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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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calimc83 · 10/01/2022 14:07

@Skl2021 I'd step away if you can...give it 5 days maybe?? And DTD x3 over those 5 days and then maybe an OPK after the 5days? X

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Skl2021 · 10/01/2022 13:19

@taykitty20 I tried them with my first child but like u say so expensive for how many I'm using!
@calimc83 how can they all be basically the same 🤦 yes bottom looks a smidge darker maybe but I just took it! My app is still saying the same! Yes IV tried all time of day and multiple times a day! I can't do this no more!! X

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calimc83 · 10/01/2022 13:08

@Skl2021 I'm not surprised you're loosing your shit! I'd say the bottom pink one is pretty dark...what time are u testing and after a decent hold? X

calimc83 · 10/01/2022 12:58

@Ganesh2022 yep.....so much! I know...it's shit. Took my 4year old to her swimming lesson yest. Was chatting to one of the other parents who told me she was due in May ( I was due May) she had a little bump 🙈 I managed to not breakdown or tell her the details of my MC ( I seem to have developed verbal diaorreha over it). Counting it as a win as I managed not to get overwhelmed....urgh it's a long process this recovery x

taykitty20 · 10/01/2022 12:56

Have you tried the digital ones? Expensive but I found them easier to deal with

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Skl2021 · 10/01/2022 12:41

Every god Dam test is high from cd 7 to now cd 18 I'm. Loosing. My. Shit 🤯🤦 why won't u change 😭 have I ovulated?! am I ovulating?! Were are you!!!

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
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Skl2021 · 10/01/2022 12:35

@Ganesh2022 mine took around 5 weeks to come back but I waited until I had first period before we tried again x

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Ganesh2022 · 10/01/2022 12:26

*God knows.

Ganesh2022 · 10/01/2022 12:26

@calimc83 Thanks...so much bleeding :( The things women go through and are expected to carry on huh...? Have avoided the school run but will have to go eventually and the thought of having to smile and say "Christmas was great!"...ugh! Of course, everyone is doing the same, and good knows what anyone else goes through but...ugh.

calimc83 · 10/01/2022 12:19

@Ganesh2022 around 4 weeks..wasn't long. Had around 3 weeks of bleeding. 5 days break and then ovulated, then AF returned for ages..I was told not to try before first AF but I was naughty and did the once and then panicked I'd get an infection but all was ok 🙈 x

Ganesh2022 · 10/01/2022 11:53

Can I ask roughly how long it's taken people's periods to come back? So scared it'll be a long drawn out affair when every month feels precious. Has anyone tried before first period?

calimc83 · 10/01/2022 10:29

@Hopingforarainbow27 same! Fingers crossed for us xx

Hopingforarainbow27 · 10/01/2022 10:14

@Ganesh2022 I know it's the only way I can cope. Just telling myself it's not this month.

Ganesh2022 · 10/01/2022 10:03

@Hopingforarainbow27 I admire your willpower; I hope your gut is wrong. I always thought, sure, other people say their gut was wrong, but mine won't be, I'll know for sure. And I didn't. Fingers crossed.

Hopingforarainbow27 · 10/01/2022 09:52

@calimc83 I didn't test. I've decided I'm not going to as I'm convinced I'm not pregnant so just going to keep it that way until af shows

calimc83 · 09/01/2022 20:05

@Skl2021 everything crossed for you!! X

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Skl2021 · 09/01/2022 19:31

@calimc83 I tried a pic but you can hardly tell so didn't bother and my app has gone to shit and is saying there all low it's like not picking them up like it used to! Will see what tomorrow brings 🤦😂 I think it is a big darker today so if tomorrow is darker again then we're onto something 🤞 if it's the same then I give up 🤣 x

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calimc83 · 09/01/2022 18:36

@Hopingforarainbow27 eek! Good luck..let us know how u get on 💖 x
@Skl2021 Ha ha I'm trying to hold out as long as I can..can't face the disappointment 🙈😩..have u a pic to compare them? X

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Skl2021 · 09/01/2022 18:03

@calimc83 oh your doing well then I would have tested by now 😂🙈 I usually get to about day 7 and cave! Yes took one today might be darker I cant tell anymore I give up 🤦 loosing my shit with them!
@Hopingforarainbow27 good luck if u test 🤞✨

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 09/01/2022 17:59

I just got weird twinges (like throbbing) on the right side. I think I'm 10/11 dpo. Am I reading in to everything. I might test tomorrow

calimc83 · 09/01/2022 17:28

@20viona well...I'm hoping to hold out till next Sunday if I can...famous last words! 😆🙈 x

calimc83 · 09/01/2022 17:27

@Skl2021 9 DPO today..hoping to at least get to tomorrow 🙈 are u still doing the OPKs? X

20viona · 09/01/2022 16:20

@calimc83 when are you planning to test? I'm hoping to hold off until next Friday at least.

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Skl2021 · 09/01/2022 15:54

@20viona good luck 🙌🤞 not long to wait now 🤞✨
@calimc83 hopefully it was just your body trying to get back to normal last cycle! They can be all over the place as I'm finding out 😂🙈 your 7 dpo today arnt you? As long as it's over 10 I don't think it's a problem x

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calimc83 · 09/01/2022 15:10

@Skl2021 yep will be 2nd one! No it was really odd..had about 3 weeks of bleeding with MC then about 5/6 days of non bleeding ( then ovulated) then AF rocked up about 8 days later which is making me panic about a short luteal phase now 😐 xx