Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

987 replies

Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

OP posts:
Thread gallery
50
Tofu35 · 29/12/2021 12:56

I'm with @Sparklesurprise29, I personally would (and did), my only trouble was going into the FW the day after my jag- had to hope I didn't have a dead arm/sore arm for too long!

Sparklesurprise29 · 29/12/2021 10:54

Its so strange @cruz86! I think when spotting starts you just expect it to continue then when it doesn't it feels a bit random! I'm going to continue with a pantyliner if going out and about I think! 😅

Totally a personal choice @claremc1983 but I personally would as I didn't notice any difference to my cycle with the other 2 jags. I got my booster a few days after my MC, didn't notice any side effects apart from a sore arm☺ but if you did notice a change in your cycle then it might be best to wait?

Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 10:40

I personally wouldn't @claremc1983 but I've seen many people on here who have! X

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 10:30

Ladies - I'm due my covid booster in my 2WW. Would you risk it?? 😬

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 10:29

@Cruz86 I feel exactly the same x

Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 09:50

I really need to try and adopt that mindset too - I'm already worried about being pregnant again and I've only just miscarried! Mine has completely stopped too @Sparklesurprise29. Absolutely nothing this morning. Don't know whether to take my cup out or whether it's risky!! X

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 09:50

we've been 'on it' since the 23rd with one night off! 😂😂😂 hoping for another few days of DTD then will give it a rest..hope that's enough! It's so hard to know what to do for the best...@Sparklesurprise29 @Cruz86

Sparklesurprise29 · 29/12/2021 09:39

Thats good you're around ovulation! Keeping my fingers crossed for you @claremc1983!😀
No more spotting for me since that one small amount yesterday morning🤔

Sparklesurprise29 · 29/12/2021 09:37

It just shows how everyone is different @Cruz86😀Thats my mindset going forward with TTC too - when it happens it'll be a different egg, different pregnancy, different outcome 💖

Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 09:07

Oh exciting! Time to get down to it 😂 x

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 07:29

@Cruz86 somewhere roughly around ovulation I think....😆 x

Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 22:54

Haha thank you @claremc1983, I'll report back! Where are you in your cycle sorry? X

claremc1983 · 28/12/2021 22:44

You never know @Cruz86 😬 everything crossed 🤞🏻 x

Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 18:43

How coincidental @Sparklesurprise29!! We'll have to see how in sync our cycles stay 😂 My mc was slightly different though, everything passed on the 30th Nov and then I was bleeding right up until the 9th.

Ahh don't @claremc1983!! 😂 I don't think I will, only because my cycle could be different now and we only dtd once!

Sparklesurprise29 · 28/12/2021 18:38

Bizarrely enough @Cruz86 my bleeding also completely stopped by 9th Dec too so we are at a similar stage in terms with waiting on AF☺
@MO22 the bleeding lasted from 29th Nov to 9th Dec, did a preg test on 20th Dec and it was negative - 2 days prior it was still slightly positive. I spotted 7th-9th, I had passed the sac on the 5th💖

claremc1983 · 28/12/2021 18:32

Eek you going to do a test @Cruz86 ?! X

Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 18:27

And no af yet, need to add!

claremc1983 · 28/12/2021 18:25

@MO22 I think I had about 4/5 days of no bleeding between MC and AF if that helps? X

Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 18:08

And I didn't do opks between then and now so I have no idea if I've actually ovulated or just had lots of ewcm!

Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 18:07

Sounds like your cycle is exactly like mine @Sparklesurprise29! I'm also on cd29 and af would've arrived by now pre-mc, so I think my body is trying to do what it needs to do as well.

My bleeding stopped fully on the 9th December @MO22 and this is the first bit of spotting I've had since.

MO22 · 28/12/2021 18:00

@Cruz86 @Sparklesurprise29 did you guys properly finished bleeding from MC with negative test/before AF arrived?

Mine is constantly on and off still, and OPK is saying nothing is happening, so wonder if I'm not yet back to "normal" if I keep spotting?

Sparklesurprise29 · 28/12/2021 16:31

I've been having a lot of cm too @cruz86... Its so difficult when its so unknown! That one time dtd might've done it for you! 💖
Its hard to tell especially when it says online about AF tending to arrive 4-6 post MC. I'm technically on day 29 (first day of MC spotting) which is how long my typical cycle was pre MC so maybe thats a sign that AF wants to start...

Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 14:15

I've also had some spotting @Sparklesurprise29 but it hasn't progressed to anything else. Started 2 days ago and is literally a tiny amount, but lots of cm. I'm starting to wonder about implantation bleeding but we literally dtd once about 11 days ago and I'm not sure if I ovulated then. Before my mc, af would've arrived by now so I'm not sure if it's just different cycle patterns now or it could be more! X

Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 14:12

I'll prepare for a long af just in case! Thank you @claremc1983. Your opk is likely to still have a faint line after ovulation! I was still doing them up until about 7dpo and it never changed to just one line x

Sparklesurprise29 · 28/12/2021 14:12

Thanks @Skl2021 and @claremc1983, glad AF wasn't too painful! Not too sure re. OPKs but I definitely think regularly DTD can't do any harm to cover a potential window😀
@cruz86 I agree, the thought of really painful AF as well as a lot of bleeding would be a lot to handle just now I think, I could cope with one but not the other😦
A part of me is hoping it could be implantation bleeding but probably more likely to be AF!

Swipe left for the next trending thread