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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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Skl2021 · 30/12/2021 17:27

@claremc1983 is he feeling better? 😬 Haha early night kids sorry 👋 x

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claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 17:20

@Skl2021 ha ha he's home....just need to pack the kids off to bed! 😂😂 x

aesgriff · 30/12/2021 17:14

@claremc1983 yay 😍😍

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Skl2021 · 30/12/2021 16:13

@claremc1983 last month I ovulated on cd 17 but who knows I don't follow a pattern! 🙈 Will just start testing daily around day 10 and see what happens! Yes your definitely ovulating! I hope oh is ready 🤣🙊 xx

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claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 15:58

Ahh hope you are ok @Cruz86 did another a few hours ago and definitely looking hopeful. Have messaged DH to tell him what needs to be done once he gets home 😆

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Cruz86 · 30/12/2021 12:53

Yes! I would say dtd today and tomorrow for definite @claremc1983! How exciting 😀

Af has arrived for me this morning so onto the next cycle! X

claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 12:24

@Skl2021 oh don't! Honestly I could start a new thread with his various ailments over the years..that reminds me when I was in labour he told he I had a 'low pain threshold'..40 mins later our baby arrived! 😂😂..id love it for men to experience what we go through!
When's your ovulation due? Hopefully all will be fine x

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Skl2021 · 30/12/2021 12:08

@claremc1983 case of the old man flu 🤣 obviously they get it 10x worse than women 🙄 tell him to get on with it there's baby dancing that needs doing 😂 I'm feeling ok thankyou hopefully it stays like this 🤞 my oh is quite a bit worse but he hasn't had a booster. Just hoping it's gone before ovulation 🤞😬 x

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claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 12:03

@Skl2021 I know!! 😆😆 typical man - he's convinced it's covid but it's not. Think we can safely say the lack of LFT's is down to him....how are u feeling?? X

aesgriff · 30/12/2021 12:02

@claremc1983 yep it's an app. Press tests in the middle and you take a pic of your OPKs and it tells you the ratio. I did it every day after my miscarriage which is why it's such a long cycle. I ovulated about 15 days after my first negative HCG test.

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Skl2021 · 30/12/2021 12:01

@claremc1983 oh dear I hope it's not covid 🤞 your copying my last month 🤣🤦 we fought through the cold I'm sure u can persuade him 🙌😉 always something at ovulation isn't there 🙈 x

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claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 11:59

@aesgriff ooh not heard of that? Is it an app?? Thanks x

claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 11:58

@20viona @Skl2021 argh! Poor DH...ha ha! He's full of 'cold' now..typical! Will persuade him though 😉...I'm day 16 now. Never usually ovulate this late but had that super long AF so wondering if that's affecting things x

aesgriff · 30/12/2021 11:53

@claremc1983 have you tried using Premom? You can take pictures of your tests and it applies a ratio to them. Here's mine for example.

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20viona · 30/12/2021 11:23

@claremc1983 that bottom one looks positive to me! Get busy!

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Skl2021 · 30/12/2021 10:46

@claremc1983 I'd say that's positive or just about might go a smidge darker! Get busy 🤣 again! What cd u on now? X

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Sparklesurprise29 · 30/12/2021 10:45

I would've been 12 weeks today...woke up this morning and convinced myself that I'm pregnant! after going out for a costa I feel a bit more settled 😅 keep having weird pregnancy dreams recently which doesn't help- didn't really have any when I was actually pregnant

Sparklesurprise29 · 30/12/2021 10:41

I'd say the bottom one looks really strong @claremc1983! I think its a definite positive opk💕

claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 10:05

Right I'm back obsessively peeing on OPK's 😆 so the darkest one I've just taken this am. It's still not quite there or is it? I'll do another 2 today. One mid aft and one in evening though x

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Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 23:25

Oh I'm glad yours is just mild! Mine was bad from the beginning so hopefully yours won't progress any more. No I'm not vaccinated so again, if you are, you should be okay! ☺️ x

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Skl2021 · 29/12/2021 23:15

@Cruz86 oh I hope I don't get that bad 😩 just a bit of a blocked nose and slight headache. Hoping it's gone before ovulation 🤞 are you vaccinated? X

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claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 22:52

@Cruz86 good plan! I have a stash of cheapies so will do that x

Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 22:51

I'm sure I'm probably just looking for something to blame @Skl2021 but I'll always wonder! I was in bed for 4 days and then it took me another 5/6 days to recover. It was tough! How are you feeling? X

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Skl2021 · 29/12/2021 22:48

@Cruz86 thankyou! How were you when you had it? That's what I'm scared of that it's going to affect everything 😩 x

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Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 22:43

Hmm interesting, I'll take a look - thank you @Hopingforarainbow27!

Oh I missed that you had Covid @Skl2021. Sorry to hear that. I had it in my TWW with the pregnancy I lost and I'll always wonder whether it affected anything 😞 Hope you're not feeling too rough.

Hopefully yours is a good sign @Sparklesurprise29! I think af will be arriving tomorrow which isn't such a bad thing. At least I'll know what my body is doing.

@claremc1983 could you maybe do one in the morning, one in the afternoon and one in the evening? Just so you have no chance of missing your surge!

Welcome @aesgriff, although it's never nice when new people have to join a thread like this. Sorry for your loss 😞 good luck for this cycle!! Not too much longer before you can test 🤞🏻