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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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calimc83 · 07/01/2022 15:04

@Skl2021 walked into Boots....and headed straight for them! But not used one yet 🙈 need to hold out. How u doing? X

Hopingforarainbow27 · 07/01/2022 14:49

So sorry @Ganesh2022

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Skl2021 · 07/01/2022 14:46

@Ganesh2022 sorry to hear that. Is this your first miscarriage? Have u been told your options? Yes sometimes you do just have a gut feeling. I had one when I went to my scan but I had bleeding on and off. I had a natural miscarriage at 12 weeks. X

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Ganesh2022 · 07/01/2022 14:37

*Just wanted to be mindful to not upset anyone as I know how horrible it can be reading something that makes your stomach sink--I know loads of people who've had zero sickness and have been totally fine (and sadly the opposite) so did not mean to say it's a sign of anything gone wrong or that symptoms are an indication either way. Just, for me, combined with a gut feeling that something wasn't ok, it made me investigate as was very, very different to my previous pregnancies.

Ganesh2022 · 07/01/2022 14:27

Thanks, I'm really not. I'll admit I haven't yet read the whole thread so not sure where everyone is at. I had a gut feeling that things weren't progressing (no sickness, which is my norm, and...just a feeling) and sadly was confirmed yesterday. Feeling worried about how it'll be managed and also at 38 plus hearing the clock loud and clear. Sending much love to everyone who is struggling.

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Skl2021 · 07/01/2022 14:04

@calimc83 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 were has that willpower gone?!

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Skl2021 · 07/01/2022 14:04

@Ganesh2022 of course you can are you ok x

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calimc83 · 07/01/2022 12:07

@Skl2021 I caved and bought the tests....🙈 x

Ganesh2022 · 07/01/2022 10:11

Can I join? Gutted.

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Skl2021 · 07/01/2022 09:46

@PamelaDoov I think that's pretty normal. It comes in waves. I still have good and bad days 3 months on. You will get there. 💞 X

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PamelaDoov · 07/01/2022 09:44

@Skl2021 thanks. Feeling a bit down about it all again today after a better day yesterday.

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Skl2021 · 07/01/2022 09:33

@PamelaDoov 🤞 it all comes on time for you! Yes just keep an eye on everything make sure your tests are negative so u don't get mixed up if you have a new pregnancy x

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PamelaDoov · 07/01/2022 00:52

But I won’t do anything until I get a negative PT and I know it’s all out of my system.

PamelaDoov · 07/01/2022 00:52

When I had DS I didn’t bleed for very long after, and got my period just over a month after he was born. Which means i ovulated only a few weeks after his birth. I’m hoping it’ll be the same this time.

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Skl2021 · 06/01/2022 23:33

@PamelaDoov I had a MMC at 12 weeks last October. I bled for 2/3 weeks. Then ovulated 2 weeks after that. Just watch u don't get false opk readings if you still have HCG in your system x

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PamelaDoov · 06/01/2022 23:23

Could I ask how long it took people to stop bleeding (and ovulate if you noticed this before period) after their MC?
I’m so impatient and so desperate to try again, I feel like I’ll be miserable until the bleeding stops.

calimc83 · 06/01/2022 22:49

@Skl2021 😆😆😆🙈 I need to...x

calimc83 · 06/01/2022 22:48

@Hopingforarainbow27 everything crossed xx

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Skl2021 · 06/01/2022 22:42

@calimc83 your doing well empty that basket!! Not much longer to go now 🤞x

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 06/01/2022 22:41

Hopefully by this time next week I will know! And maybe you will too 🌈🌈

calimc83 · 06/01/2022 22:36

@Hopingforarainbow27 I've never tracked my luteal phase until my MC...I don't think it's normally been so short so hoping it was just hormones being weird..Not long then for you! 🙈 x

Hopingforarainbow27 · 06/01/2022 22:34

My luteal phase is always 13 days so I'm sure mine will come Wednesday! Which means this cycle would be 29 days which it has never been! I started the Chinese herbs after my last period and it brought ovulation forward like 7 days! So I'm hoping all good signs but also don't want to get my hopes up and also don't want to be negative lol

calimc83 · 06/01/2022 22:31

@Skl2021 I have frers in my basket online waiting to check out but so far I'm holding off ordering...😫😆 x

calimc83 · 06/01/2022 22:30

@Hopingforarainbow27 ahh ok. I'm trying to hold out for AF as well which is apparently due next Fri but have a feeling it'll turn up whenever it wants as my cycle has been so weird..my first AF turned up 9 days after ovulation which isn't great 😬 x

Hopingforarainbow27 · 06/01/2022 21:33

@calimc83 it's like a lotion! I know 🤦🏽‍♀️ I usually do have "pasty" cm after ovulation but not this amount!

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