @Tina12745 yes I am doing great!! I’m 23+ weeks feeling lots of little flutters and movements and my 20 week scan went well. I hope you are keeping well? It hadn’t been plain sailing I started to bleed after confirmation scan from 11 weeks to around 14 weeks but once that resolved everything else has been going well. We can hardly believe it!!

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@Tina12745Congratulations on your bfp!! I have fingers and toes crossed. I’m currently 7+6 I’ve my midwife booking appt on Monday. I’d an early scan at 5+6 as I was so anxious and there was a strong heartbeat and no cysts seen in my womb so I’m putting that down to my weight loss. I’m anxious everyday and I don’t think that will change but I hope for you that this is a sticky one 🤞🏻🥰

Hi ladies, please can I join?

So sorry we’re all here and for all your losses. It’s seriously tough. I had an interstitial ectopic in February, rushed in for emergency surgery & came out minus my right tube and part of uterus. Had to stop TTC for 6 months to let it all heal. Then fell again straight away in September, had a MC at 6.3. Have had one period since.

Am in 2WW now, no idea when I ovulated as not tracking.. trying to be relaxed about it... but think AF due early next week. This sounds like tempting fate but I’m pretty certain I’m pregnant now. Haven’t tested. Boobs are seriously painful, had spotting on Weds which only happens if I’m pregnant, and already getting that awful feeling in the morning 🤢

Will wait until Monday to test I think. My dad is arriving from Australia on Sunday, haven’t seen him in 3 years & he’s desperate to be a grandad... would be lovely if this was the one so he could share in it all but trying to be pragmatic too as it’s so early. Can’t help wishing for it though!

@NMH19 my advice is to keep telling yourself that “in this moment, I am pregnant”... learning to live in the present rather than letting fear of what could happen in the future really helped me. X

@LittleMysSister thank you, it’s still SO early and I wish everyone on here only positive vibes too. x

It’s hard to get excited as it hurts if it doesn’t work out.

No advice from me @NMH19 but just wanted to say congratulations on your bfp :) Hope all goes well xx

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I would love to join this thread. I had early MC last April then July (2020) 4+5 and 5+1 respectively. I’d no treatment but went private and had a scan to be diagnosed with PCOS and adneomyosis with cysts in my womb. I began my weight loss journey was on contraception for 6 months, lost 3 stone, stopped the pill in October and I’d a BFP yesterday. I am really anxious as AF was not due to today and it is still so early. Has anyone any do’s or donts for these first early days/ weeks?

Got my period back yesterday, 32 days after MC bleeding started so not really delayed at all.

Feeling a bit down as I'd somehow convinced myself I'd be one of those who manage to fall pregnant straight after a MC, but also sort of glad to be starting afresh. Will start doing my OPKs again once bleeding stops.

Fingers crossed for you @Tina12745, you never know :) Every month is a chance x

I had medical management for a MMC 2 weeks ago today. Tested earlier and my pregnancy test showed a very very faint line. I'm just wondering when to start TTC and whether I will of ovulated or not yet....thanks

Interested to see the answers to your question @Bridgey8

I am waiting for mine to return - would usually be due on any day now but I read somewhere that the miscarriage becomes CD1, which would mean I'm another week away...if it comes after 4 weeks???

My MC was early though so I am assuming it will be 4 weeks and not longer, but no clue really.

Hi guys... I've finally tested negative after the surgery... how soon did you get your periods after a negative test? Xxx

Hey Tina, still plodding along here.

Haven't done any testing or anything this month due to the MC, gonna wait until my next period comes to start all that up again. Can't wait for it to arrive tbh, I feel like I can't relax until it does as I'm still having weird twinges and pains.

Roll on December cycle!!

@SareBear87 Unfortunately my urine was still testing positive 6 days after my bleeding began, which is why I ended up having an internal scan to check for an ectopic. BUT got my results back and I'm back to pre-pregnant HCG levels now :) A big relief.

@Tina12745 I am the same with not knowing where to start with this month. No idea whether I have/will ovulate this cycle or whether my period will come as expected. Dreading having to go back to the forced DTD during fertile week when I'm back tracking again next month, I found it really stressful last time!

I would like to join, I'm sorry we all find ourselves in this position but sending positive thoughts for current/upcoming cycles.

I had a missed miscarriage with my first pregnancy in August at 10 weeks stopped developing at 6 ) but between waiting ages for medical management and then for a negative test, I've had only one full cycle so far. Currently on cycle two. The waiting is so difficult, hope we all get positives soon

Wishing you all so much luck!

I had my 3rd MC in August, I'm now 11.5 weeks pregnant. Don't lose hope! X

I would also like to join if okay?

M/C at 5.5 weeks - still processing, was a lot more upset by it than I thought I would be. First baby and first time conceiving so obviously was so excited and still feeling a bit shit but getting better. My colleague had a beautiful baby girl the day I miscarried so whilst I am so happy for her it does hurt.

Onto the next month though.