Remember Remember The Month of November.. 🎆 THREAD 2

I've also been reading the December thread to mentally get myself ready to join there, for some reason that makes me feel better.

@TeacherMama91 i'm in the same boat as you. 10 dpo and right behind you. Last month I had all the weird side effects, but BFN. This time, I had some cramping, but very little else (weird lump in throat feeling, and oily skin since 5 DPO. Also realising that I have way more CM than usual this month, especially today, and feeling a little on edge/queasy right now. I haven't tested yet this cycle, and i'm at my in laws for the week, so I don't want to get a false negative/get upset here. Not sure if I should wait till AF is due on Friday from the premom app, or maybe i'll buy and test Wednesday. I think that after last month's BFN, i'm scared to symptom spot at all/get disappointed. I found out about DD at 6 weeks, so that line was very bold, so even taking a test and it being very faint would be a little strange/I don't think i'd believe it.

Thank yous for your kind words ❤️

@BH1926 and @lottieb92 sorry to hear that for yous, so disappointing hopefully next month is your month.

I’m currently 11dpo and still getting bfn :( I feel so sick today, have had a headache that won’t shift and feeling nauseous in waves. It’s getting my hopes up but I could just genuinely be getting sick I got my bfp with my ds at 12 dpo but was getting faint lines at 11dpo. Losing hope :(

@BH1926 thinking about you and your husband. A CP must be horribly devastating. Sending hugs you way, and big hopes for the next time. Xx

I’m 10 dpo today. I go back and forth on what this cycle will bring (likely af). By some miracle I have peed on no sticks this time!! Way less symptoms than last month, I’ve been generally crampy, feel bloated today though so guessing af is due. Only weird thing is I’ve been waking up for a week now with a weird lump in my throat feeling, and cramps. At 8 dpo I had cramps that I had to breathe through for a minute which was odd. Maybe my stomach was just being weird after a flight though. For some reason I feel like this isn’t the cycle that will do it, so I’m just going to hope for bfps for whoever is left this cycle and let’s see what will happen👍

@BH1926 @lottieb92 so sad for you guys. Big hugs. It’s hard enough getting that BFP, I imagine it is devastating. Big girl pants all round. See you in December thread x

@ohmybaby I can def see a line! That's pretty much how mind looked last Monday. I did a CB digital on the Tuesday to put myself out of my misery.

So sorry @BH1926 - I don’t know what to say 😔 just sending you hugs and praying for a better month for you next month.

I felt the same after every month on each thread @Decaffe totally get where you’re at 😞 it’s so crap. TTC sucks.

I’ve just done a second test today after a 4-5 hour hold and it’s faint but there. Hope I’m lucky enough for things to progress. Top is yesterday, bottom today. Xx

Really sorry to hear @BH1926. Sending lots of love ❤️

Ahhh @lottieb92, I'm really sorry huni.
I love your mindset though, enjoy the good times now, treat yourself, have the bestest wedding, and I'm sure you won't have to wait long for a BFP! xxx

@BH1926 I am absolutely heartbroken for you. So so sorry that you're going through this. Sending you a big hug and thinking of you today!

So sorry for your loss@BH1926 💔sending lots of love!

Hi all! Congratulations for all of your BFP’s! I can’t keep up with how many there have been amazing!

Sadly, my tiny line didn’t turn into anything stronger and I then got my AF 5 days later than expected. Tough times, but I’m onto celebrating and looking forward to my wedding! 😊🤍✨

I can’t believe how devastated I have felt the past few hours since but a day or two of self care, and I put my big girl pants on (aka period pants lol)…. next time might just be our time ladies.

So sorry for your loss @BH1926, it’s just devastating, I really feel for you ❤️

@BH1926 I am so sorry to hear this :( Not really anything I can say. Hope you're ok x

@ohmybaby looks good to me!

Just an update from me unfortunately I'm having another Chemical pregnancy 😭
Spotting started on Saturday followed by actually bleeding. FRER line now fading and CB saying not pregnant. I'm beyond gutted 😢 I thought after CP last month and not testing til period was due this month would save any heartache but unfortunately it's came a week after my BFP. I have to call and cancel my first midwife appt but can't bring myself to do it just yet.
We were away for the weekend (first time in 2 years just us) to watch the rugby and I went to loo just before kick off and started spotting. I tried to push it to back of my mind trying to tell myself spotting can happen but i knew that was the start of the end. We are both devastated but in a weird way I'm glad we were away as got to cry and comfort each other without DD wondering why mummy and daddy are upset. 💔

I've been feeling quite dizzy last night and today has anyone had that with CP before?

Don’t worry @Decaffe , I’ve got stark white negative too! We’ll get our BFP, I’m sure of it :)

I’m on a new cycle already, day 7 to be exact - I reckon ovulation is going to be here sooner that CD15. Nevertheless we are starting SMEP as of today/tomorrow! Hope that’s enough 😬

Ahh @Danani look at you, from “I’m out
this month” to 4 weeks preggo! I’d call GP after the missed period date and go from there 😀I don’t even know what exactly happens! Probably they’ll book you in for first scan :) Exciting times!

Hope everyone has a lovely week, I’ll be jumping between this and December threads xxx

Really sorry to hear that AF has arrived for some of you and some of you have BFN. I’m keeping all my fingers and toes crossed that December will be the month for you and you get the best Christmas gift with a BFP! 💕✨

Just want to say thank you all for keeping me sane during this journey! Really has helped to have like minded people to chat to ❤️

AF due tomorrow or the next day and a lovely stark white negative to start my week. Yay. And I feel like I'm going to cry about everything so period is definitely on its way 🙃

OMG how fab!!! Congratulations @HA22 and @ohmybaby!!! So so chuffed for both of you!

Really sorry for everyone who got AF or BFN, I know the feeling and it sucks. Sending you a big big hug!!! At least the December bus is full of supportive and wonderful women, so you will definitely be in good company and I have no doubt there will be many more BFPs to come!!! I will check in every once in a while, if you don’t mind me, because I am so invested in all of your journeys, especially all of you from the October thread and I have everything crossed for many Christmas positives! 🍀🍀🍀

I did a digital yesterday and got 1-2 weeks! Which made it a bit more real! However, if I count from first day of last period I am 4 weeks 2 days today. And doesn’t that just sound absolutely WILD?! 😳
AF was predicted for Thu/Fri this week, I hope I have no nasty surprises.
After that I guess I should call the GP? 👀

@ohmybaby oh my! I would be so shocked if that was an evap line, it looks good to me but I’m no expert! I think I’d be straight down the supermarket in the morning for more tests 🤞🏼

Congratulations @HA22 such strong lines!

@ohmybaby fingers crossed it's not a evap! 🤞🏻

Oh wow I am practically the only poster on this thread without a BFP 😬

In my excitement I didn’t actually put the photo 😅😅😅