Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

😆😆🙈 no not at all!! I'd be the same. Will u test again tomorrow or leave it a few days now? @Skl2021 x

@LittleMysSister 😂😂😂 it's such awkward timing!! Oh that's interesting....maybe it was that then. I just hope me retained pregnancy tissue disappears with this AF x

@Skl2021 ha ha I know!!! Soooo awks..having a great time thanks! Weathers been amazing so far..spa day tomorrow. Parents are out with us do babysitting tonight so we can go out. Glad u are ok.are u holding out til day 7?? X

[quote claremc1983]@Skl2021 It's quite intense so must be AF. Just find it weird that it was only a week after ovulation..how u getting on?? Annoyingly I'll be fertile when we're staying at my parents for Christmas. Can't be getting jiggy under their roof 😂🙈 x[/quote]
Looool this is the same for me...will either be at my PIL's or my parent's house when I am ovulating by the looks of it! Bloody typical.

My AF also arrived a week after I got my static smiley, wondering whether that was the 2nd surge people sometimes mention before AF rather than true ovulation. Who knows.

@Skl2021 It's quite intense so must be AF. Just find it weird that it was only a week after ovulation..how u getting on?? Annoyingly I'll be fertile when we're staying at my parents for Christmas. Can't be getting jiggy under their roof 😂🙈 x

@Cruz86 Yes totally agree, don't know if I'm being stupid to even give it a second thought tbh since it took me 5 months to even get a bfp at all so not really sure I've got the luxury of being so picky. It would mean I only have Dec, Jan and Feb to get a positive before I have to stop for 2 months

But it genuinely would be so difficult for us to have another birthday around that time of year. Plus my sister's birthday is January and she has always hated it, and it's such a pain in the arse for everyone else in terms of trying to buy her a gift/wanting to go out to celebrate, it really is the worst time to have a birthday. I'd take December if it wasn't for one of my SCs having their birthday then, at least it's a cheery month.

Tbh I didn't really think it would take long enough to become an issue :( I specifically waited until May to come off my pill in order to rule out Dec/Jan birthdays and looks like it's come back to bite me as I can't imagine I'll get a bfp over the next couple of months tbh.

Oh don't, that would be the last thing we need @claremc1983 😂 I think I'll probably just see what happens, no tracking ovulation etc. If it happens, it happens. What are you thinking of doing? I haven't taken a test yet, I'm too scared about what it'll do to me mentally when I see a negative 😞 x

@Cruz86 I know!! I could just imagine the due date being on the first day of term...will u TTC regardless now then or still undecided!? It's so difficult..I think we'll start again once AF is out the way...just need my tests to show negative now as well x

Ahh I'm so glad I'm not the only one feeling mixed thoughts because of timings! I felt terrible saying it because there are people struggling to fall pregnant and would happily have a baby whatever month of the year, but I just couldn't help thinking about it.

My boy starts school in September too @claremc1983. The thought of navigating that and birth/a newborn really stresses me out. But I really want to be pregnant again 😩

@LittleMysSister mine was a July baby too. I was so excited to have a Summer baby 😞

@Cruz86 @claremc1983 OMG I so get what you mean about timings...like I said in my comment above, we have SO many family birthdays in Dec/Jan, and these include my 2 SCs. And Christmas as well! So hard to afford and too much going on.

My recent MC would have been due in July, it would have been perfect :(

@Cruz86 I think I ovulated around a similar time to you...like you my timings for this pregnancy were perfect. The baby would have been due in May, and my eldest would start school in Sept..if I start TTC now then I'd be due around Sept/Oct which I didn't really want..argh! But I'm not getting any younger....x

@Skl2021 so I'm bleeding quite a bit now and can see a bit more of the 'pregnancy material' coming away. Sorry for TMI...but if I only ovulated around last Monday/Tuesday could this be AF or just the rest of my lining finally coming away?? X

Yes it's been completely negative pregnancy tests since Saturday. That's good news that you seemed to Ovulate so quickly! Fingers crossed for you.

Hi girls. Had a miscarriage last week and wondering how the hell do I work my cycle out now? I usually do OPKs from about day 9 but I dont know when to start.

Hi all. I had a medically managed miscarriage and passed everything on the 30th November. My bleeding stopped completely by last Friday. I'm now experiencing A LOT of ewcm, so much more than I'd normally get! Surely it's too early for me to be ovulating already? It's really stressing me out because I'm so desperate to try again now if it is, but it will mean (if I did conceive this cycle) that the due date would be 2 weeks before my first born's birthday and 1.5 weeks before my niece. I'm so torn with what to do and whether I should just go for it or wait a couple of cycles 😩 the timings were just so perfect with my previous pregnancy 😞

I will! Thank you...no more stressing for either of us! 😬 x

Try hold off as much as you can....I know that's super hard though! I have everything crossed 🤞🏻 for you...I'm not sure if it's actually AF arriving actually. Seems more like bleeding than spotting now, kind of hope it is so I can hopefully get rid of all this retained pregnancy material and start again afresh next cycle...x