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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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20viona · 02/01/2022 17:02

@Skl2021 @Slops1990 men are a different breed I swear. But I don't tell my husband when I'm ovulating I think it would be too much pressure on us both so I tell you lot instead 🤣. Just cracked a bottle or fizz in the bath to brighten the day!

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 16:38

@Slops1990 I did that for one cycle never again it killed me off 🤦🤣 I can hardly be bothered to do it in fertile week 🙈 but yes oh absolutely loved it! 😂

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Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 16:29

@20viona my other half is loving life, i dont think i have ever seen him smile quite so much hah.
I must say towards the end of the cycle it does get a bit exhausting haha

20viona · 02/01/2022 16:26

@Slops1990 every other day for a whole cycle
Would kill me off 🤣 my husband would be pleased though haha.

Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 16:19

Thanks for such a lovely welcome everyone 😊
Its very hard not to becone fixated, my previous cycles to this one i have become obsessed with symptom spotting & taking pregnancy tests. My consultant said to have sex every other day throughout the whole month & it covers all bases. So this cycle i am just chilling out about it all a bit, well trying to, and hoping for the best.
Good luck to everyone for this cycle!

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 15:05

@Slops1990 I had my miscarriage in October I was 12 weeks. I'm now on my second cycle since. Its taken me different amounts of times with each pregnancy 🤦 Good luck ✨

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aesgriff · 02/01/2022 15:03

@Sparklesurprise29 let us know how you get on 🥰 our bodies are strange things aren't they. I haven't had a period yet but I hope if this is your period it's kind to you xx

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 15:02

@Sparklesurprise29 if it is af then just think fresh new start ❤️ mine was surprisingly normal so hope yours is too ✨

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Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 14:51

Hi everyone - wiped and bright red. Having slight twinges too... Keeping my fingers crossed for you all🤞 this will be my first AF post MC, hoping its not too heavy and sore💕

@aesgriff thats looking promising for IB, I read it can be dark brown! 💕

aesgriff · 02/01/2022 14:34

@20viona I feel like this happened to me in my first pregnancy but I wasn't paying much attention 🤦🏻‍♀️ now I am close to googling every little twinge.

@Sparklesurprise29 about the same DPO as me! We can be worried together ♥️ it's only on wiping so far and dark brown. I've attached a pic just to explain what I mean.

@Slops1990 welcome! I had a MMC for my first pregnancy at 8 weeks. D&C on 8th November at nearly 11 weeks. I haven't had a period yet since the D&C (nearly 8 weeks ago!) but got a peak OPK on 22nd December.

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20viona · 02/01/2022 14:23

@Sparklesurprise29 @aesgriff could be IB. with my first pregnancy I had what I thought was a short light period for 2 days the week before my BFP. Turned out to be IB.

Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 14:21

@calimc83 I'm really hoping it could be, not had any more but will keep an eye on it☹ similar to the spotting I had on the 28th that was just from wiping then didn't have any more...
what day DPO are you on now?💕

@aesgriff thinking 9/10 dpo, its so annoying ☹ mine has been on wiping too, keeping my fingers crossed for you🤞

Welcome @slops1990 sorry for your losses ☹💕 I had a MC start of Dec so started trying as soon as the bleeding stopped, trying for my first x

20viona · 02/01/2022 14:18

@Slops1990 so sorry for your losses. My MC was only last month and I got pregnant on my second cycle. Hoping to get pregnant straight away. My daughter is 2.5 and I would love her to have a sibling. It's so hard not to become fixated!

Slops1990 · 02/01/2022 13:41

Hi everyone i hope you dont mind me joining.
Im so sorry fof evryones loses.
Just curious how many cycles post miscarriage everyone is on ttc?
I had a still birth in August & a CP in oct. I have fallen really quickly before. I have a 3& a half year old daughter who was conceived on 2nd cycle & my stillborn son who was conceived on first. Im now 4 cycles in & becoming so fruatrated!

aesgriff · 02/01/2022 13:39

@Sparklesurprise29 how many days DPO are you? I'm 10 and had brown spotting this morning but nothing since.. had very very light tiny amount on two wipes yesterday and day before too. Trying to think positively but it's so hard to x

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 13:36

@Sparklesurprise29 could it be implantation? X

Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 13:35

I'm thinking maybe 9 or 10 @calimc83
I got a positive opk the 23rd but no peak as was testing every 1-2 days once a day then stopped so thinking ovulation maybe happened around then or 24th xx

calimc83 · 02/01/2022 13:31

@Sparklesurprise29 what day dpo are you now?! ( changed my username from Claremc83) xx

Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 13:08

Had some brown spotting mixed with cm so thinking its been an evap☹

Skl2021 · 02/01/2022 11:47

@aesgriff I got strong lh tests last time I was pregnant I got them before I got the bfp so 🤞 but some people do also get a surge in lh before af so it can be hard to tell. Good luck ✨🙌
@20viona definitely peak 🎉 get busy! At least u know where u are now!
@Sparklesurprise29 I always get ewcm around ovulation so I don't think it's happening yet. I get it for days usually so can't see it happening any time soon 🤔 might start DTD today will see what my opk is like later! 🤞 No have no lube I did use that with my first tho. X

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Sparklesurprise29 · 02/01/2022 11:14

@claremc1983 Resisted the urge to test again this morning, wonder if I'll last till tomorrow 😂 going to take down the Christmas decorations, should keep me and DH busy! 💕

@skl2021 you might have a couple of days till peak! Its looking good though! Can you start dtd today/tomorrow? Have you got any conception lube since no ewcm? Not sure if it actually works but it did for me last time I fell pregnant😂

@20viona Put a film on for them🤣 hope you can manage to DTD and make it quick😅

@aesgriff still early💕I don't mind seeing a pic, always good for another opinion! When I had a very slight bit last week I showed DH since he was at home because I wasn't sure 💖

20viona · 02/01/2022 10:51

@Skl2021 @Sparklesurprise29 well Iv had a peak OPK today, couldn't be any stronger! So confused but will DTD today hopefully if my 2 year old who won't nap anymore allows it 🤣

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aesgriff · 02/01/2022 09:55

BFN on FRER at 10dpo 🥺
Weirdly got a strong line on an OPK thought (just cos why PO 1 stick when you can do 2 😃)
Do we think I'm out for this month?! Got some brown spotting too but only when wiping. Is it TMI if I attach a photo of the spotting?!

Skl2021 · 01/01/2022 19:26

@20viona well good luck 🤞✨
@aesgriff I know it looks very close to peak 🤔🤦 I don't know what's happening its way to early 🙄 oooh fingers crossed it's implantation hopefully u test positive soon 🤞🙌
@Sparklesurprise29 yes it's too strong for my likening 🙄🤣 haven't started DTD it better hadnt be ovulation 🤦 I'm only cd 9 surely not?!

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claremc1983 · 01/01/2022 19:22

Keep us updated @Sparklesurprise29 x