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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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claremc1983 · 15/12/2021 16:32

@Skl2021 argh will try! Looks like I won't be getting a BFP next week...I kind of new it wouldn't happen but I think in the back of your mind it's always a what if...I'll keep positive! Hoping my AF will clear everything out...have u any symptoms as yet?? X

JuniperAndTonic · 15/12/2021 16:29

@Hopingforarainbow27 I saw it and have added my name!

@claremc1983 how annoying! Probably jsut need a time to settle as @Skl2021 says. Hope you’ve had a good time away anyway!

@Skl2021 the TWW definitely goes painfully slowly! Hope you can find something to distract yourself!

I’m CD15, finally got a positive OPK today! And got a bit of ovulation pain today and EWCM yesterday and today so think I’ll count tomorrow as 1DPO. A little later than normal but just glad I seems to be ovulating as normal after the miscarriage. Our bodies are amazing aren’t they!

Skl2021 · 15/12/2021 16:27

@LittleMysSister my period is due around the 24th so will be a crappy Christmas present if it comes! Hopefully u still get a chance 🤞 it took me 8 months to get a bfp this time so hoping I'm not waiting that long again 😩 fingers crossed for the both of us! 🤞🤞 X

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LittleMysSister · 15/12/2021 15:55

CD8 for me following first AF after chemical. It has messed all my dates up though so I'm struggling to remember where I am in my cycle as I always used to match quite closely with the actual calendar (CD1 would be the 1st/2nd etc)!

Really hoping for some good news this month as we're approaching the time when I was planning on taking a break from TTC due to too many existing birthdays in Dec & Jan. I guess if this is still ongoing by then I might have to reconsider that, but it really would be so hard for us if another birthday popped up at that time of year.

Looked at Flo today and going by previous cycles it seems I may ovulate on Christmas Eve 👀 Which isn't ideal as DP is away for3 days before that so I'm worried we might miss our chance this month. But we'll be together 23rd onwards so hopefully we'll have a shot 🤞

Really, really hoping it works out this cycle, but I don't have much faith, given it took 5 months to get a bfp and then that ended up as a chemical.

Skl2021 · 15/12/2021 15:37

@Hopingforarainbow27 I have seen it and added my name 💞
@claremc1983 maybe your body just needs a bit longer to settle? Keep positive you will get there!

How is everyone? Any updates! I'm 4 dpo and slowly going insane with the wait 🙊🤦

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claremc1983 · 15/12/2021 14:03

Urgh what is my body doing?! Had about 4/5 days of no spotting now it's back again...I'm now 4+ weeks since my MMC. Fed up of it now x

Hopingforarainbow27 · 14/12/2021 23:04

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Hi everyone. Not sure if anyone has seen this new campaign!

Hopingforarainbow27 · 13/12/2021 23:00

@chasingtherainbow1 thank you, I had bloods done an apparently all normal.. so frustrating. Yeah conceiving is good but not much good if it doesn't stay. :( because you get your hopes up etc

claremc1983 · 13/12/2021 21:26

@Skl2021 and thank you!! Let me know when u start testing..sending u all the luck 🍀 in the world x

claremc1983 · 13/12/2021 21:25

I think when we fly home roughly 12/13 dpo?! I don't think it'll happen so soon after the MC...and not getting my hopes up but you never know I guess...xx

Skl2021 · 13/12/2021 20:41

@claremc1983 how many dpo will you be? How exciting ✨ got Everything crossed for you 🙌🤞 x

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claremc1983 · 13/12/2021 20:29

@Skl2021 nooooo...waiting till I get back!! Eek x

Skl2021 · 13/12/2021 19:53

@claremc1983 have u took tests with you or are you waiting until your back 🙊🤞👀 xx

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claremc1983 · 13/12/2021 19:44

😆😆 I know the feeling! We're away for 10 nights...so nice to be away from the UK and the constant talk of covid! X

chasingtherainbow1 · 13/12/2021 19:15

@Hopingforarainbow27 think I joined your other thread earlier. I have also had 2 mc and no children and feel like it's never going to happen for me. Fees like you'll never be fully happy again doesn't it.

I'm going to look into private testing in a few months if nothing has happened by them. Costs depending. I'm always on the lookout for other people in the same boat as me so give me a shout if you ever need anything. (Although I can't see private messages because I made this account with an Apple ID 😒)

Just try and remind yourself that at least we know we can get pregnant. My professor told me that's part of the obstacle already battled. Just praying it will happen for us one day

Skl2021 · 13/12/2021 17:53

@claremc1983.... S.l.o.w!!!!!! I want it over already 🤣🙈 I'm going to go mad by the end of it!! Absolutely not u deserve it enjoy yourself 🏖️🎉🌞🥂 how long u away for? Xx

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 13/12/2021 17:41

Anyone else had miscarriages and don't have any other children? I'm struggling today. Feeling there's something wrong with me and I'll never be happy

claremc1983 · 13/12/2021 08:34

Hope everyone is well?! How's the 2WW going @Skl2021 I feel a bit Envythis am. But could just be down to the wine I had last night! 😂...But I am roughly 7ish days DPO...am I a bad person drinking in the 2WW?? We are on hol....😩 x

Skl2021 · 12/12/2021 18:55

@NooNoo88 I'm so sorry your going through this. IV got everything crossed for you that it's good news tomorrow. Will be thinking of you ✨💞 xx

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NooNoo88 · 12/12/2021 18:17

Hi all, afraid I've got bad news, started bleeding heavily and lots of pain so have been to a&e today. Got sent home and told to come back tomorrow for a scan and blood tests etc but I know it's not going to be a positive result 😔 I'll of course update you more tomorrow when we know more. I hope you're all doing well and your babies are safe and happy ❤️

Skl2021 · 12/12/2021 17:12

@JuniperAndTonic glad you didn't get a peak while u were away 🙌 haha now time to start DTD 🤣 I'm glad mines over now I don't want to DTD any more thankyou!! 🤣🙈 I'm 1 dpo today so now I have the dreaded tww it's going to drive me insane 👀🙌 xx

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JuniperAndTonic · 12/12/2021 16:23

Hi all, checking in after my weekend away! Sorry to hear about your miscarriage @20viona, I know how you feel - nearly 6 weeks since my miscarriage and I am desperate to be pregnant again!

CD12 here, no peak over the weekend and OPKs don’t seem to be getting much darker but hopefully that will change in the next couple of days. Absolutely knackered tonight but need to DTD now I’m home so I’ll have to just get on with it 😂

Jayjane79 · 12/12/2021 10:58

@20viona

Hi all. Just had a MC at 5 weeks. Keen to get pregnant again it's all I can think about. You never think this will happen to you do you! Hoping my body adjust quickly and we can move on.
I'm in the same position as you. I've just had my peak opk this morning 17 days from when my MC started. I have no intentions of waiting a cycle so I started my opk's the day my bleeding stopped at CD9. They were negative straight away which I was pleased about so I didn't have any confusion when I got My positive. This Is the first time using the premom app I'm not sure how I feel about the picture taking of opk's it can vary.

Anyway I'm annoyed I didn't dtd CD15 but I was giving the other half a rest build his swimmers up, so im really hoping I've hit it right this month. I would love a BFP Christmas day.

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
20viona · 12/12/2021 10:25

Hi all. Just had a MC at 5 weeks. Keen to get pregnant again it's all I can think about. You never think this will happen to you do you! Hoping my body adjust quickly and we can move on.

Jayjane79 · 12/12/2021 06:48

I've just got My peak opk 17 days after my MC started. Wish me luck for my BFP for Christmas.