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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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Skl2021 · 12/11/2021 08:54

@Rachae lovely lines 🙌 that's good news that there stronger than previous ✨💕 x

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Ladylou17 · 12/11/2021 07:46

@Rachae congratulations lovely a solid line there xx

Rachae · 12/11/2021 06:54

Morning 🙂 I cant believe it but I can see line progression! We've never tested like this before so I'm praying that line gets darker. I don't think I've seen a line as dark as this one (even tho still faint!) across any of my MCs, even at 5 weeks. Still early days of course and anything can happen xx

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Skl2021 · 11/11/2021 14:39

@altrajuce93 welcome! Sorry your in this group also. Try and stay positive ✨💕 it's a horrible situation to be in. X
@Hhdxx hopefully everything is ok if there's no bleeding. I know you must be going out fo your mind hopefully the gp will do something to reassure you. I tried getting an appointment before and can't 😩

@Ladylou17 maybe your cycle is still off? If your worried tho maybe ring doctors. Might just take a little.longer to get back to normal 🤞 x

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Rachae · 11/11/2021 14:33

@Hhdxx it also could be that each test has a different tolerance level. Have you checked that? Some tests are way more sensitive than the others... I'm willing to bet ClearBlue has a lower tolerance level than Boots.

@Ladylou17 aww no sorry to hear that - a bit early for AF though? xx

Ladylou17 · 11/11/2021 14:13

Started bleeding :( really worrying as only cycle day 18 and early ovulation this month. Do you think I should see gp or just write this month off. So stressful!xx

Hhdxx · 11/11/2021 14:06

Haha I've just tried calling the GP and I'm 20th in the queue 😂

Hhdxx · 11/11/2021 13:56

@Rachae thanks for your reply!

The boots one was from my FMU but I guess it's not as strong.

I might ring my GP and see what they say. They're really difficult to get through to though. X

Rachae · 11/11/2021 13:48

@Hhdxx If the clear blue says 1-2 weeks, then that's the perfect timeline for where you're at. I would think that the Boots strength one could be to do with the fact it's a cheapy and also if you've taken it past first morning urine it will be lighter.

Can you ask your GP for a blood test a few days apart - for reassurance? I'm going to do this from 4 weeks, as then I'll know sooner either way and won't get attached.

xx

Rachae · 11/11/2021 13:46

@altrajuce93 I'm really sorry to hear this. Mcs are so hard xx

Hhdxx · 11/11/2021 12:36

My cramps have got worse but there isn't any bleeding. I'm so worried I literally don't know what to think about.
I've done a clear blue weekly indicator that says 1-2 weeks pregnant and a boots pregnancy test which isn't very strong at all.
Oh this is just so stressful.
If I didn't lose my daughter, I wouldn't be going through this. Makes it so much more stressful xx

altrajuce93 · 11/11/2021 11:37

Hey, can I join, I lost my baby at a few hours shy of 8 weeks on 15/10 less than 24 hours after an emergency scan which showed our baby "happy and healthy with a heartbeat". Trying so hard to be positive.

Skl2021 · 11/11/2021 10:46

@rainbows1389 it's been really faint past few days compared to todays. Just glad to be finally getting somewhere and not stuck wondering what's happening 🤦 get back to a bit of normality xx

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rainbows1389 · 11/11/2021 10:43

@Skl2021 thank you ☺️

Yeah I'd say maybe the next few days with the look of that LH test. That's how mine usually look a few days before my surge

Skl2021 · 11/11/2021 10:12

@rainbows1389 good luck with your testing soon 🤞✨

So ladies I'm three weeks since my miscarriage now and I think I may just be ovulating soon. I know it's not completely positive yet but hopefully over the next few days 🤞 just glad to be finally getting somewhere. What do we think? X

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rainbows1389 · 11/11/2021 09:59

@Rachae thanks for the advice! My previous 2 pregnancies I've always had cramping and it's always been a worry of mine that it was a sign I was going to miscarry (even though the miscarriages ended after that). I've been dreading getting a BFP and it happening again and starting my anxiety but that's made me feel better. Obviously some cramping can be a bad sign but it's good to know it is sometimes normal.

I'm currently 7dpo and planning to test in the next couple of days as I am meant to be out and having a drink for a mates birthday on Sunday. Don't know whether to avoid drink anyway just to be on the safe side

Rachae · 11/11/2021 09:53

@rainbows1389 yea so implantation is mild cramping 6-11dpo ... I think from 13+ (if implanted on a regular timeline, some are late) that's when the sac starts. It's super tiny around 4 weeks then grows from there. Cramping with no bleeding is always ok as the womb is adjusting xx

rainbows1389 · 11/11/2021 09:41

Congratulations on the BFP's guys! Lovely to see!

@Rachae does cramping after BFP mean the sac is forming then. I've always had bad period like cramps between week 4 and 5 and always wondering why because implantation has already occurred.

Skl2021 · 11/11/2021 09:37

@Rachae IV got everything crossed for you let's hope this is third time lucky and it's a very sticky bean 🙌🤞✨ xx

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Rachae · 11/11/2021 09:28

Thanks @Ladylou17 :-) My temperature dropped too yesterday, and I think that's when implantation occurred. Here's hoping it's happening for you! xx

Rachae · 11/11/2021 09:27

@Hhdxx thank you! Looks very much like your 10dpo in real life (cam is shit!) so I'm happy with that :-)
Test lines getting darker is the fundamental sign that your pregnancy is progressing - looking amazing. Cramping also mega positive as at this stage it means the sac is forming.
@Skl2021 thank you! I'm quite impressed that we got pregnant again straight away after mc... 3rd time this has happened now. We'll see what the next few days bring xx

Skl2021 · 11/11/2021 09:05

@Rachae I can definitely see a line 🤞✨ hope it gets darker for you!
@Hhdxx your lines are looking lovely definitely getting darker 💕
@Ladylou17 did you test today or are u waiting? Xx
This thread is looking like a lucky one ✨🤞🙌 all these lovely bfps xx

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Ladylou17 · 11/11/2021 08:49

@Hhdxx no I thought maybe try a FRER tomorrow. My temp has dropped significantly today as well but nowhere near time for AF, you reckon could be implantation at 11dpo?xx

@Rachae that looks positive! 💕 xx

Hhdxx · 11/11/2021 08:36

@Ladylou17 have you tried a different test? I'm only starting to show on internet cheapies at 13dpo and I mean really faint.

@Rachae a gentle congratulations, I can see a line. I've been doing a test every day and have been freaking out. I hate it. I've got cramps but my test isn't lighter so I guess that's a good sign? Xx

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Rachae · 11/11/2021 08:27

Btw I'm watching my line progression due to my 4 MCs. I don't recommend it to others though, it's just what me and my fiance agreed this time so we don't get attached xx

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